It would depend if you’re homosexual, heterosexual, or bisexual. If you’re a homosexual woman for example, you’d likely only find female nonbinary people attractive. If you’re bisexual, it wouldn’t matter.
Because nonbinary and genderfluid aren’t biological and have no sex characteristics attached to them, it still comes down to biological sex. Which is why you probably won’t see a gay man dating a female nonbinary, because they have female biology that he is not wired to be attracted to.
People aren’t biologically attracted to just gender. They may be attracted to certain gender expressions preference wise; like how some people prefer masculine women or feminine men, or masculine men or feminine women. Maybe some people prefer androgynous people, and maybe some people don’t care at all. That’s preference. But sexuality wise, one’s biology is not “I’m attracted to all genders”. One’s biology is “I am attracted to both sexes, which means I can be attracted to somebody no matter what their gender is”.
Which is the point of my post. No matter how much pansexuals want to deny it, the reason they are attracted to “all genders” (I only believe in two), is because they are biologically attracted to both sexes. Which means that no matter if a person is male or female, they are able to find them attractive. Being more attracted to nonbinary people? That’s a preference. And guess what? Bisexuals are attracted to both sexes too! Meaning they can be attracted to any gender! And they, just like pansexuals, can have no preference for one or the other. Biologically, pansexual and bisexual are exactly the same, and there’s no reason to have a different word based on preferences. Wanting the distinction from bisexual is biphobic. What’s so bad about being called bisexual that a whole new label is needed, that needs to enforce bisexual misconceptions and stereotypes just to justify its existence?
If you don’t believe that, I’d like you to tell me, biologically speaking, how is one attracted to gender and not sex? How can one base their attraction completely on gender, with no consideration for sex whatsoever? If this was the case, wouldn’t a heterosexual man be able to be attracted to a pre-op, pre-transition trans woman? Because sure, biologically she’s a male, and since she hasn’t started her transition, she appears as a man (which heterosexual men can’t be attracted to). But since she’s a trans woman, wouldn’t he be able to be attracted to her gender?
No, he wouldn’t. Because he would view her as male, and even if she told him that she was a woman, he still wouldn’t be able to be attracted to her until she transitioned and gained female sex characteristics—which he is biologically attracted to.
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