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petrichormeraki

i finally made my own character bingo go nuts inbox (feel free to rb)

#alright character bingo... 2!!

status-quo-hater

STOP SAYING HERMAPHRODITE

status-quo-hater

"But I'm not talking about humans I'm tal-" I DON'T CARE SHUT UP

gloryoftheapocalypse-deactivate

It does not matter what you're using it on: IT IS A SLUR. FIND ANOTHER WORD.

I don't even want to respond to that one long rant about snails on the other post, it shouldn't matter if they don't have parts that intersex people can have, it is still, A SLUR, you have blatantly ignored the part where I said that you are still cycling around A SLUR, and that you can still find another way to refer to them.

IT IS A SLUR IT IS A SLUR IT IS A SLUR, STOP MAKING EXCUSES. you wanting to refer to an animals genitals does NOT come before our fucking oppression.

I have a special interest in marine biology, I have multiple animals that I love that have similar anatomy; would I use my interest as an excuse to blatantly ignore the fact that someone is telling me to stop using an oppressive slur and then proceed to use it multiple times in attempt to explain why I shouldn't be bothered by it? Fuck No, why would you? WHY? That doesn't matter more than our oppression.

raineofthedragons

Genuine question, what should we call them instead? Does just intersex work?

status-quo-hater

No. Cosexual is the term for animal species that produce both gametes.

Dichogamous is the term for animal species that change sex later in life

Monoecious is for plants that self-pollinate

The h word isn't even considered correct by anyone actually in biology, it's too vague.

Intersex is for an individual of any species with natally atypical sex characteristics, so no, every snail is not intersex just because they aren't set up like humans. That is just their typical sexual anatomy.

status-quo-hater

^ "both" doesn't really happen in gonochoric (two sexed) species, but between, does. That's likely what you're referring to. It's impossible for pretty much every mammal to have two separate fully operational reproductive systems in one body just because of how we develop in utero. But we can have sexual anatomy that is not clearly one option or yhe other, or otherwise is difficult to categorize.

This would be an example of intersexuality. Intersex is something which naturally occurs in individuals, (like albinism causing white fur on a normally brown deer), wheras cosexual species have both reproductive ability as their norm, (think, polar bears having white fur as default)

#h slur

theworldrevolvving

TENNA NO

smolmight97

#tenna deltarune #deltarune

deepfrieddeltarunememes

#deltarune spoilers #dr spoilers #deltarune #(it's. area and mechanic spoilers so it counts I think)

sometiktoksarevalid

delicatepeanutlover

Gaster theme lyrics:

I am gaster

Wing ding gaster

See my blaster

Fuck you bastard

backup-vocalists

(He is gaster)

(Wing ding gaster)

(See his blaster)

(Fuck you bastard)

backup-vocalists

Visit Original Link

#undertale #undertale gaster #wd gaster

brightlotusmoon

the-moon-loves-the-sea

This is so wrong, though. Because “Don’t sit down, never sit down,” is absolutely what some of the most productive adhders I know are living by, and it’s killing them. They burn out, their health breaks down, they lose the capacity to sleep a full night because their nervous systems have forgotten how to relax, they live with chronic systemic pain that doctors can’t find a source for.

If you want to live a productive life with adhd, forget about your productivity looking like a neurotypical’s. What you need are the brain engine primers, a habit of trusting yourself, and a phone timer. What I mean is, believe that you are capable of finding a way to do what you need to do. Let go of what neurotypical people tell you about life goals and five year plans and figure out what is important to you.

And then figure out what starts your engine. Not just one thing, ten or twenty things. Does a cup of coffee in the morning help your brain get in gear? Do you process better if you go on a walk? Do you feel more present in your body with a regular yoga class? Is there music you can play that gets you hyped?

And then ride the waves of your brain. Take ten or twenty minutes to do whatever is the next thing you need — a phone call or the vacuuming or a report — and then stop. (Unless you’re on a roll you want to ride; keep going then while it still feels good, unless it’s been an hour or two and you need to eat and pee and take a breather.) Put the task down. Set the damn phone timer for ten minutes or twenty. Get one of the calm-down things that puts you back in your body — a cup of tea, or a moment standing outside breathing deep, or a look at tumblr, or a snack.

Then when the timer goes off, pick a brain starter. Put the playlist on or pull your hair back or start pacing, and start the next damn thing. Or the same damn thing. And be proud of yourself. You are gorgeous and you’ve got this.

brightlotusmoon

You're so correct.

I've known so many people who assumed they were exceptions. They were for a while. Now one of them needs a new hip and another needs a knee replacement.

headspace-hotel

Thank god someone responded with this because I was about to be like "I am obligated to warn you, that you are going to be learning a very big lesson some time soon."

Your fancy human brain is very young. It thinks of ideas, yes! But you have in the very core of your being, a billions-of-years-old survival engine that ruthlessly keeps you alive.

You can be determined to live your life as though you are being hunted for sport, and you will either die, destroy your health, or this much more ancient part of you will save you, by making your body fall apart in very bizarre ways until you have no choice but to rest.

vaspider

If you do not schedule maintenance, your device will schedule it for you.

mckitterick

ADHD health hack #175:

keep a giant thing of water / other liquid on hand when you sit or begin a project - if you actually drink it, not only will it keep you hydrated, I guarantee you won't get sucked into hours of hyperfocus that could drain you or wear you out, because you'll have to take a little break to pee

brightlotusmoon

*chin in hand* It's been a while. Like a year after I first posted this, I decided to finally Rest. I spent more time Resting on a daily basis than ever. In my forties. With spastic dyskinetic cerebral palsy. Despite many people outright insisting I was going to damage my body, I slowed down. I exercised less and also more softly. It's been like that for a couple of years and I'm very slowly returning to a stronger quicker pace. I'm definitely sitting more. For my body, my brain, my conditions, it's best that I rest.

mars-gallavanger

I Grew Up Room Shaped!

gummybearattacktheworldofdespair

therustyskull

@ralfmaximus Showers that will kill you

ralfmaximus

Holy shit I thought this was a Sims bit or someone playing with CAD software, but the last few seconds knocked me out

#well. new room for testing lifesim build tools at least

carry-on-my-wayward-butt

space video game where u come across an alien civilization and they don’t immediately speak/learn English For Your Benefit

carry-on-my-wayward-butt

in fact everything sounds confusing and garbled and the subtitles are all boxes and squiggles to you, the player, until doing enough interaction and missions for them results in their word sounds becoming more pronounced as a language and the subtitles slowly become English for you, the player, to read because you, the character, are learning the language

penwiper

There’s actually a game like this! It’s little flash game, not a big fancy console game, but it’s delightful and very fun to play. You’re a crash-landed alien and have to figure out words from their context until you learn enough to ask for the help you need. Tork.

shiroikabocha

nobody in the notes has mentioned Chants of Sennaar yet, so—hey maybe check out Chants of Sennaar for another game that implements this concept well!

#seconding Chants of Sennaar

spin-the-wheel-polls

I will regret this and shouldn't make wheels at 2am but

This tumblr sexyman is your son!

Are you proud of him

yes!

somewhat

I shouldn't be but yes

NO.

I'm disowning him

I am scared of him

Results

Voting ended onJun 24

(sorry if your favourite is not in this poll, I went mostly off the contenders from this year's poll and the classics)

#santa claus from rise of the guardians #I barely remember the books and I kinda remember the movie #I'd be proud of him from what I remember though

t4timekeeper

both very funny and awfully frustrating that people will be like “just because this character is aromantic doesn’t mean they can’t be romance-favourable / in a romantic relationship 🥺” and then the character in question is canonically like “i hate romance so much it’s unreal”

#as much as I want to find more canonically aro characters (particularly aroallo but aroace is easier to find)#I have to admit I'm a little scared of what fans will do to them from the little bits I've seen #from the two (out of two) canonically aroace characters I already have seen this done to