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♤ 28 | He/Him ♤ ♧ A good kitten. ♧ ♡ Noncon my beautiful beloved ♡ ◇ This is a side blog so I don't follow from here. Also I'm taken so no sexual or romantic advances please! ◇

[kittenwithbell]

Ngl i went hard with my horny posting

[perfectlyripeclementine]

something cool about queering your idea of sex is that you can walk out of a heavy make out session feeling like you had the rawest sex of your life. you can be sitting close at a bar kissing them and maybe you’ve found a way to sit so your knee is discreetly between their thighs and feeling the pleasure it gives them and then feeling them give that pleasure to you. you can be looking each other in the eye and you can feel them inside you from that alone. like you want to tear their clothes off and are hungry for the feeling of their skin and their closeness but even just this feels like heaven, feels connected to them in the deep place where pleasure comes from.

[perfectlyripeclementine]

a list of things that are sex if you’re gay enough about it and you want it to be:

feeling their desirous gaze on you while you put in drink orders at the bar

holding hands on the way home from the date and it feels like a foreshadowing of what you’re going to do to each other when you get there

heavy breathing on the phone when they’re touching themself to the sound of your voice

grinding in a weird position where you’re both like ???? why does this feel so good????

literally just eye contact

[perfectlyripeclementine]

“When I was a dominatrix, I once rubbed balloons all over a man for seventy-five dollars. He would’ve called it sex. I would’ve called it work. It was mutually consensual, and I think we were both correct in our assessment.

If your sex is balloons, if it is blowing raspberries on your lover’s belly, if it happens fully clothed ir in furry costumes, if it happens in a group or alone — give it the same gravity, the same reverence or irreverence as all the tiresome scenes of heterosexual penetration we all grew up reading. … There is no marginal erotic unless you sideline it.”

Melissa Febos, Body Work

[kittenwithbell]

Im sooooorta thinking abt deleting this blog ngl

[leog4u]

do you have any porn video game recommendations or writing on adult video game recommendations?

I sure fuckin' do, muchacho

So a while back i did an adult gaming survey that got over a thousand respondants, and made a top ten list of their favorite games, which you can find here. I can't attest to the quality of All of them, I do know if you value player expression then CoC and TiTS are good for that, Hardcoded is extremely queer and well drawn, Cloud Meadow has some of the best animations you'll ever see (also has gay and lesbian animations), and third crisis is the most game ass game of all of them that has a lot of adult content. And you know. If you have taste, here's one I'm actively working on wit Taylor that's really good :)

Here's a write up on the survey i did that has some interesting data points, especially if you're a dev. Here's another essay I did talking about porn game design.

If you want more varied voices, the adult analysis anthology is excellent for that. There's two more of 'em and are good reads! In the third one I talk about NTR/Cuckolding as a genre of games and why it's So So popular.

I think that's a good primer. If you want more or something else, I can def share!

[stellanix]

okay so like. exhibitionism, but instead of showing yourself off, someone else is stripping you and showing you off, like a prized object

[kittenwithbell]

Ough oh my god i want to be molested so gently like yes feel me up and touch me and carass me even when i keep pushing your hand away. Put your hands everywhere on me you know feels good even when im asking you to stop-

[benjaminallhope-fulltimemind]

just a handy little info chart on the spectrums of sexuality.

[mythicalcoolkid]

[ID: a poster that reads "These spectra are all different." Below are four arrows, up to down, each labeled with a different sexuality spectrum.

Sexual attraction

Top: allosexual - often experiences sexual attraction (a feeling of wanting to have sex with a specific person)

Middle: grey-asexual - rarely experiences sexual attraction

Bottom: asexual - never experiences sexual attraction

Notes for sexual attraction:

There are other types of attraction and corresponding spectra. See: romantic, platonic, aesthetic, sensual

Asexuality can shift over time. See: aceflux

Libido

Top: high libido - often or strongly experiences libido/sex drive (a feeling of wanting sex, but not directed at a specific person)

Bottom: low libido - rarely experiences libido

Notes for libido:

Libido can change greatly due to mental health, life circumstances, and various other factors

Sex favourability

Top: sex favourable - sex is appealing and enjoyable for them

Middle: sex indifferent - does not particularly like or dislike sex

Between middle and bottom: sex averse - dislikes sex and finds it not appealing

Bottom: sex repulsed - finds sex repulsive or disgusting

Notes for sex favourability:

There are other spectra of favourability. See: romance favourability, touch favourability

Sex favourability can depend on context. See: aegosexual

Sex favourability can shift over time. See: sex fluid

Sex positivity

Top: sex positive - believing that "sex is good and people can do what they want"

Middle: sex neutral - no particular stance on sex

Bottom: sex negative - believing that "sex is bad and sex should be restricted"

Notes for sex positivity:

The other spectra are about things the brain/body does. Sex positivity is about ideology

Any combination is possible. Now you know these things exist. If you want to learn more about something, look it up.

End ID]

[certifiedsexed]

Certified Sex Ed Post!

[kittenwithbell]

Love love love being forced open ♡♡♡

[ogkush4rmdawestcoast]

Kissing isn't enough I need you to bite me.

[kittenwithbell]

I basically didnt consistently have sex for like a month and a half and when that happens it like resets my brain n then im like

"What if....i touched...a boob,,,what if i see a butt,,,,,"

And then I lose my mind and cant handle being alive its so fucking funny to me idk WHY it happens

[d3monl0ver]

rlly embarrassing when ppl act like topping/bottoming has any bearing on anything beyond how you like to fuck. grow up

[d3monl0ver]

you’re like, inches away from asking who’s the man and who’s the woman lol

[d3monl0ver]

this post is about gay sex in real life but I’m glad you’re all having fun with your tv shows

[junglejim4322]

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

[junglejim4322]

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

[junglejim4322]

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

[transhumanisticpanspermia]

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?

[butchergirrl]

What if I just slapped you hard across the face and grabbed you by the hair and dragged you into the basement in front of all our friends and none of them even tried to stop me and maybe one jokingly asks for pictures later

[fucktoyfelix]

Lines of thought that seem Normal but are actually rooted in extreme puritanism:

-Seeing the nude human body is inherently traumatic -Sex scenes in art are pointless -Wearing kink-related clothing in public is the similar to performing a sex scene in front of unwilling participants -Depicting female characters expressing sexuality is always degrading -People's sexual fantasies are always an endorsement of the behavior they want to see in real life -Sex work is more traumatic and coercive than other types of work The goal is to treat sex as just another thing people do. That is a much healthier attitude than hiding it! It's not uniquely traumatic, it's not weird to talk about it or include it in society.

[kittenwithbell]

God im such a raging lesbian

[tboydyke-deactivated20240120]

i want girldick in me. now. please. i want to be filled up, i want to be screaming and crying and trying to get away (not that i’d be able to, what with all those ropes and straps and restraints). i want you to keep going, to push me past what i can handle. i don’t want you to stop.

[infectiouspiss]

the g spot is inside the stab wound