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if we called mindfulness 'consciousness and attention training' a lot more different kind of people would see the value maybe
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Hey so as the economy continues to get worse in the next few years, gambling companies are going to go extra hardcore predatory as people become more desperate. Yes, even more than they already are. You have to promise me right now you're not going to fall for it. No gambling, okay?
This is going to be especially bad with prediction markets and sports gambling, and it's already really fucking bad. But it also goes for loot boxes, blind box collectables, trading card games, and ESPECIALLY gacha games.
You know what? I'm going to add to this!
Gambling operations like 'Predictive Markets' like Kalshi, sports betting, gacha games, and other gambling platforms have been heavily pushed at men (redpill/manosphere spaces especially are heavily sponsored by gambling companies) and now that a lot of men are hooked these operations will probably be targeting women as a demographic soon too. If Andra's (creator above) experience is accurate for other influencers, a lot of influencers with high percentages of women in their audience will be approached to push gambling (personally I'll be on the lookout for who's promoting gambling in the next 6-12 months).
Blind boxes, gacha games, and loot boxes have also gotten pushed out to all age demographics (see: Labubus) so if you have kids our young people in your life I'd also be checking in on them because gambling issues really can sneak up on you fast.
Remember everybody: The House [gambling operation] always wins.
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I'm not seeing any naked adults in that screenshot...
...There's something deeply messed up about how breasts, which are used by our species to feed babies, are considered to be so perverse and obscene that a child should never see them.
There aren't any naked people in the entire video clip. There's some people that you'd probably see less of their skin on a beach, but only because on a beach they'd probably be wearing a bikini top as well as whatever else they have on. And this is New York City, where toplessness is legal regardless of gender or assigned sex.
Toplessness for breasts is legal in most places in the US, unlegislated in almost all that remain, and only illegal in two states: Ohio and Tennessee.
This is because topless equality has been a basic push from feminists for literally decades, until Radfems and NeoCons bonded over wanting a trans genocide less than a decade ago.
It's literally why the "no tits on tumblr" and other lesser SESTA/FOSTA consequences* like it were so jarring. It set back FORTY. YEARS. OF PROGRESS in the rights of people with breasts or perceived as women to wear the same clothes as people without.
Do not let conservatives lie to you about this. The majority of people in the us and the VAST majority of States recognize the right of people to not wear a damn shirt. It isn't obscenity, it isn't even nudity, it's just something pericis men are allowed that everyone else isn't.
Y'know.
Basic sexual discrimination.
*Y'all aren't still on that "it was the Apple app store that caused the tit ban" shit, right? It was the literal US federal government. To be fucking clear.
As Pride Month comes to an end, I just want to remind you that July is Disability Pride Month and there's a flag and everything!
Charcoal Grey: Mourning for people who have died due to ableist violence, abuse, suicide, and illness
Red Stripe: Physical disabilities
Gold Stripe: Neurodiversity
Blue Stripe: Emotional and psychiatric disabilities
Green Stripe: Sensory disabilities
White Stripe: Undiagnosed and invisible disabilities
I wish general society acknowledged that "boy moms" are often incredibly abusive. They are controlling and manipulative and they often isolate their sons (and daughters, boy moms are deeply misogynistic) from other family members, friends, and especially romantic partners. There is a reason why so many men who grew up with "boy moms" struggle to stand up to their mothers even as adults with partners and children of their own; it's because years and decades of emotional abuse and manipulation make it extremely difficult to both stand up to your abuser AND to even recognize it as abuse in the first place, especially when your abuser has spent your entire life telling you that they're the only person on your side and everyone is out to get her.
This isn't a justification for the way that these men treat their own partners and children and put them below their moms, but I really think we need to talk about this like the abuse it is and recognize that it's extremely difficult to move past abuse and trauma when you don't even have those words to explain your experiences.
(Do NOT tag this as narcissistic abuse; linking abuse with disorders instead of behaviors is ableist and makes it incredibly difficult for people to get mental health care and talk about their experiences with their illnesses. Most abusers don't have NPD and most people with NPD are totally fine and wonderful friends, partners, and parents.)
"Why do so many men put up with their moms manipulating them/pushing aside their partners/taking over their weddings/etc?"
The same reason why so many adults brush off their dad beating them as kids. The same reason why so many women don't bat an eye at how controlling their boyfriends and husbands are. Because that abuse is normal to them and it is painful and difficult to recognize how awful it really is, especially when the abuse is coming from someone that you love and don't want to hurt.
I know that "what if the genders were reversed?" isn't always a useful framework, and I know that fathers being sexually controlling of their daughters is all too normalized, but that said, I think if fathers went around talking about how they don't like their sons but they like their daughters more because daughters are their "little girlfriends" and being distraught that their toddler daughter might grow up and love another man instead of being his girlfriend forever, people might be more likely to recognize this emotional and borderline sexual abuse.
I think Elliot Page should be allowed to kill people
its crazy that megan thee stallion is not considered a queer artist by some people. the woman is not shy about the fact that she finds women attractive and likes having sex with them. she references it pretty frequently in her music, she made a whole song about enjoying having threesomes with a woman and a man, she made a Jennifer's Body-themed music video, she had Victoria Monét full riding her thigh on stage at a coachella, and there's literally a video of a lesbian interviewing glorilla at a party & asking who she would date if she was queer and her immediate response is "megan. megan like girls!" and then megan turns around and immediately starts flirting with the interviewer. i don't know what more you want. that woman is Bi Sexual and we should all be thankful every day for that. bi women are still bi when they wanna fuck men too you know. the fucking of men is also done bisexually.
people are out here conspiracy theorizing about taylor swift being a secret queer icon meanwhile megan is out here with ballroom culture, description of gay selfcest, and referencing a specific black sapphic identity
also we can officially say that that megan self-identifies as "a free agent on the ladies side." & after she said she was a ''free agent'' there are STILL articles being "people are speculating but she hasnt confirmed it." she literally. said. she was interested in women and wanted a girlfriend. what more confirmation is needed.
also see this moment she had with yung miami (in an interview where they are just. openly intensely flirting with each other literally the entire time) where megan tells yung miami she'd top her and yung miami says she'd bottom for her. megan explicitly talks about having had sex with women and how much she enjoys it. megan thee stallion is bi as the day as long & if these women were white, if this was chappell roan and reneé rapp, this would have been considered a Major Sapphic Pop Culture Moment.
The first photo is from 1956. It shows a Black woman watching members of the Ku Klux Klan (a terrorist, racist, far-right organization focused on white supremacy) walking along a sidewalk in Montgomery, Alabama (USA). I couldn't find the photo's author, but most sources state that it was taken in 1956.
The second photo shows members of the Patriot Front group (a white supremacist and nationalist group, formed in 2017, that openly advocates what they call "American Fascism") traveling on the subway during the 250th anniversary of the U.S. independence in Washington D.C., while a Black woman watches them. The photo is by photographer Cheney Orr, taken on July 4, 2026, 70 years after the first photo.
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The autistic community tends to suppress BIPOC voices, and it's our responsibility to step back, quiet down, and let their voices be heard.
HERE is a link to a list of BIPOC autistic advocates. Their works are so important to the entire community.
You can watch the full video HERE
Hot take, but even if you ARE punching up (instead of punching sideways at a group that is in the same boat as you), there's a limit to what you can say without sounding like a violent facist but woke this time.
Making fun of a group of people that are privileged over you is one thing, but wishing non-cartoonish violence and death on them ("they should fall off a cliff" vs. "they should be wiped out"), wishing sexual violence on them, dehumanising them, claiming that they're less capable of creating art or living meaningful lives, saying that their relationships are inherently shallow and fake - these things are fucked up. I understand venting and saying extreme things when in pain, but when you find yourself regularly posting about wanting certain people tortured and killed, you need to examine that.
When the only thing stopping you from completely dehumanising someone is your own judgement regarding their privilege level relative to yours, you are not a safe person to be around.
"convince your followers that their Oppressor Class (whether real or imagined) is less deserving of human rights" is the oldest and most reliable trick in the book to incite mass violence, and you're not immune to it because you're a Good Person with Correct Opinions. you will continue to be a potential breeding ground for fascist thought until you stop dehumanizing people in any context, regardless of whether they deserve it or not, or how serious you are. there can be no acceptable targets.
In the spring of 1994, the small African nation of Rwanda was engulfed in a maelstrom of violence that saw at least 800,000 Tutsi and modera
I always think of the Rwandan Genocide when it comes to this. Thank you for bringing it up.
In particular, from that second link:
As we have already seen in this series of articles, Rwanda’s ethnic division between Hutu (around 85 %) and Tutsi (around 14 %) had deep roots in colonial rule. Under Belgian administration, identity cards fixed ethnicity as a rigid category, and the Tutsi minority was favoured for education and government work. After independence in 1962, this hierarchy inverted, and Hutu elites consolidated control. [...] When RTLM launched in July 1993, it combined pop-culture style with extremist ideology. This hybrid made hatred sound normal, even entertaining. Music, jokes, gossip, and death threats co-existed in the same broadcast. [...] RTLM’s language fused entertainment with ideology. It mocked Tutsis as arrogant “cockroaches” (inyenzi), accused them of conspiring to enslave Hutus, and encouraged listeners to “work” to eliminate them—a euphemism for killing. Humour, music, and familiarity disguised the lethal message.
“Anything goes as long as it’s punching up” is also the central tenet of antisemitism. Leftists think Jews are the ultrawhite ruling class, worst of the worst of whiteness, and conservatives think we’re a race secretly controlling the world and pretending to be white as a plot to bring down the white race. People who believe the latter are in charge of the US government rn. The nature of antisemitism is that we serve as a misdirect for the people with real power. Whatever issues you care about, people in power will find a way to blame the Jews. I cannot remember the exact quote or who it’s from, but I will paraphrase it anyways. Depending on who you ask we’re communists, capitalists, nationalists, rootless cosmopolitans, white, least white, liberals, conservatives, fascists, anarchists, or whatever other “existential and powerful” threat one may believe exists. But what we never are to these people is human. We’re the monsters who hurt them and so it’s okay to hurt us. The truth doesn’t matter, of course, because they aren’t actually afraid of us. We’re just a safer and easier target, and the lie that hurting us is dangerous and makes a change is easier than the hard truths and dangers one must face to fight real power. As Jean-Paul Sartre said, “If the Jew did not exist, the antisemite would invent him.” Because it is not about the truth, but having a comforting lie that you can make positive change through abusing the vulnerable.
Remember Audre Lorde, "The master's tools will never dismantle the master's house."
Are you dismantling the system or just taking it over?
This might come across as harsh but if you are perisex and assigned male at birth you do not FUCKING have endometriosis! No matter how validated it would make you feel you don’t fucking have it and lying to claim to have a condition that causes nearly unmanageable pain for a quarter of your life or more is disgusting. You don’t have it. I don’t care that you can pull up a bare handful of barely substantiated cases from a study you didn’t read you. Don’t. Have. It. You might have Crohns disease or IBS or something like that and I’m sorry that doesn’t feel affirming enough to you but get over it
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People often categorize endometriosis as a “women's health” issue, leading many to think it's a disease of the female reproductive organs —
In perisex people AMAB, endometriosis is an extremely rare (but it can still happen, and SOMEBODY has to have it) response to estrogen therapy (due to prostate cancer albeit but I'm 100% sure it can happen from estrogen as Trans HRT). True, there were under 20 reported cases as of when the article was written but the number is likely to be higher because doctors already are terrible about endo in people AFAB so naturally they would also dismiss the prospect of it in those AMAB as it is much rarer
Please do not spread misinformation, I'm inclined to believe that anyone AMAB who believes that they have endo has already ruled out Crohns or IBS
Wow 20 whole cases that’s so crazy! Anyways you don’t fucking have endometriosis
I never claimed to...?
Op, what's this stolen valor grade bullshit? Even if someone misdiagnosed themself with a condition they don't actually have, what's in it for you?
The fact that it’s a condition with no cure and no real treatment other than “idk have a major surgery or get pregnant a lot” that is understudied and that most people refuse to take seriously because periods are painful for everyone so why are you whining so much. The fact that it’s a condition that causes your internal organs to be physically glued to each other and to your abdominal walls and causes internal bleeding. The fact that it takes most people around a decade to be diagnosed and even then the only diagnostic tools available are an ultrasound wand shoved into your vagina followed by surgery. Because nobody gives a shit unless it hampers your ability to be breeding stock. Because instead of trying to help us scientists are trying to figure out if it makes us sexier.
I don’t believe that you’re stupid enough to not understand this. I know you know it would be wrong to claim you have fibromyalgia or EDS or asthma or seizures or fucking whatever that you don’t have and try to get sympathy and resources that you don’t need.
You don’t care because it’s about menstruation. You don’t see what’s the big deal because society has ingrained in you that diseases related to the uterus are inconsequential at best and something you deserve at worst.
It's underresearched according to your own admission, but you're just so solid certain that a bit less than a half of the population is ontologically incapable of having it? And you keep dismissing the evidence people show you because the number of discovered cases doesn't satisfy you? That's unserious.
Don't start shit with people about what disabilities they have or don't have. Everyone knows their own body better. And no, severity of a disability does not mean you gotta double down on sniffing out "fakers". Just don't do that crap, to anyone.
Your anger seems, to me, to be coming from the idea that if people assigned male can have endometriosis, then somehow the immense medical misogyny experienced by people assigned female who have endo doesn't exist or doesn't matter and you aren't allowed to talk about it at all. Which just is not true. All of the points you've made about the medical misogyny targeted at those with endometriosis and vaginas/uteri can be true and important, and people assigned male who aren't intersex can have endometriosis.
Plenty of cis women act the exact same way about trans women having hormonal menstrual cycles, insisting that its impossible and everyone who claims they do is lying or mistaking IBS symptoms, and that its stolen valor to claim that its possible. And yet it is possible. The body does not care about maintaining very clear distinctions between sexes for the sake of making political points more black-and-white. Men in pink collar jobs earn less than men in blue collar jobs. That doesn't mean that the devaluing of pink collar jobs isn't misogynistic, or that people seen as women aren't primarily being affected.
I did read one of the studies listed in that article, which is both a case report and a literature review. They surgically removed a mass from a man's abdomen and that is how they diagnosed it as endometriosis. That seems... pretty credible to me?
Gross exam of the mass in the operating room revealed a central cystic cavity with cloudy brown fluid. Further, the results from immunological stains performed by pathology revealed a highly unexpected diagnosis with an immunoprofile consistent with endometriosis. The H&E stain (Figure 2) displayed a layer of endometrial epithelium with underlying stroma. The cells lining the cystic mass stained strongly positive for CK7 (Figure 3(c)) and estrogen receptors (Figure 3(a)). CD10 stains were positive (Figure 3(e)) and CD15 staining was focally positive (Figure 3(d)) in the underlying stromal-like tissue. GATA-3 stain was negative. The patient was discharged on postoperative day two. In a two-week followup appointment, he had complete resolution of abdominal pain. [...] A comprehensive review of risk factors, location, immunohistochemistry, and outcome of prior documented cases of endometriosis in males has been accomplished for comparison (Table 1). Most of the cases involve increased estrogen in men with liver cirrhosis [2, 6] or prostate cancer treated with long-term estrogen therapy [1, 3, 5, 7–9, 11, 13, 15]. Although this patient did not have the aforementioned risk factors, it is possible that his obesity with a BMI of 35.7 caused increased systemic estrogen levels. In the case reported by Zamecnik and Hostakova, the only identifiable risk factor was obesity as well [14]. Several studies have identified a clear, positive association between increased obesity in men and increased estrogen production [17]. This phenomenon is likely associated with increased aromatization activity of adipose tissue, overexpression of proinflammatory cytokines, insulin resistance, and hyperactivation of insulin-like growth factor pathways [17]. In relation to male endometriosis, it could be theorized that this increase in aromatization could provide pathologically elevated estrogen levels to drive the growth of endometriosis from remnant embryological cells in a male.
& Its notable to me that they use such definite language, because PCOS/PMOS is also believed to occur in people assigned male without uteri/ovaries, but from what I've seen that hasn't been treated by the medical community as a definite reality (i.e that article says "PCOS might affect men" even while saying brothers of women with PMOS have symptoms suggestive of it). So even if there are only 20 cases, that these are treated as sure cases of endometriosis is telling to me. And why would they lie or overemphasize certainty about this, when there's no gain I can imagine by doing so?
Once again, everything you've said about the profound impact of misogyny on people with endometriosis can be true and important and real, and perisex men can have it. These do not contradict each in other in any way, a person assigned male claiming to have endometriosis does not mean you are not allowed to talk about any of that or that it doesn't genuinely affect people or that it isn't misogynistic or anything at all.
If your advocacy for people with endometriosis, people who menstruate, people with uteri, is so easily hampered by the reality that sometimes things which impact us also impact people with penises and testicles and no uteri or vagina, I think that's a weak spot for you in your ability to advocate on these issues. I see no reason why this being a reality should impact your ability to talk about these things in any way. If someone claimed that they are a perisex person assigned male with endometriosis and so the misogyny doesn't matter, or that because people assigned male can have endometriosis it means you aren't allowed to talk about the things you've discussed above, they are wrong.
If it is true that perisex people assigned male can get PMOS or endometriosis, it changes nothing about how medical misogyny shapes the lives of those seen as women with PMOS or endometriosis, and the importance of talking about that.
Yes actually I do think we should be able to walk down the street with self injury scars and fresh scabs without the threat of being essentially kidnapped and imprisoned for having mental health problems.
No not "as long as...!" I think unconditionally I should be able to do what I want to and with my body (even if you don't think it's helpful or you think it's disturbing) without the threat of being kidnapped and imprisoned for having mental health problems.
It has long been shown that suicide rates go up when people are released from in-patient wards. There are quite a few theories on this, but mine is that stripping autonomy, restricting freedoms, forcably drugging, mandating ineffective therapy methods, disallowing "normal" human connection, restricting outside contact but encouraging family contact, denying addiction recovery care, and more are probably what's contributing to that rate increase.
are you a gender abolitionist or a gender anarchist?
I prefer the term gender liberationist, but I think that mostly lines up with what is meant by gender anarchist. My ultimate goal isn't for gender to be abolished, but for it (and social constructs more broadly) to be liberated, meaning that they are no longer tools of power and oppression, but are properly understood as constructed/historical and fluid, and purposefully (re)constructed and creatively engaged with by free people in a free society.
Not necessarily. Horoscopes are a form of divination, and I don't think gender liberation means treating gender as a way of predicting divine will.
What gender would look like would ultimately be up to communities themselves. The idea is that gender is acknowledged as constructed, while also acknowledging that the construction of cultural identities is a natural thing humans do, and that people have a right to want to be a part of their culture/s and to engage in social construction.
Gender could still have meaning. I think its a mistake that we think acknowledging something was made up by humans means there is no or less value in it; humans are a part of the world, culture is a natural thing for our species to create as a way of maintaining social bonds and navigating life, our social constructs are no less meaningful or valuable than a dam made by a beaver. It's just a thing we do. Like many things humans do, gender has become a powerful tool for oppressive systems to control people and exploit them for power. But I don't think our options are "gender has meaning to people, and is a source of harm" or "gender is meaningless and thus cannot harm anyone."
It's very similar to my feelings on religion/spirituality & also pretty inseparable from my value of democratic synjectivity.
"Theyfab is a slur against trans men!"
And nonbinary people, right?
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...and nonbinary people, right?!?
imo the reason that theyfab actually “works” as a slur is that it’s meant as an insult to nonbinary ppl because of its inherent derision for anyone seen as “not trying as hard” to pass as a binary gender, and its assumption that enben are somehow less trans because of this. So, first and foremost, it’s a slur against nonbinary ppl.
The myth around trans men is that they pass as a binary gender soooooo much easier and more quickly/reliably than trans women, so, when ppl who feel this way see trans men who do not pass, are gnc, or who are not making efforts to be stealth/100% pass as a cis man, the assumption is that (just like nonbinary ppl), they aren’t “really” trans, just sort of trans lite.
TLDR: It’s only an insult for trans men because of the idea that comparing them to nonbinary ppl is calling their transness into question