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google "what do british people call whipped cream"

#it's because it squirts out of a can #if its handmade its just whipped #because its been whipped #also queen liz personally adds her own special flavor to every batch

oncelerfucker69-deactivated2019

Ted bundy isn't ugly, you're just a lesbian

Congratulations, this is the worst ask I’ve ever gotten

hollowboobtheory

reblog if you’re a lesbian, support lesbians, or think ted bundy is ugly

YOU hates terfs

rb if u hates terfs

noelle and scaramouche for ko-fi!!

afatlittledog

me: reblogs anything

the green bar that pops up telling me I reblogged something:

peerless-cucumber

thy-lovelylionheart

writer: this is one of my male characters! he cares about his guy friends and loves them deeply.

tumblr: oh! so he’s gay!

writer: uh…no, he’s attracted to women.

tumblr: ….so he’s bi!

writer: uhh…no…….he loves his guy friends but he’s not romantically/sexually attracted to them.

tumblr: ….so you’re homophobic.

writer:

sandersstudies

Healthy male friendships are almost as rare in mainstream fiction as gay male relationships, and maybe more rare in fanfiction. Let men be wonderful friends without pushing a romantic relationship, just like men and women should be able to be wonderful friends without the pressure of a romantic relationship.

fireteam-daybreak

*AGGRESSIVELY SLAMS REBLOG UNTIL I DIE*

nine-touched

This is literally the reason men are so terrified of being open about loving each other platonically, because they don’t want people to assume they’re gay just because they can be supportive of their fucking friends

csisui

deanssweetheart23

TV/movies/books need strong and open male friendships that do not revolve around romance as much as they need male-female friendships that are simply platonic. Not every sign of intimacy needs to lead to a love story and always suggesting that all signs of softness and dorkiness in men imply something about sexual preferences only lead to toxic masculinity (this also applies to woman who are not what society perceives as ‘feminine’).

authoreli-deactivated20210419

posts like this are why i don’t trust tumblr’s emphatic defence of platonic love.

this post is saying:

- it is the fault of people shipping men online that men are scared of showing affection, rather than the fault of societal homophobia and toxic standards of masculinity

- there are as many healthy male friendships in the media as there are gay male relationships, and therefore they both have the same representational value (!!?!!?!!)

- if you interpret men in media as gay, you’re stifling the right to platonic love that all men everywhere should have

and people are getting so caught up in their need to prove that they Support And Value Platonic Love that they’re ignoring the blatant homophobic undertones of this post - and the christian homophobe who made it - in order to reblog it in defence of platonic relationships.

listen to me. listen. men are not disallowed from having close platonic relationships because of the existence of gay male relationships. they aren’t suppressed by shippers online. men are disallowed from having close platonic relationships because we live in a society that restricts how they can behave towards one another as a result of a homophobic, patriarchal hierarchy.

this post pins the blame for toxic masculinity’s negative impact on straight men on GAY SHIPPERS ONLINE and you are all so obsessed with defending Platonic Love Being As Valuable As Romantic Love UwU that you can’t stop for two seconds and realise that this post is blatantly homophobic and i am so, so, so sick of seeing this shit on my dash.

tldr: ‘people like gay relationships online’ is such a non issue in this context that this post is ridiculous, and such shipping does cause tangential problems - like the issue of most books about gay men being written by straight women, and the fetishisation of mlm in fandom spaces - but straight men are not the victims of the Oppresive Online Shippers, they’re the dictators of the homophobic patriarchy that restricts their relationships with each other. it is not gay men’s fault for existing in media that straight men are ‘scared of being seen as gay’ if they show affection to other men. this post is blatantly homophobic but tumblr is so obsessed with ‘defending platonic relationships’ that it ignores this. grow up.

didnt-want-to-be-a-halfblood

YES YES YES THIS

The whole “gay men are the reason men can’t have a loving platonic relationships” aka “ppl don’t show affection because they don’t want to be seen as a nasty Gay Man” is harmful rhetoric that’s been used for decades. This whole post is relying on the undertones that being Gay is bad

SHIPPING GAY CHARACTERS IS NOT WHAT PREVENTS MEN FROM HAVING A LOVING PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP, IT’S HOMOPHOBIA. SHIPPING CHARACTERS AS GAY IN NO WAY STIFLES PLATONIC LOVE. HOMOPHOBIA AND TOXIC MASCULINITY IS WHAT STIFLES PLATONIC LOVE

Being afraid of being seen as gay? That’s literally just homophobia.

PEOPLE BEING AFRAID OF SHOWING PLATONIC LOVE BECAUSE IT MAKES THEM LOOK GAY IS WITHIN ITSELF BLATANTLY HOMOPHOBIC.

Seriously this is a ridiculously super homophobic take disguised as some “platonic friendship matters<3” positivity post and I’m sick of seeing it on my dash

sofiadistracted

I hate reblogging this because of the first few posts but just need to shout the follow up posts out to the people of the world

rosyish

No but seriously as I’ve gotten older I realize more and more that although white gays do face certain levels of oppression they are still white people.....like does that make sense?

rosyish

Like yes a white lesbian has some form oppression against her but she’s still a white woman..... and the same thing for white gay men and white trans men and women like they’re still white !!!!!!

rosyish

Like I don’t mean this in a rude way but like if we’re going to be honest about the lgbtq community we should also talk about how the white people in said community oppress poc and it doesn’t change just because they’re in a minority group they’re still white people

And like personally I’ve seen that white lgbtq ppl hate when you bring up that their still white because they’ve separated themselves in their mind as being better but they’re still white!!!

rosyish

Hello white people should definitely be looking at this and reblogging it lmaooo

783-remade

milfs

783-remade

it’s a sensitive subject, but of course as long as you’re respectful

otakuconvention

eating a jolly rancher filled gummie

brucebocchi

if tumblr dies before the end of the year i want everyone to know this was the best post

eobarrdq3rwe4tr-deactivated2020

can we stop acting like nonbinary ppl aren’t trans. we’re fucking trans. we don’t identify as the gender we were assigned at birth (100% man or 100% woman) therefore we’re trans. stop calling us “noncis and nontrans” what the fuck even is that

eobarrdq3rwe4tr-deactivated2020

on the same note stop acting like the 3 “flavors” of nb are masc aligned, fem aligned, and unaligned/agender. nonbinary literally just means outside the gender binary. there are multigendered ppl, there are ppl that identify strongly with a gender that isn’t man or woman, there are people that identify as neutral or that simply just know they aren’t aligned with the binary. stop simplifying us, stop mischaracterizing us.

moved-ughjohnwatson-blog

do you ever get in those moods where you don’t feel like reading and you don’t feel like being on the internet and you don’t feel like watching a show and you don’t feel like sleeping and you don’t feel like existing in general

pocketss

getting ready with the girrrlllss

part 1

candles-crystals-cauldrons

Old Herb & Plant Names

This is done on handmade paper so some of the water colour comes through to the other side of the page which I didn't think about but it looks ok,

quick side note I've noticed a lot of my pages being saved to pinterest please don't do this as a lot of people don't even link back to me they link to their own pages, I had even saved my tumblr setting so you couldn't save my pages elsewhere but that apparently doesn't stop people, it's very disheartening as I don't make money from this and put a lot of time into writing out the pages only for someone else to get the credit, I just want to share with the witchblr community, please appreciate my wishes and don't save my posts on pinterest, I may eventually get around to making an account specifically for my grimoire pages but at the moment I do not.

#save