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My friend needs financial help getting his medication

Hi, as the title suggest, my friend needs help.

He's trying to move out of an abusive household, but, with the current job he has, won't be able to financially cover all his needed medication (depression and anxiety meds, as well as testosterone).

If any of you have any spare money, he would greatly appreciate if you could help him out.

Here's the link to the fund: https://pomagam.pl/p334bg

The page in itself is in polish, but there is a way to change it to english (in the top right corner of the site).

Thank you all and have a great day <3

#trans #fundraiser #medication #any help is welcome #be it reblogs or financial help #pomoc #zbiórka

pretendusername-deactivated2021

Happy plagueiversary

quantumshade

thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra

it's almost almost christmas

birdsareblooming

Do you know the day you made gerald big naturals so that we all might mark it on our calendars to celebrate her majesty?

it's on the discord

December 4th 2022

apparently it took me approx 18 minutes to make. i was in quite the haze

a-sentient-cup

poll test

if my calculations are correct

this is gonna

have an absurd amount of time until it expires

but i don't know if it's repeatable

Choice 5

Voting ended onOct 30, 2025

a-sentient-cup

hehe

bisexualisopod

we’re almost there (and by almost there i do in fact mean about 427 days left but thats a lot less than 969 so)

a-sentient-cup

it started at 1000 days lol so over halfway there

frightfullytreeish

a-sentient-cup

whoa-a

alphabetcompletionist

actually yeah, this is not the place for it, but i wanna know

your painkiller of choice?

aspirin

ibuprofen (advil)

naproxen (aleve)

acetaminophen (tylenol)

something prescription-only (e.g. opioids)

i don't use painkillers (how?)

other (tags)

Voting ended onMar 31, 2025

ABCDEFGHI KLMNOP RSTUVWXY

23/26

#paracetamol #and ibuprofen

funkiest-ghoul-in-town

you can only reblog this today. if you even care

sizhens-deactivated20250415

idk i dont mean this with as much derision as might bleed out but it is exceedingly clear that some of you were never considered retard-faggots as a child and therefore never subject to the subsequent torments Pure Children would subject Retard-Faggot Children to.

[* the use of these slurs is not reclamatory but is also not pejorative. the use of these slurs is academic, technical, and descriptive.]

sizhens-deactivated20250415

like i was a social outcast since the moment i could speak. like this was my entire life and it literally never changed. i continue to be a social outcast for the same exact reasons + several more (physically disabled now etc) and like. idk i feel like it is relevant and on some level, valuable, to my analysis that i understand this experience. like i used to be physically beaten by other children regularly for the crime of being Incorrectly Built. Transgressively Autistic and Fruity. like forreal actually Fruity in a way where people would call you slurs in elementary school. like no offense to people who experienced the profound violence of the deep closet but like. my closet wasn't even made of glass it was like I was pretending i was in the closet as a mime but every single person in the world could Smell the faggot coming off me a mile away and would very succinctly inform me of this through violence. and the physical violence wasn't even the worst part.

idk where im going with this. i guess it's just "I respect many of you but it is clear that you and i had very different experiences of Retard-Faggotry as a child." and further it is clear that this website continues to participate in veiled attempts at reenacting the childhood game of "smear the queer / retard"

sizhens-deactivated20250415

i say "this website" which is silly. of course it's not just "this website" it's like society writ large. i guess just as a product of my particular form of perpetual social-outcast-ness i continue to primarily interface with actual interactions with strangers through social media. since for the most part i am physically disabled and psychologically "fucked" enough that i spend most of my time indoors atp.

sizhens-deactivated20250415

also on that note like. i know that this is the Quirky Gay Website and so we understandably focus on stuff about being gay/trans/etc but like. i say this As a Gay Trans. i do not think people sufficiently understand or contend with the extent to which autistic people are constantly and consistently subject to immense violence both interpersonal and structural. like frankly I've experienced far more of both by merit of being autistic than for being a transgender woman or. even for being racialized. like i've nearly gotten fired from jobs for doing them autistically. if you apply for housing autistically you're likely to get rejected. if you do something autistically at the doctor's you're likely to get disregarded and infantilized and dismissed. and these are just like the somewhat trivial, normative, veiled ways autistic people Who Can Mostly "Pass" As Allistic are subject to violence.

obviously this is like a single possibly questionable source and on wikipedia of all places but just for a sense of rough scale i would like to offer this statistic.

that is not a coincidence and that is not because autistic people "Cannot Contribute To Society" or whatever. it is an expression of structural violence which exists in service of the biopolitical regime of imperial capital and specifically to the benefit of allistic people.

and i know we Talk about autism nowadays as this kind of quirky trait, and the implication is that this is a form of Difference that Society Has Come To Accept. but that's just not true. autistic people continue to be the subjects of immense violence. if anything, it's just that the violence has gotten subtler, more insidious, in how it identifies its victims. "the vibes were off." "idk she was just kind of odd." "she was really awkward and kind of uncomfy." "not very professional." "abrasive and grating." the knife has just found a better way of hiding under the folds of the robes.

autistic people continue to be some of the most vulnerable people in society but especially under the system of imperial capital, where human autonomy is directly linked to potential labor output under a very particular paradigm. and when combined with the fact that the average autistic person is undoubtedly profoundly traumatized by how they are treated for being autistic, this confers a significantly higher rate of "mental illness" among autistic people which further forces us onto the outskirts of society where we are more and more vulnerable to exploitation and violence.

and like, obviously this should not have to be true to justify the cessation of violence against autistic people. but we literally keep the world afloat. do you know how many industries would shut down immediately, just completely collapse, without the specific labor of the specific skillsets of autistic people? and in particular, how much physical infrastructure would simply cease functioning? every workplace that is held up by "strangely, mysteriously" and incredibly disciplined and rigorous documentation, every computer infrastructural project upheld by One Guy's lifelong commitment to doing this critical project completely thanklessly, every workplace which is carried by That One Woman who seems to understand how everything works even though nobody else does. How many of those people are simply autistic people who have to hide this fact because we are targeted for violence for being this way? And if those are the success stories, the ones who managed to slip under the radar because they weren't Visibly Autistic Enough to get caught, how many more of us could be rotting in living circumstances where we are essentially kept prisoner by "caretakers"?

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idk. i care very deeply about this. and it bothers me how frequently it seems other people do not.

sizhens-deactivated20250415

im kind of expecting this post to not get a lot of traction and im trying to determine if that'll be primarily because allistic people will be made profoundly uncomfortable by it or because autistic people are going to be understandably afraid of sharing it. i don't mean this as like a reblog bait comment i just genuinely think that this is like a borderline mechanistic phenomenon atp.

sizhens-deactivated20250415

#yeah i experienced a lot of social isolation as a kid + it has continued into adulthood#but ive not been subjected to genuine violence and for that i am incredibly lucky#i genuinely wish everyone had closer to my experience bc while yes it was and is painful#it is nowhere near as bad as the institutional violence some of my fellow autistic queers have experienced#and bc of that i acknowledge that i am incredibly lucky and privileged

I am not trying to single out this person but i've received a number of responses to this post already (which is encouraging in the sense that it is seemingly proving my concerns that this post would gain no traction to be incorrect) but like. i want to be explicit about this. i am so terribly sorry you went through this. and while i was like, subject to physical and psychological torment many times in my life, it was the isolation and loneliness that left some of the worst lasting scars on my person, both in the physical and emotional sense.

isolation and loneliness are just as functional and violent forms of social punishment enacted against autistic people to break us down and Other us. humans are a social species. to be completely isolated and alone is a terrible violence to have done to a human being that is a fracturing and traumatic experience. there is a reason that for many cultures and eras, exile is considered a serious enough punitive measure to be considered almost equal to death. in some cultures it is considered worse. solitary confinement is a form of imprisonment which is considered by many to be explicitly a form of torture. to tear a human being out of their community, or, far worse, to force a human to grow up and live their whole life completely separate and distinct from the rest of society -- that is a horrifying thing to do to a person. it is a thing that breaks people.

i appreciate the desire to acknowledge the perceived experience of privilege which comes with not having been subject to physical violence, and on some level i commend the underlying impulse to be compassionate and acknowledge when others experiences might be more difficult than yours. but the reality is that you did not deserve to go through that any more than I deserved to be hit or grabbed or whatever for being autistic. you did not deserve to be forced to be by yourself. and that this was itself a form of grievous violence struck against you by a society that was cruel to you. and the fact that you were not saved from this violence by a caring and compassionate community is itself a collective failing on the behalf of the people around you. and indeed, these things are not really separable, but simply different expressions of the same punitive cruelty that we have both been subject to. and I'm sorry. you deserved better than that.

betchq

OBLEWAM WAS WSZYSTKICH SZAMPANEM!! MOŻE NIE IDEAŁ ALE MAŁY KROCZEK DO IDEAŁU!!

jbirdoftheriverlands-deactivate

before it gets bad I'm just gonna tell y'all certain rich people have literally only recently noticed Open Source software availability compromises the bottom line of their proprietary investments so if you see little chickadees on this website talking about the dangers of Open Source software all of a sudden it's cuz they accidentally sipped some koolaid mixed up by the far right yacht people to fuck with peoples software sovereignty and right to repair, modify, and redistribute robust codebases that become a problem when 30% of your portfolio is in, oh, say, adobe or openai.

This is your unfriendly neighborhood computer fucker telling you not to fall for it and to demand your right to digital sovereignty rather than trusting companies to make correct choices about what to do with the parts of your life they would very much like to have in the cloud to continue improving their products.

jocoder2

Staff have done their best to hide this post, OP's blog has been deleted to hide it. Spread this post as much as you can (ideally through screenshots to avoid it being nuked)

sonofshu

hold on how does this work exactly

sonofshu

My no note post now

thegreatlazule

either OP has been deleting each reblog at the speed of light, they have some plugin that allows them to instantly delete a reblog, or they’ve followed a guide to make a post have no notes, it should be noticed that none of these possibilities make any plausible fucking sense

marcineko-art

I am worried about the swedes of color, there is so many openly racist laws being passed here in sweden currently

marcineko-art

Black and brown and asian swedes have to jump through a social gauntlet to get below average opportunities that white swedes take for granted and its disgusting, a lot of them living in constant fear of being deported and working on shitty contracts that are tied to their right of residency, which means that if they lose their job or the salary requirement gets changed to be higher they will lose everything and be deported, and Swedish government is working their damn hardest to raise the minimal salary required. People who have been living here for decades are threatened with having all their rights being stripped off and deportation

marcineko-art

Don't let the white supremacist Swedish stereotype fool you, there is no sweden without people of color

marcineko-art

I have just been informed that one of my coworkers has committed suicide when these law changes were revealed due to stress caused by the extremely exploitative job and active threat of losing her home and everything she has, and honestly it makes me so sick that nobody talks about how racist scandinavia can be and how badly marginalized swedes have it, everybody is treating us as others, non swedes, despite living here and paying taxes and speaking your language, this system is so corrupt and rigged against all of us but ESPECIALLY against brown people, muslism and black people, it makes me so sick. There's no sweden without us.

These laws and working conditions are killing people these people have no choice but to comply, if you stop working or dont work enough, due to disability or sickness your right to live here in sweden is revoked, doesnt matter your whole livelihood is here. It is work under threat of violence, and minority mentally ill and other people in need of help are the first ones to feel the effects of it, so disgusting.

marcineko-art

I hope she rests in peace and that this system of exploitation, racial classism and racial police violence falls and burns.