Why not call out the antis who are calling people who simply like the finale evil, worse than people who hate trans people, worse than people who are homophobic? Or the ones who come into any post saying anything vaguely positive about the finale and yell about suicide and genocide and how if you like anything about it you're delusional and promoting suicidal intent? People who go into the comments of other people's season 3 art and yell at them for trigging them and calling their art impostors are just being nice I suppose. I've never seen so much hate from a fandom before. If anyone is trying to drive people out of the fandom and discourage people from participating it's the antis. They're the one's driving people away from what used to be a welcoming fandom.
I have not yet seen these people, I just called out what I saw.
If there are antis who do that, then yes, that is wrong. But right now, the most *I see* is "please people, tag your shit," which really isn't too much to ask. Again, not saying assholes don't exist on both sides, but this is the part of the discourse that reached me.
What I do know is that this fandom does have a lot of people who struggle with suicide and self-harm. Them asking to be treated kindly and please tag your art so that they can stay away from triggers is natural and understandable. Them asking in an agitated way when they already *are triggered* is natural as well. I'm not saying they're asking in a good way, I'm not saying they're asking in a kind way, and I'm not saying they're not, since, again, I haven't seen it.
All I ask is that we accept that differing interpretations do and can exist and stop beating each other up over it. I hated the finale, but I can see where you come from if you liked it. If you liked it, please try to understand the reasoning behind seeing a harmful message and being triggered by it.
And if you feel either way and aren't part of the discourse, please call out those who are being unkind on either side of it when you see them, and do it directly. They need to be told, *but kindly please*, that this kind of behaviour has no place here, and that any discussion can be had calmly and reasonably.
My suggestion to the pros: just use "#pro go3" like we use "#anti go3", and have been doing for your benefit (after we were told people who liked the finale were triggered by us hating on it) since shortly after it aired, and tag asanthony as well as ineffable husbands.
Be kind to each other. On both sides.