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North of Ireland / Autistic woman / Feminist

[alyceinwonderland777]

You are against the sex industry because you see sex as something "sinful" and don't see sex workers as human beings. I am against the sex industry because of its exploitative nature.

We are not the same.

[ratqueen40]

So Bonnie Blue actually is pregnant. I wish her and her baby the best, because she is receiving death threats. As much as dislike her and what she promotes, she doesn’t deserve to be harmed. It’s just very unfortunate she’s only going to get dragged and harassed, but not the 1000 plus men she had sex with. I’m more disgusted with the men in this situation tbh. Bonnie Blue isn’t the main issue here, she’s simply a symptom of a bigger issue. For every Bonnie Blue there is, there are dozens if not hundreds of more males who would willingly participate in this type of “content” that Bonnie Blue curates and promotes.

[radfemme-rage]

[theambitiouswoman]

Your brain doesn’t get tired from doing things, it gets tired from resisting things. When you’re doing nothing your mind starts overthinking and carrying the weight of all the things you’re avoiding. That’s why you feel so tired. It burns more mental energy than simply taking action

Do the thing

[theambitiouswoman]

I want to add to this that the less you do, the more your brain starts to question your ability to do anything at all. Inaction slowly chips away at your confidence because you’re no longer proving to yourself that you can handle things. This is also true when someone else is doing everything for you like a partner or a parent. Momentum creates evidence. When you stop moving, that evidence disappears, and doubt fills the space. Over time, even simple tasks start to feel heavier than they actually are because you’ve trained your mind to hesitate instead of act

Avoidance creates doubt, and doubt creates more avoidance. The only way out is action, even in small doses

[torchestogether]

it actually infuriates me that we as a society have decided to medicalize and pathologize gender nonconformity

[justsomeguycore]

maybe i will performatively go to the farmers market and performatively buy some flowers to performatively let stick out my performative tote bag and performatively have a nice time

[marcusbrutus]

me when i hear about yet another person dying from complications relating to plastic surgery or dying of an overdose after becoming addicted to painkillers post-plastic surgery but im just supposed to pretend that everything is fine and this is all normal and there is no war in ba sing se and somehow im the problem because something something bodily autonomy

[theyrestnotdayandnight]

higher quality version lol

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

Video of young girl in Iran: I hate being female in this horribly misogynistic society where women and girls are violently oppressed, and I’m also attracted to the same sex. I wish I were a boy sometimes

Commenters: Aww I hope this BOY is a happy BOY now! Trans joy uwu!

[marbleguard]

it’s crazy these people never realize when they say shit like this they’re essentially agreeing with the oppressive gender roles of the society at hand.

[msmonster28]

Does anyone know if swaglet is still on tumblr?

[probuccalfat]

people will describe their incredibly nebulous sexuality to you that they’ve never been able to define and the whole time you’re thinking that sounds like bisexuality brother

[diana-lostandfound]

"We're just making up for the girlhood we never got to have!!" 

My friend who left her Amish order at age 19, who was the eldest daughter to a family of nine, who never had a birthday party, whose days of cooking and cleaning and farm labor and taking care of her younger siblings started at 4:30 am, has never felt the urge to do ageplay 

My coworker, who raised her violent younger brother and fended for herself in a filthy double-wide trailer where her parents were either gone or raging drunk at home, who couldn't even dare to invite a friend over because of how horrifying her home life was, has never felt the urge to have a slumber party pillow fight

My neighbor's mother, who grew up as a house girl in southern India, who was born into a life of drugery and hiddenness and abuse, who wasn't allowed to even touch the toilet or dining utensils of the house she was forced to work in for 10 hours a day as a child, has never felt the urge to drink out of a Disney princess sippy cup 

MTFs do not want to experience girlhood. Girlhood as we lived it would have made these pampered, whiny, milksop men kill themselves. They want to live in the sexualized schoolgirl anime that was contrived entirely in the minds of men. None of us got to experience that girlhood, and yet none of us are desperately trying to recreate it as adults now.

[xcounterforcex]

"Parents usually try to protect girls more and dress them in pretty dresses" — yes, because for centuries, women's lives depended on whether the rich rapist would like them and buy them or not. Woman were literally raised for sale like cattle.

Just remember that "princesses," contrary to the stereotypes about their pampering, were mere bargaining chips. They were artificially pushed out of power, driven back to tea parties and dress fittings, because their primary function was to be sold and then regularly subjected to sexual and reproductive violence.

Your idea of ​​womanhood or girlhood is literally built on the propaganda of misogynists (who don't want to lose the opportunity to rape women so they block women's right movement) and the mockery of femicide. Just think about that twice.

[scarabies-real]

Realizing the depression is not seasonal is like: Wow! What a beautiful flower! The birds are singing! I sure do love spring! I think I am fundamentally unlovable as a person.

[uncomfortablecliche]

if ur man doesn’t like your pubic hair there’s something majorly wrong with him. ppl who like women are like ooooo awooga when they peek a bit of bush.

honestly you’re an idiot for letting him touch you and possibly leak his deficiencies into the gene pool. that’s how u get so many perverts is bc many ppl would rather lie to themselves and be with a pervert than be alone. there’s no point to this post i just wanted to talk

[uncomfortablecliche]

^the rationale btw if you even care

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

i just apolitically killed the king like i have no agenda or whatever im just the jester here but i stabbed him anyway LOL all the courtiers and advisors are trying really hard to figure out who did it LOL all of them wanted him dead but they dont know whose scheme it was so nobody can promulgate a coherent political maneuver based on the circumstances LOL just playing my lute #MyLute

[opalescentfem-deactivated202604]

Girly Self-Care Tips for Girls

Work out every day. Get ripped.

Quit wearing makeup, and ESPECIALLY quit wearing full coverage makeup. It's terrible for your skin.

Don't shave your bush. All it does is increase risk of vaginal infections and give you razor burn + ingrown hairs.

Eat healthier and eat more iron. In the United States, 40% of women are iron deficient.

Fix your sleep schedule.

Take your vitamins.

Learn about your own anatomy.

Learn to self-advocate. It's hard to do, but it will help you massively if you can accomplish it.

Stop dating men. Go 4B.

Stop having sex with men. They are disease vectors.

Ditch coffee, drink green tea. Green tea improves cognitive function and heart health.

You don't need any fancy skincare products. Unless you have an actual skin condition, the only thing you need to put on your face is sunscreen, face-safe soap, and water.

Go outside more. Spend time in nature, or just stand outside in your garden or driveway.

Don't get cosmetic surgery or fillers. By doing so you're just putting yourself in danger for the sake of beauty standards.

Learn everything you can possibly learn.

[friendlyfreakazoid]

“We’re all the same in the eyes of conservatives!” Um yeah so that’s a problem. The fact that gay people are viewed the same as zoophile pedo bdsm freaks is a problem. The solution is absolutely NOT to try to normalize zoophile pedo bdsm freaks, the solution is to draw a clear line between gay people and zoophile pedo bdsm freaks. Attempting to appropriate gay rights activism to legitimize dangerous sex pests by acting as if both groups are intrinsically linked is homophobic.