hey how are you? I was wondering about you possibly doing me a wind breaker matchup request:
Personality: I’m kind of reserved, but a smiley kind of reserved, not stoic faced to people who don’t know me. Like someone walks past me on street, I’ll give a polite smile and nod. Tip my hat at them or jingle my head piece. Normally when I wanna approach someone for friendship, I’ll like slowly build up to it and greet them at where they work or frequently hang out. I like to go out once a week cuz the four walls in my house and going to the same work place starts getting to me. (I like my work place. I just need a change of scenery). I try to always remain calm and collected in a discussion. But it’s sometimes hard, especially if the other is super intense and argumentative. I like to be playful and like people on my wavelength. Or at least, someone I can crack open and help them learn to be on my playful wavelength so they realise life’s too short to take it seriously (i’ve been through a lot in life and it’s a shame for someone to sit around and mope for the rest of our lives about it when there’s a lot of fun and good to be done (i do take it seriously when it counts, but just the average day. I do not. I wanna enjoy every moment of living existence with people I like and get them to do this too.). Though when something unexpectedly bad happens. I get stressed (basic problems. Like maybe my phone broke. I get a bit mentally overwhelmed and need a back and forth with someone to help me think straight in fixing the problem). . If it’s a fight in front of me or a danger is happening. My survival instincts kick in and I’m for some reason able to stay calm and wisely decide what should best be done while the more well put together people freak out. I don’t want to deal with either but if it’s a fight or the washing machine breaking, I’d rather deal with a fist fight. I’m a sweet, relaxing, chaotic thing according to my friends. I love going to festivals. I dislike carrots, but like carrots juice.
I enjoy reading, trying things once, i enjoy going on car rides with zero destination and then going back home later that night (i get twitchy once a week and need to just GO). I enjoy art. Writing. Hiking. Trying sports once. Trying odd foods. I love me some bath bombs: range from something nice to oh my god, the bath looks blood red. I enjoy rpg games. I love a good realistic thriller story. But I also like hardcore fantasy. I like to swim in lakes when it’s summer, and I will do it with all my clothes on. I can sit for hours and just read or listen to myth podcasts, videos and books: from the stories, architecture, art, music and rituals. I don’t do archaeology myself, but it’s so interesting reading up on it. I enjoy dancing and bars. I like to go shopping. cooking is fun, I enjoy making cakes and get bored so I experiment with making meals I’ve never had before be it chilli or bitter or sweet. About relationships: Now, it’s kind of like friendships. I’d like someone on my playful wavelength sometimes. I don’t particularly like someone too argumentative. (Getting upset over something isn’t problem. More just someone who argues about everything constantly. In a relationship, you’re bound to annoy your lover at some point or other, I get this though. ( I don’t like the idea of couples slapping each other or insulting each other even playfully). I can go a couple of weeks without seeing someone cuz I know we both can get busy and I respect this. . sometimes i forget I have important tasks to do. Someone just needs to pop up or text me: Hey. There’s this thing you need to do. And then I’ll get to it. . I would like to bake and cook for someone and drag them somewhere relaxing yet fun. (I do have physical healthy issues sometimes, so it’d be nice for him to be patient with me). If he needs a place to stay for the night after going through something bad, he can stay at my place with zero strings attached or any expectations. I expect same from him. I think I’m a words of affirmation kind of person and words kind of just slip out of my mouth on their own sometimes without me thinking, I don’t feel embarrassed in telling someone “I actually enjoy being around you”. When I decide to be more serious, I can speak about dark topics or insecurities with someone without it seeming too heavy. It just feels natural normally. People find it easy to talk to me. Even people waaay more quiet than I am. i’m good at giving advice, people only listen to me 50% of the time though and I usually watch the train wreck go down cuz what else can I do? Normally I’ll just casually throw something at someone and then peace out. Like I’ve thrown my words of wisdom at them, so now they get to decide what they’re gonna do with it. My jobs done.
Come to realise at some point that I enjoy pet names. I blush so hard and don’t know what to do with myself. I end up hiding my face.
If someone is argumentative all the time, i will talk back with self assurance, but. It gets exhausting though as I don’t enjoy it at all. (I can make someone cry when I talk back. Like I’m good at poking people where it hurts in their feelings. It’s exhausting for me and not good for the other person starting things with me).
I’m an ideas person. Like if I could bounce ideas of someone who then makes them happen after they ask for ideas, that’s neat. The ideas they bounce back at me can be ridiculous or sensible. I do feel disappointment when someone doesn’t bounce ideas or a plan back at me. Like a two way convo. But I don’t bother the person about it cuz it’s clearly not something they’re into doing
i wear dresses in summer and pants in winter. Ranges from morticia adam’s gothic to flower girl to american 1960-1980s style.
Favourite book series: I wanna cry cuz it’d be impossible to list them all. I can just write ones I like that are on my shelf for rereading purposes though: School for good and evil (fantasy story which turns princess and witch tropes on their head. The head masters evil and kidnaps children to do the story book bidding. Kids forced to be evil witches are fated to die brutally. So you can probably see why the kids uprise against the evil headmaster 😂. / Another book: Last witness: detective story).
A tv show that I have a soft spot for is Trigun. Even when I’m not watching him I’m actually always thinking about it. It’s literally just cuz of Vash the stampede. / Any precure anime I like. I only have one live action sci fi tv show that I like and it’s called: Killjoys.
Trope: I like the opposites attract trope (not where they’re argumentative until they fall in love. Where their differences make each other stronger). I like the Magical mysterious creature x princess trope. I like the: they’re a sweet lovely couple, but will take your kneecaps if you hurt the husband/wife. (Like they’re loving towards each other, but too bad for everyone else haha).
👒“You are out of my league… You are more than just a dream”🐝
Song title: Out of my league by Fitz and The Tantrums
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You have been matched with Akihiko Nirei
•I was originally between Nirei, Kiryu and Suo, however I figured that Nirei matches you as an ideas person.
• While you are already an excellent person in a discussion, Nirei can most likely help you when you’re struggling in one. Since he is an observant person, he will definitely be useful when things get hard. In addition, I can see him being scared to speak up due to him being a shy guy. You can definitely help him get his opinions out.
• I think you can crack open Nirei. He looks up to a lot of people. He most likely will grow into someone more playful once he builds confidence.
• Nirei is insecure about not being helpful enough. I can definitely imagine him also helping somebody mentally, if he would take a million punches to the face to save somebody, he would definitely run in to save someone from being overwhelmed.
• You seem like somebody who likes experiences with unpredictable outcomes (I.e long car rides). I have a feeling Nirei would like that too. If he documents people’s interests and other details in his notebook, he’d have a whole section for you.
•Nirei doesn’t make huge deals out of small issues. If anything he solves them, (throwback to when Sugishita crushed Sakura’s paper cup and Nirei telling Sakura to just take his).
•I can definitely see Nirei helping you with memory (I have that issue too). Suo did state that it’s one of Nirei’s best strengths.
• Nirei would be perfect with somebody who is easy to talk to hence, he gets intimidated easily.
• Nirei can bounce ideas back. He has a full mind with all his documenting and observing. He is also a pretty quick thinker in my opinion (Season 2 shows evidence of this)
• You guys would make a good opposites attract. You’re a logical, calm and smart person and he’s a frantic, generous, and pure person.
Thank you for requesting. I don’t proof read these so I apologize for typos or grammatical errors. You honestly remind me of a lawyer (lawyers are cool :D). 👍
