Amethyst

The Fluorite System – they/them; HC-DID, polyfragmented; following from @amethystpittman

[lefluoritesys]

Pinned post is gonna be down for a little bit while we edit it. :)

-host

[virtualdetectiveduck-deactivate]

Obviously not mine but also funny as hell

[lefluoritesys]

When another alter adopted someone outside the system, and you randomly get shoved off front whenever that person is around. /aff

-host

[fetty-fazbear]

“Stop thinking of alters as separate people” this and “alters are each there own different entities that shouldn’t be blended” that

How about we let each system decide what feels best to them and stop policing systems that are already dealing with a very complex and varying disorder

[lefluoritesys]

I was going to answer a post about alters using deadnames a couple days ago, but I lost it, so here's a separate post about it.

It really depends on the circumstances and your unique situation when an alter wants to go by your body's deadname. And it's very nuanced, so there is no, "alters should(n't) go by your deadname."

We have three alters who go by variations of our deadname.

One of them goes by it because they are a little who formed with it during childhood and carried it for decades.

The other formed during a tough time medically and had to deal with one of our worst triggers every day for months. Our DN (deadnam) is not only all they knew of who they are, but since it was our legal name at the time, it's what doctors knew us by.

The third carries our proper DN, though we haven't met them yet and only know about them from gatekeepers.

We still have issues with our DN in English, but we've learned to accept those alters and their names through a bunch of reflection, getting their sides of the story and their reasoning, and learning to see our DN as a legal label to our body rather than something that shapes us.

Our advice is: have a sit-down conversation with the alter(s) who wants to go by your deadname and figure out why they want to use it. See if you can come to a compromise via a nickname, a different spelling of the name, etc. And also look at the factors such as, how long have they had it before, if at all? How old are they? How personal is it to them? Does it help their healing journey? Do y'all have issues with your name that you can solve and/or would benefit from solving, or not? Stuff like this matters. Communication is key.

-host, memory gatekeeper

[theangelcatalogue]

Making a chain cause why not!? Hdisiwisjs

Put your name/nickname in the Character Headcanon Generator and see what you get!

Link!

Erm...so-

@starsinthenigth @mxnaceo @duckp0t + Anyone who wants to do it! (No pressure)

[coyfsh]

Why yes. Yes I am.

@bunniesbearsandadventures and anyone else who wants to join

[bunniesbearsandadventures]

Agshhsj Yes actually I can.

My passport allows me.

@possibly-in-wonderland @arya-eats-chips @sleeplessdreamer14 and all who wish to join.

[sleeplessdreamer14]

I actually am :D

@sleeplesshottubtheorist @the-weirdos-mind @sourlemonsprout @emerald-echeveria-plant @uselessalexis165 and anyone else who would like to play

[uselessalexis165]

Yeah

@anxiously-drawing-again @hemlock-reads @astral--horrorshow @aalbliii @iceemoondemon

[unpopularvivian]

That is true. I use bro so much that it just might be my catchphrase.

@sketalya, @gold-dust599, @yurishica, @mintydeluxes-blog, @brendambois

[the-chronicles-of-sodor-deactiv]

Frank has an absolute obsession with Sonic Mania and their prized possession is a miku plushie with their autographs

This is false.

@sketalya, @gold-dust599, @yurishica, @mintydeluxes-blog, @brendambois

[gold-dust599]

This is true!

@sketalya @yurishica @mintydeluxes-blog @brendambois @jayde-jots

[inkandpaintsnowleopard]

I mean probably lol

@gottathinkofsmth @crossover-enthusiast @steam-beasts idk

Others that I generated until I got accurate ones:

[steam-beasts]

Oh yeah, I hated Pink with a passion lol

@sandgambler @thefluffyrailway-official @fireflameproductions check this out if you wanna!

[thefluffyrailway-official]

Alr pook! Let's try!

...

INDEED I CAN'T! I'M EPILEPTIC!...and minor...

But i think i'm gonna try this with the humanized engines 😏

Let's see what happens....

Oh! And the tags:

@gronkgal it's your turn >:)

[locomotive-paws]

Ummm was I even on Tumblr back then ?

Now some randomness from the following list:

@lomotunes2008 @masterj @gordontheengineswifenirmal

[masterj]

Well, I'm not complaining about that! 😅🤣

(Guess the pandemic doesn't count)

@jazztrain1 @0lemonadefox0 @eminsunnytoons @doubledeckerfishstick

@fredlikesbreakfast

[0lemonadefox0-deactivated202412]

I am an expert hacker! XD

@eminsunnytoons @cheezekennith @marshall3660

[henry-and-nancy-elsner-kisser]

Yo gurlies I'm playing dnd rn

@eminsunnytoons @lost-terrorzz @sayuri-does-skits @lunatic-sayuri @oddlyvoid @sundove88 @mariagreenwoodart anyone else who wants to play it?

[d3rlord3-kisser]

Why you gotta call me out like that...

@miahearts @gh0stlyk1tty @scally-wiggles716

[scallywiggles]

Maria, please eat properly 🙏

Well-

@countingthestarsthings @random-fandom-chaos @jack-o-moon-askblog @achickennamedcheese @rainbowstarheart @bittyfromquotev @bloodmoon-da-idiot

[random-fandom-chaos]

STOP CALLING ME OUT (just any physical affections. Like sometimes one of my friends just randomly says hi and hugs me outta no where and I feel like the most important person in the world Cuz I didn’t have to ask… totally not @vincent-charlie URM Ehehe-)

Tags! (Other than Charlie)

@afunky-jester @needlesandnilbogs @hammyham-o-o @littengamer909 @celestialweido

@baxstarmallow06 @artistwithnopurpose @kat-scribbles @crumpet-doodles @fishyupmywishy

@jack-o-moon-askblog @bestfriendshipdynami-deactivate @theater-geeks-should-rule @thea-lynn

And any other Mutual <333

[boykisser420-waoi-deactivated20]

heres the thing i was at a sleepover it was important ok

@gregwithagh @invisible-dragons @catinchat6 /nf

[invisible-dragons]

I made three

For the first: I take normal sized steps most of the time, tiny steps occasionally ig but not enough that I'd consider it a character trait of mine or anything

The second: I don't miss our (system's) childhood but I do miss mine from my memories sometimes, moreso missing my brother and dad and the crows (and I miss being able to talk to and understand crows, sucks to see crows and just not understand what they're saying and they don't understand me)

This third one feels pretty accurate, I don't actually tackle, wrestle, or punch people to show affection because I know they probably wouldn't like/understand it most of the time, but I do feel the urge to a lot (mostly punch but still)

@queer-ghosts @decreeofthedeeps @thenightsystem (/nf)

and anyone else who wants ofc :>

[thenightsystem]

Feels like it some days

@lefluoritesys @skyofnostars

-host

[lefluoritesys]

WE KNOW WE HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH SLEEP LATELY AOSBBALANWPXD9SNZPSNZPWNODNRLDMD

"Probably" lmfao (we are autistic)

@summerssereniity

-host

[lefluoritesys]

Random person online: Haha, this post about X disorder is so relatable, and I don't even have X disorder!

Everyone with the disorder:

(/j)

-host

[starlitvases]

Hey guys? Can we stop encouraging people to believe they have X disorder just because they relate to one symptom? Everyone relates to everyone in some way. Relating to someone with a disorder does not mean you also have that disorder. It's called being a complex individual.

[lefluoritesys]

Worrying about someone having a disorder because they relate to and/or display symptoms of it is not encouraging people to believe they have a disorder, but pointing out they may want to look into it and make sure nothing that can influence their life in a harmful way is going on in the background. "Human experience" is subjective and depends on your individual experience. For some, it's a typical life, and for some, it's constant pain, which means we all have a different understanding of what is typical and normal in our lives exactly because we are complex individuals both mentally and physically. And having people compare experiences and pointing out stuff that is similar or different in their experiences helps identify underlying issues, like how leople compare salaries at work to see if they are being paid fairly. Also, we included the "/j" tone tag for a reason, it means "joke."

-memory gatekeeper

[lefluoritesys]

Inner world memories are so not what people think they are. Like yes, I experienced this thing in the inner world. Yes, I spent the day with my family in the inner world. But I don't always remember it consciously and may need time, confirmation from others, and/or reminders. Yes, it's a whole separate world for us – but that doesn't mean I'd remember it as clear as day.

-host

[thequantumsys-deactivated202501]

[eldrytchcryptid]

[lefluoritesys]

That warm feeling when you lose 4 hours of your life, but you aren't worried that something bad happened because you know who fronted and trust them.

-host

[orbitposting]

DID but not as in presence of "evil murderer alter", DID as in buying two drinks instead of one because someone came to front after seeing a blue raspberry slushie and DEMANDED to have it, but the alter who walked all the way to the gas station refused to leave without getting what they wanted to get initially.

[reminders-for-systems]

It's okay to have a crush on other alters within your system. It's okay to experiment with dating them. It's okay to have a crush on the host(s). It's okay to have fluctuating levels of attraction. You are not embarrassing for being an alter in love.

[lokilysolbitch]

me after connecting dots about possible repressed trauma but i literally don't remember anything so i can't prove it: big if true🤔

[burningsolarsystem]

Nah. How did I ever doubt whether these bitches were real? I can't even make up half the shit they come up with.

Saw a post on different things to call your headmates. I think it was something like "try calling then something other than parts" or something. And I was like, yeah I call them headmates. My mates. My buds.

Then some bitch says in my brain. "Yeah, my fuck buddies"

Da fuck? And then I can just feel and hear someone telling him no. No they are not that. Plz and thank you.

And I could feel his confusion. And somehow I both knew what was wrong with that and didn't. Weird. But anyways.

I felt dumbfounded. Utterly confused. How did I think I was making these conversations up? I don't even know what's going on.

Screaming, laughing, dying. Omfg.

Anyways...

[lefluoritesys]

Random person online: Haha, this post about X disorder is so relatable, and I don't even have X disorder!

Everyone with the disorder:

(/j)

-host

[the-indigo-symphony]

Hey, you. You, who wants to talk about your own plural experiences but fears that your post idea is "dumb" or "too obvious/common to talk about" or "cringe". Practically every time I talk about something system related that I think is common knowledge, I get at least one person/system who responds in some manner of "I learned something new from this" or "this was really helpful". Make that post. Chances are high that at least someone out there is going to appreciate it.