blog thesis: opinions change, i'm often a fan of players more than teams. i like multiple teams simultaneously. blame my upbringing for being anti-sports. here for the narratives and the joy and the sadness that are at the root of all sports. i rpf, but i don't tinhat, so take everything here through that lens and protect the fourth wall. chronic user of long and recycled tags.
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tier lists below the cut!
hockey rpf notes
rpf ships listed on my carrd :)
compelling narratives: bc freshman line, the long and storied history of doomed philadelphia yaoi, trevor zegras and way too many of his teammates, the matvei michkov/denver barkey/oliver bonk/porter martone of it all, childhood teammates, and the lovers to strangers pipeline so many ships embark on.
basketball rpf notes
rpf ships listed on my carrd :)
compelling narratives: nova knicks, the castle/fox/harper backcourt something
jes, i need you to know your impact... i followed you early in the heated rivalry craze and then became increasingly fascinated by sidgeno bc of your blogging. fell into a deep dive of men's hockey rpf and now god help me... i care about the sport... after a childhood spent around evil hockey players, no less! i'd foresworn the whole thing! what's worse is that i have essays forming in my head about hockey, rpf, disability in professional sport, etc, and i fear i might need to start writing down my thoughts.
what have you done to me!! i cannot articulate how Not Into Sport i was prior to this! anyway if you have any books u can recommend about hockey so i can read them for my Essays, please do... i guess...
I’m so delighted for you!! and cannot wait to read any and all essays you might write!! most of my hockey book reading has been limited to books about how toxic juniors culture is (for research reasons) but I bet there is lots of interesting work out there. I think(?) @talahui made a rec list a while back and might have book recs to share, and others should feel free to chime in.
hi anon -- I also have a preoccupation with disability in sport -- particularly tied to TBIs and CTE -- so feel free to shoot me a message if you ever get stuck on something because I might have random articles tucked away depending on what you're looking for.
More broadly, here are some posts that have collected hockey books that might be of interest:
@starrynet 's rec list of fiction/non-fiction + more recs in the replies/reblogs
my rec list for an earlier jes anon requesting hockey writing
@sequestering 's rec list for the same anon
you can also dig around my cte tag and find links to articles that would likely tie into your interest on disability, but a few articles as a jumping off point:
Eric Lindros is worried about everyone's concussions but his own | Michael Rosenberg
Enforcers: Soul on Ice | Kent Russell [this essay rewired my brain]
‘What hurts now?’ For retired NHL goalies, the answer is often: everything | Scott Cruickshank [non-paywalled link]
John Branch wrote a brilliant book called Boy on Ice, but this interview on NPR talks about some of the disabling aspects of hockey, specifically for athletes in an enforcer role
& while this is not hockey, I pulled a few sections (+1) from Michael Bennett's memoir that align a lot with your interest around disability and sport.
How Dylan Strome became the Capitals' secret ingredient
by Kristen Shelton for ESPN 1.28.25
Dylan Strome can't stop outdoing himself. And that's a good thing -- for Strome, and the Washington Capitals.
Strome is the Capitals' leading scorer (with 12 goals and 46 points in 49 games) and is on pace to put up a third consecutive career-best season. Washington's top-line center has been a backbone to the club's surprising success and helped carry the Capitals through their challenging stretches.
The 27-year-old stepped up offensively when frequent linemate Alex Ovechkin was sidelined five weeks because of a fractured fibula, notching five goals and 10 points while shouldering 18:24 of ice time per game. And he has been markedly consistent in his production, with a recent six-game pointless streak the only real "drought" to date.
But Strome doesn't need to be on the scoresheet to have an impact. What he does well -- at 5-on-5 and the power play -- is reflected in a strong 200-foot game that has elevated the Capitals into Stanley Cup contenders. If that reality caught anyone around the league off guard, well, let's just say Strome knew Washington was something special -- and that eventually, he'd prove to (former) doubters that he is, too.
DYLAN STROME LEAVES quite an impression. And not just on the ice.
Conor Sheary recalls the early days around his former Capitals teammate with a hearty laugh over Strome's puzzling -- but undeniably infectious -- personality.
"My first thoughts on Dylan? That's a loaded question," Sheary said. "I think with his appearance, he comes off like a pretty goofy kid. He's always in a good mood. He almost seems lazy at times, just because he's kind of laid back and just doing his own thing.
"But then he goes into a game and is the ultimate teammate. It's crazy. He's someone who just fits in right away, and guys want to be around him."
Alex DeBrincat recalled a similar interaction with Strome when he arrived to the Ontario Hockey League's Erie Otters -- and swiftly discovered Strome's magnetism.
"He was the guy who really welcomed me in and made me feel comfortable," DeBrincat said. "During [training] camp, a lot of the guys would go over to his house and Stromer invited me to hang out there too with some of the older guys. He's pretty goofy, always trying to have a good time. He runs with that and makes the most of everything. We just clicked right away."
The pairing of DeBrincat and Strome on a line -- which included Connor McDavid -- led them to scorching the OHL in seasons to come. It wouldn't be the only team on which Strome and DeBrincat found quick chemistry, either (but more on that later).
The trio of DeBrincat, McDavid and Strome lit up the OHL.
It was Strome's reputation as a happy-go-lucky kid that preceded him to the NHL draft floor in 2015, where the Arizona Coyotes called his name with the third pick. The walk on stage that followed -- with the hand shaking and the jersey acceptance and a wide-toothed grin at the cameras -- was Strome taking his first steps onto an unexpected roller coaster that would jostle him through the next handful of years.
That wasn't exactly the plan.
Strome, now 27, entered the league as a highly touted prospect who had just won the 2015 OHL scoring title with 129 points (he narrowly topped linemate McDavid, who was limited to just 47 games because of injury but still scored 120 points). The idea was for Strome to become a pillar of the Coyotes franchise.
Instead, he skated in just 48 games for Arizona over three seasons, accumulating only seven goals and 16 points before being traded in November 2018 to the Chicago Blackhawks. A tumultuous tenure there ended acrimoniously, and pushed Strome to the Capitals -- the comfortable landing spot for Strome that he'd given DeBrincat a decade before in Erie.
It hasn't been easy. But for better or worse, Strome is convinced he's just getting started.
"You're never going to completely shed [certain] labels and you're always going to be drafted where you were drafted. I think that's always going to be part of my hockey story," Strome said. "It didn't work out in Arizona. I thought it was going really well in Chicago until I hit a few speed bumps in the road.
"But then you get to Washington, and [in hindsight] those other places prepared me to be a good player on a good team. And I feel like that's where I'm at now, where I'm trying to produce on a good team. And so far, it's been fun."
Fun, and then some. It was a long time coming.
STROME IS HARDWIRED to see the good.
It's how he got through those early years being labeled a "bust" on whom the rebuilding Coyotes had wasted their coveted third overall selection. There was no escaping such narratives while Strome was struggling, shuffled between the NHL and American Hockey League when his peers were thriving in their own locales; McDavid, No. 2 pick Jack Eichel and No. 5 pick Noah Hanifin transitioned right to the NHL, while No. 4 pick Mitch Marner debuted in the NHL a season later.
"When you see guys around you doing so well and even playing [at all] in the NHL, yeah, it's in your mind that you don't want to be the guy that was drafted high and never made it or never played," Strome said. "You never know if you'll find your [place] and if the rest of that stuff and that talk will ever go away."
Strome, left, took a bit longer to reach his peak than No. 1 pick Connor McDavid and No. 2 pick Jack Eichel.
The conversation around Strome hit a fever pitch when Arizona traded him and Brendan Perlini to Chicago for Nick Schmaltz after Strome had appeared in 20 games in the 2018-19 season. It was an initially positive switch for Strome when he was reunited on a line with former Otters' teammate DeBrincat along with Patrick Kane -- and broke out with the best numbers of his career to that point (17 goals and 51 points in 58 games).
Strome produced well in Chicago over the next two years as well -- notching 21 goals and 55 points in 98 outings -- and signed a two-year, $6 million contract extension in January 2021.
Then the wheels began to fall off.
The Blackhawks endured a brutal start to the 2021-22 season, going 1-9-2 and seeing coach Jeremy Colliton fired. Strome was a healthy scratch in seven of Chicago's first 11 games, and it wasn't until Colliton was out -- and interim head coach Derek King stepped in -- that Strome was back in a top-six position. But the previous benching had taken its toll.
"I feel like when you're drafted high, you get a little longer leash and people know that the skill is there and it's in you to play well," Strome said. "So then when there are times where you haven't played in five games and then you go in and you don't play very well and then you're out again and suddenly it's like, 'When's the next time you're even going to play again?'
"I always believed in myself, but you question, 'What's going to happen here?' You think to yourself, 'How long can I do this for? How long are they going to allow me to do this for?'"
King could see the strain on Strome when he took over from Colliton. The goofiness that defined Strome to others was kept well hidden -- at first -- by the player's determination to be taken seriously.
"He put his nose to the grindstone and said, 'I can do this and I'm going to do it,' and he just worked hard," King said. "I knew how good he was. I wanted to get him in and get him playing. When it was game time he would knuckle down, and he took advantage when he got his chance."
Strome admits he didn't walk through those rough patches alone. Reaching out for support kept the frustration and doubts from boiling over.
"When you get home after you've been a scratch, it's easy to be disappointed," Strome said. "My dad was someone I talked to every day about situations, and he was just trying to keep me positive and realizing chances are going to come. Family was the biggest factor in getting through that, but I also had a few good friends on the team, too, like DeBrincat and Kaner, that were there for me in tough times, and I'll always be thankful for that."
The line of Strome, Kane and DeBrincat was a bright spot for the Blackhawks -- at times.
King had Strome back with his two favorite linemates so they could flourish like before -- "those three always saw the game the same way," King said -- and it was a further testament to Strome's tenacity that he could slide right back into a productive role despite inconsistent ice time.
"There was a lot of not wanting to be very positive," Strome said. "But I was just sticking with it. I know it's kind of cliche, but just trying to trust yourself and trust your skills so that when you do get back in you're going to find a way to help the team win.
"It was actually a game here [in Toronto] that brought me back, I thought. I was scratched the night before, then got moved up to the first line for [the Toronto game], and then just tried to ride with it for the rest of the season from there. Sometimes all you need is that one little jump to get you going."
Strome finished the season fourth on the Blackhawks with 22 goals and 48 points in 69 games. DeBrincat was a key figure in Strome's flourishing on the ice, but more than that he provided a backbone of friendship to boost Strome's spirits during one of his career's hardest stretches.
"When you're going to the rink and things aren't necessarily going your way, it's hard to keep that [positive] energy, but I tried to keep things light and just be there for him," DeBrincat said. "I knew he was a great player, and he did have a tough time in Chicago that last year, but once he was playing every game, he was right back to his old self. And I think you saw him creating plays and creating offense like that every night. When he gets his opportunities, he proves he can really play well."
The front office had apparently seen enough, though. Strome was an impending restricted free agent in summer 2022, and when it came time to receive a qualifying offer from the Blackhawks, one never came. Suddenly, he was a unrestricted free agent with an uncertain future.
Two days into free agency, he signed a one-year, $3.5 million contract with the Capitals. It was a club Strome thought would have his back.
"I feel like it's important in hockey that whenever you get a chance to try to take the ball you've got to run with it," he said. "When a team or a coach or GM or just someone believes in you, you've really got to try to ride that as long as you can and hopefully get a contract and show them you can produce."
Washington wouldn't wait long for a significant return on their investment.
SHEARY WILL FREELY ADMIT now he knew nothing about Strome -- player or person -- before they were Capitals teammates.
And like so many modern relationships, it was social media that introduced them before they connected in real life.
"It was our wives," Sheary said. "They noticed we had daughters the same age [Strome has two kids with wife Taylor; Sheary has three with wife Jordan], and they connected on Instagram. So we were virtual friends, and then after [Strome arrived in town], naturally we started hanging out with them a lot.
"It seemed pretty natural. We just had a lot in common. And then we started to play together on the ice, too, which only brought us closer."
The early synergy with Sheary mirrored an equally easy transition into Washington's lineup. The Capitals let Strome loose in a top-six role, and he put up a career-best season in 2022-23 with 23 goals and 65 points in 81 games. It was the most Strome had ever played in one NHL season, and the production wasn't a surprise given his penchant for taking advantage of opportunities.
Strome, center, and Sheary, left, found chemistry off the ice before becoming linemates on it.
"Honestly, it just helps when you get a good opportunity to play every night. I was having fun again," Strome said of his first season with the Capitals. "You're playing good minutes and on the power play and you're trying to help the team win. I think a lot of things meshed together at the right time for me and it was good."
"He's an incredibly smart hockey player," Sheary added. "He's got great vision, he's an incredible playmaker and he's really strong on his stick; he rarely misses a pass. And those kind of things add up throughout a game where, if you can just get it in his area, and he's able to handle it or make a play, it's pretty impressive, and his poise with the puck when he does get it, is something that you can't really teach."
The stronger Strome's game became, the more he distanced himself from that portrait of a failed draft pick. Sheary couldn't relate to Strome on that level -- he was undrafted -- but the veteran has been around long enough to know how pressure can make or break even the top-tier skaters.
"When you're an 18-year-old kid and you come in as a third overall pick, the expectation is immediate, and if that's not met, sometimes I feel like that can hurt a player," Sheary said. "But I think once Dylan moved on to Chicago, he became more of a player that he wanted to be. And then when he moved on to Washington, he was able to flourish in a bigger role, and he started playing on the top couple lines, and he proved that he could do that, night in and night out.
"He's grown more into the player he was expected to be right away, but sometimes that takes some time. I think he just finally came into his own once he came to Washington."
And how. Strome is aging like a fine wine with the Capitals, setting new benchmarks year over year that have served in propelling Washington atop the NHL standings midway through this season. Strome paces the Capitals in points since arriving with Washington to start the 2022-23 season (with 178 in 209 games) and is second in goals only to -- you might have guessed -- Alex Ovechkin.
Strome has been a regular linemate of Ovechkin's, too -- a privilege he holds in the proper perspective.
"It's been an honor to play on his line," Strome said. "I mean, you see how serious he is, but also how much fun he has. The guy loves scoring goals more than anyone I've ever seen, but he also loves being on the ice when someone else scores a goal more than I've ever seen. He wants you to score. He wants to score. He wants to be on the ice in key situations, and he wants to shoot the puck and he wants to get open. That's a good combination to have."
The lift from Ovechkin is only part of why Strome might now be in his greatest season yet, having collected 12 goals and 46 points through 46 games. He'd been centering a line with Ovechkin and Aliaksei Protas when Ovechkin fractured his fibula in mid-November. It was then on Strome to be a crucial piece of propping up the Capitals' attack -- with six goals and 13 points -- while the team's captain sat out for five weeks.
Washington coach Spencer Carbery suspected Strome would step up in Ovechkin's absence. It falls in line with the "ultra competitive" player Carbery met when he joined the Capitals.
"A lot of people wrote him off early in his career, whether it was in Arizona or Chicago, and he's continued to press forward and want to get better and better and better," Carbery said. "[He's] not just settling into, 'Well, I'm just going to be an OK player in the National Hockey League.' He's still trying to get better and still trying to push the envelope to become an elite player in the NHL and be a top center, and he's continued to prove it. And now I think this is his third year in a row where he's trending to be a better player than he was the year before. And you see that at times, but it's pretty rare."
It also hasn't come by accident. Strome has put in the work behind the scenes to become this version of an NHL player.
And, if Sheary is correct, it'll shift Strome into another chapter of his life, too, when it's time to hang up the skates:
"I always joke that he's going to be a GM someday."
MOST PEOPLE REFUSE to take the office home at night. Strome is not one of those folks.
"He's a big-time hockey nerd," Sheary said. "In Wash, we were all fascinated by his hockey knowledge. He can spit anyone's statistics without even looking them up. He loves knowing that stuff, knowing points and goals, which was pretty intriguing. I've never seen someone know so much about the game of hockey."
The obsession likely started early for Strome given his family's hockey lineage -- Strome's older brother, Ryan, plays for the Anaheim Ducks and his younger brother Matthew was a fourth-round pick by Philadelphia in 2017. Staying curious about the game appears to be part of Strome's DNA. And his dream was larger than just making the league; he wanted staying power. And never gave up on finding it.
"I think I'm pretty close to what I thought I would be as a player," Strome said. "It took a little longer than I thought to be a guy that's consistently in the lineup every day. I am more of a pass-first guy. I do try to be a good teammate. But I also feel like that's what I thought I could do the best in the NHL and now it looks pretty close to what I've become."
There's just one thing missing for Strome now -- and the Capitals are on track to check it off his list this spring: a real run at contending for a Stanley Cup.
If the league-leading Capitals can reach that level, it will be with Strome at the forefront. After years of searching for it, he has found a home in Washington. And now more than ever, there's no place like it.
it seriously does piss me the fuck off that trevor made cool plays early in his career and that being negative in the nhl eyes -> that reputation will never leave him. wasn’t even like he was just doing it for no reason like he was productive offensively. and his defense was rough but like what nhl rookie and second year forward has perfect defense? ppl just focused on the negatives of his game because they got so pissed off that he had offensive flair. and even five years later traded to a new team the first thing the new coach says is that he doesn’t want trevor playing “for clicks” like oh my god the guy was injured for most of his past two seasons and did actually improve his defensive game even then and that’s all you’re thinking about. getting voted most overrated by the players tk having a rough initial perception of him no instagram hockey like holy fuck he has good hands and isn’t afraid to use them and this warped perception is never going to leave. signs an extension with the flyers and one of the things danny says in his press conference is how much trevor has bought in isn’t doing it for the clicks HE HASN’T BEEN PLAYING FOR THE CLICKS EVER, and even if he was, it definitely stopped after 2023. literally had average, if not above average defensive metrics as a center and arguably the most important skater for the flyers success this season everyone still talking about his instagram hockey perception. the guy scored some michigan goals and had cool passes when he was in his early twenties and the league said 1) we’re going to twist this into a negative and 2) we will never ever let you forget this even when by all metrics that type of play has been weeded out for over a year now. FAWKKKJHFHFHFJ
and he’s been on record saying he was inspired by nba players and their personalities/flair and you have to think like obviously a lot of nhl players are also fans of basketball but really only trevor saw the more individual personality content that’s in the nba even encouraged in the nba and said yeah im going to be like that in the nhl. went through the classic usa hockey pipeline didn’t lose a single watt of his spark was cocky at world juniors 2021 he attempted a michigan for his first goal like people were already pointing fingers and saying he doesn’t take the game seriously he did not give a fuck. because it’s a game he loves and can play with his friends why would he stifle what comes naturally to him and he looked up to in other league growing up? and then the league tried to kill him with hammers. and they will continue to hit him with hammers no matter what.
