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[tempestuous-tiger]

EDUCATE YOURSELVES ON ALL THREE. AMPLIFY THE VOICES OF THESE COUNTRIES AND THEIR PEOPLE.

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NO ONE GETS LEFT BEHIND!

[oddarette]

“Do Dead Malls Go To Heaven?”

Experimented a bit with a new way of detailing the tiles. Kinda like it? This particular piece took a hell of a lot of work. I’d love if you shared the vibes it’s giving off, for research purposes 💖

[legofemme]

Shitty comic day i didnt forget you this year

[legofemme]

Reblogs r back on so BEHAVE.

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

Part 2

[jussanother]

[sometiktoksarevalid]

[doberbutts]

My dad is Deaf and has been since before he met my mother. He had multiple different devices to monitor my sisters and I growing up- including a noise detector that would vibrate the bed or the couch and say exactly which room the loud noise was being made in. As a child I remember understanding that he could not "hear" me if we weren't looking at each other, and that I had to speak clearly in order for him to understand. He tells me as a toddler I used to ask him to get on my level, put my hands on his face, and ask him if he could understand me- and only once he verified would I say or ask anything. He used to leave me a signed note every day before school when I was in high school, giving me a different blessing and a couple bucks to buy a snack.

But also- hearing children of deaf adults (CODAs) are often more empathetic, more accepting of others' differences and challenges, more emotionally mature and able to read others' body language and visual cues, with experiences more similar to bicultural and bilingual children of the same age, because being raised Deaf while hearing is a look into two very different worlds. Not that I think anyone should need to prove their worth, but the statistics show the exact opposite of these doctors' expectations of Deaf parents. Deaf adults more often than not raise intelligent and well-structured kids that connect more readily with others, there is no additional risk of neglect more than any hearing parent.

[ebx3]

[coquette-club]

[thickness-protection-program]

I hope all black people have a good day and good mental health day

[slimegargoyle]

guys you gotta stop thinking of women in their 30s as elderly it’s just misogyny

[courtesyname]

you also gotta stop thinking about actual elderly women as lesser human beings. Youth is not a measure of one’s worth.

[tripplers]

[mxjackparker]

Hate that the term "post-nut clarity" gets applied to guilt and shame people feel after watching porn or having sex. These feelings aren't any more real or reasonable that the horniness was. You don't have clarity, you're just not horny anymore and grew up in a culture that told you to be ashamed of sex and masturbation.

[anachronic-cobra]

It's also wild how often I see people talking about "post-nut clarity" when what they're describing is a drop.

It's more commonly talked about in bdsm spaces as subdrop, but you can drop as a dom or even just after vanilla sex or masturbation, especially if it was more intense than you normally experience.

A drop happens when you've been building up a lot of those feel-good chemicals in your brain during sex, then suddenly the sex is over and your brain overcompensates in trying to rebalance. You might feel depressed, anxious, regretful, ashamed. It can happen immediately after or even a few days after. This can happen even if you're normally a very sex-positive person.

It isn't post-nut clarity! You're either dealing with internalized shame towards sex in general or you're having a temporary chemical imbalance. Maybe even both! Pamper yourself after. Forgive yourself. The thoughts you're having in that moment aren't necessarily rational ones.

Be generous with yourself, do something comforting after sex - it's like a workout cooldown. Take it easy on yourself and give your brain something positive to focus on to ease into the loss of the chemical rush.

[t4timekeeper]

hey if you defend people tooth and nail when they’re being racist on the basis of them being queer/trans/whatever your ass is getting blocked i dont want you here mate

[t4timekeeper]

like i cannot stress enough that they aren’t doing that out of any kind of love or allyship or solidarity with gay/trans people. they are, first and foremost, doing it because they’re racist.

[jinx-67-luckie]

All this nausea and all this medicine but the only thing that made me feel better is mentos gum

[jinx-67-luckie]

I was a fool to think i could have surgery, come home and not vomit at some point 😞🤢 a fucking fool. And the pain is mf different and I have to eat! like eat eat, constantly! that's always been hard for me but now the consequences are unrelenting 🥺😫😭 it's a bad time friends im struggling with day two for sure

[winchesterwhorehouse]

[lyouve]

Someone asked me what I bring to the table but I don’t even wanna sit at the same table as them