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I'm gonna hyper fixate on that dick.
Hyperdixate if you will
The transandrophobia brainrot has hit tiktok hard. There's a sound going around right now that uses the T slur in a reclamatory way, but whenever a transmasc person uses the sound people lose their minds saying it's transmisogynistic for them to use that word. But when cis male drag queens use the audio it's a slay.
My answer to those people is Get Kate Bornstein'd:
Tranny. Many people don’t know the history of the word, they assume it was an assigned hate term or slur along the lines of the “n” word. That’s not how it happened. Tranny was invented by us in Sydney, Australia in the 1970s where drag was a big deal, and still the best drag shows ever are in Sydney, Australia – they’re amazing. So a lot of trans-identified women who were assigned male at birth did drag, that’s how you made your living. And so they were transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, and they were all doing drag to make money. They all bickered amongst each other who is better than who, “Well the drag queens are better,” “No, the transsexuals are better.” “You are all freaks, we’re better.” And on and on and on. But they worked together and they were family together, so they came up with a word that would say family and that was tranny. In Australia they do the diminutive, that’s how they come up with words. So tranny. I learned the word in the mid-1980s, late 1980s from my drag mom in San Francisco, Doris Fish, who was the city’s preeminent drag queen and she’d come from Sydney. And she schooled me in this word tranny, she said, “This way it means we’re family, darling.” “Thank you mama.” [...] So we used it and we were trannies together. And F to M was just beginning to start, the trans men were just beginning to become visible, Lou Sullivan was a neighbor of mine around the corner, and he was the first big out trans man, wrote his book. So trans men and cross dressers . . . cross dressers were also family. Transsexuals, we were all trannies and that felt good. That got into the sex industry and became a genre – there was tranny porn, there were tranny sex workers – chicks with dicks, she-males. [...] And, my only guess is that people who . . . because the only way they would have found out about the word is if they were watching tranny porn or having been with a tranny sex worker and then hated themselves so much that they turned it into a curse word. So it’s not really technically correct to say we’re reclaiming a word – it was always ours. So, many people mistake the word for the hatred behind the word and, in my generation, and I’m sure in future generations of trans people, tranny is going to be a radicalized, sexualized identity of trans in the same way that faggot is a prideful identity in the gay male community – not all gay men are faggots, but those who are are proudly fags and those who are dykes are proudly dykes within the lesbian community, trannies are proudly tranny within the transgender community. Does that mean we can’t call ourselves that because some trans woman does not want to be called a tranny? No. I’m going to keep calling myself a tranny. To the trans woman who gets called tranny, I’m sorry – as soon as . . . you’ve got to look at why you’re getting called tranny and if you don’t pass, you’re going to be read as a transgender person and then you fall back on the cultural view of trans folk which is freak, disgusting, not worth living, we can hurt you. It has nothing to do with the word, it has everything to do with the cultural attitude. So the word has stirred up a shit storm, but it’s not the word.
^ From this interview
Four weeks ago, Bear posted a call for submissions on his blog. In the interests of keeping the call as open as possible, we agreed to include as many trans-identities as we knew, so we used the word "tranny." And that's where the activist shit hit the postmodern fan base. People have been pissed. Here's their argument: FTMs are co-opting a word that belongs to MTFs. The word "tranny" belongs to MTFs, reason those who were hurt by our use of the word, because it was a denigrating term reclaimed by MTFs—ergo, only MTFs could be known as trannies. I spoke with Bear, and we agree that’s wrong on several counts:
Tranny began as a uniting term amongst ourselves. Of course it’s going to be picked up and used as a denigrating term by mean people in the world. But even if we manage to get them to stop saying tranny like a thrown rock, mean people will come up with another word to wound us with. So, let’s get back to using tranny as a uniting term amongst ourselves. That would make Doris Fish very happy.
It's our first own language word for ourselves that has no medical-legacy.
Even if (like gay) hate-filled people try to make tranny into a bad word, our most positive response is to own the word (a word invented by the queerest of the queer of their day). We have the opportunity to re-create tranny as a positive in the world.
Saying that FTMs can’t call themselves trannies eerily echoes the 1980s lesbians who said I couldn’t use the word woman to identify myself, and the 1990s lesbians who said I couldn’t use the word dyke.
At one phase in the evolution of transpeople-as-tribe, it was the male-to-females who were visible and representative of trans to the rest of the world. They were the trannies. Today? Ironically true to the binary we’re in the process of shattering, the pendulum has swung so that it's now female-to-males who are the archetypal trannies of the day. The generation coming up beyond the next generation, i.e. my tribal grandchildren are the young boys who transition to young girls at the age of five or six. They’re the next trannies. None of us can own the word. We can only be grateful that our tribe is so much larger than we had thought it would be. How to come together—now that’s the job of the next generation of gender outlaws.
^ From Who You Calling A Tranny?
We've been having this debate forever and its been stupid forever.
And its an increasingly outdated debate. More people know about trans men&mascs than ever and there are plenty of trans men&mascs who have been called tranny by transphobes who don't give a shit about this distinction. And not just people who have been mistaken for transfems, either, but men like Andrew Jonathan Blake-Newton and Saye Skye who were attacked by people who knew them. Do they have more or less of a right to say tranny than a trans girl whose never been called it by a transphobe? (Neither. Because no one owns this word.)
Ugh the bite mark is gone :/ annoying
Christ I'm a little pathetic. Get fingered once and I can't stop thinking about her.
God I wanna get railed
Dawg this girl is ruining me I was just about to send a nasty text in the group chat what is wrong with me
Low-key want more characters to actively dislike the whole "good boy" "good girl" thing. No I'm not projecting what are you talking about.
Ugh fuck I already miss her hand down my pants
My fingers just aren't enough I need another person or a toy. Fuck my stupid baka life and inability to actually fucking get one from a shop.
Ugh fuck I already miss her hand down my pants
My state has abortion as a right (yay) but it's specifically written as "that the State not restrict a WOMAN'S exercise of HER private decision to terminate a pregnancy before viability". No protections at all in a supposed "abortion sanctuary state". God knows what would happen if you have an M on your documents with this writing...
This is transandrophobia
If it helps Anon, if US statutory interpretation is anything like Canadian, the exact wording and pronouns don't matter. Example:
"He"/"His"
We all know going by she/her won't give you a free pass to kill, nor does going by she/her or they/them mean your death can't be prosecuted. So the exact wording doesn't really matter so much as the intent does (enshrined abortion into law)
Now, should the language be neutral? 100%
But I don't think the exact wording matters, when it comes to enforcement of this law.
I could be wrong though, so feel free to correct me.
So while it can definitely be argued that the government (in anon's state) can't restrict abortion for tans men, often time insurance companies will use these loopholes to avoid paying for necessary medical treatments for trans people.
I'm not a lawyer so I'm not sure how well that argument holds here in the US. But as someone who had to for treatments which Should have been covered by my insurance, I would assume the cost of an abortion without insurance might be another factor restricting a trans man from accessing treatment.
Aren't abortions free through Planned Parenthood?
No, they are not, they try to cover what costs they can and get costs as low as possible but they still arent free, the pills start at about $200, and more complex abortions are more expensive
Wow. Ok then. I had no idea. Learned something new today.
Actually, I was just filling out their consent forms and the cost page lists this vast range for abortion costs, I assume thats consultation and actual procedure.
That's American healthcare for ya
Real Guide To Real Anal
Ok, there's a lot of well-meaning misinformation around from people who are just repeating what they've heard, so please, take it from someone with >25 years of experience of anal play of various kinds:
On cleanliness...
Not only do you not need to douche, but also, for most people most of the time, it's better if you don't. If you need to be absolutely clean as a whistle for a porn shoot or something, go for it. But otherwise, your gut is an amazing self-balancing system, that will take care of itself so long as you don't sabotage it by hosing it out. Douching can easily cause an upset gut that you'll then blame on the anal instead. So consider not doing that.
Unless you have a medical condition that precludes such, you have the ability to tell if you "need to go", based on sensations in the sphincter. If you don't have the feeling that you need to go, or at least reasonably could go, then you don't need to worry about anything; you can hop straight on that dick if you want to; it'll be fine.
If you follow the above advice, then 95% of the time it'll come out completely clean, 5% of the time there will be the tiniest amount of shit, an amount that can be cleaned in 2 seconds with a wet wipe or similar. And, you were going to clean it at least that much afterwards anyway, right?
Some further general tips:
Do: enjoy a good amount of fibre generally in your diet on a daily basis if you want things to come out clean.
Don't: make sudden drastic changes to your diet or take laxatives/anti-diarrhoea meds to try to vacate it or placate it. Once again, your gut is an amazing self-balancing system if you will kindly just let it do its thing.
Finally, some things I've generally assumed:
I assume you know about basic safe sex and can make your own decisions in that regard re what's an acceptable risk to you. I'm not going to tell you always use condoms or never do such-and-such because you know what, I'm not the boss of you. Use them or not, do things or not, it's your call.
I assume you know to use lube, and also to start small if unsure and work up. Your mileage may vary, but it is usual to discover that the difficulty of receiving anal has been greatly overstated, mostly due to prudish cishets being overrepresented in media and in life.
You are welcome! And, it depends on what you mean by "permanently loosening".
A lot of people think (and talk) about the anal sphincter like it's an elastic band that can lose its tension over time if stretched too much, and it's not. Like any muscle, the sphincter muscles can atrophy (in which case it would lose its tension), but atrophy comes from disuse, not from stretching.
The sphincter muscles are muscles, and can be stretched like other muscles, and retain their stretchiness (or not) dependent on whether it's maintained by frequent stretching.
The muscle tone, on the other hand (that which keeps them* closed when not needing to be open) is—just like any other muscle—maintained by regular use.
*Plural because we have an internal and external sphincter; the former is involuntary, and it automatically releases when when your body decides it's time to go; the external sphincter then remains closed until such a time as you're ready to go and consciously release it.
tl;dr = think of it less like stretching an elastic band, and more like stretching any other muscles.
HOLY SHIT IVE GOT A T CONSULT IN 12 DAYS IM TWEAKIN
Yall give me any tips for injections if you have them
i have needle anxiety and im planning to do subq
Edit: im going through planned parenthood btw :p
Im late to this but honestly? Ask for gel. It's what I did and I do not regret it in any way
Someone else said "do gel join the slime nation #slime" 😭 but NO!!
i did a lot of consideration into the kind of t i wanted to do:
Ive heard that after a while on gel, i think it was 1-2 years? absorption goes down and you form a bit of a resistance to it
I have 9 different animals in my house right now and im concerned about their health and safety, especially with my super lovey cat
Im working on my injection/needle phobia and im at a point where i can successfully inject myself! I just did it for the second time last night :]
I just think subq is the right thing for me personally :] i definitely heavily considered doing gel to avoid the needles, but alas, the above points.
Completely understand that, have fun
HOLY SHIT IVE GOT A T CONSULT IN 12 DAYS IM TWEAKIN
Yall give me any tips for injections if you have them
i have needle anxiety and im planning to do subq
Edit: im going through planned parenthood btw :p
Im late to this but honestly? Ask for gel. It's what I did and I do not regret it in any way
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Ok yeag I understand the want of muting blogs now like I don't wanna block this rando rn bc I like their posts on occasion but they are here Too Much right now. Whatttt are you doin here I don even follow you
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I love that the modern-day tumblr post equivalent of chain emails only requires me to reblog a relatively pleasant image instead of forward an email to a bunch of my friends and family members to quell my raging anxiety.
It’s a win win. I get a bit of hope, you get a cute birb photo
Oh my god I'm horny. Annoyingly so. Not like mentally either. Just physically.