Aubrey

she/they lesbian-esque genderfuckery and gay in the broadest sense of both words im in far to many fandoms love conan gray, hozier and Queen, and regularly cry over dead gay wizards from the 80s

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

AHHHHHHHH

masc lesbians

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

AHHHHHHHH

masc lesbians

[louisegluckpdf]

they won't tell you this in therapy but sometimes the best way to stop catastrophizing/anxiety is to interrupt your spiraling with "girl what the hell are you talking about"

[ytpreviews]

It's not a cure but you have no idea how many times this image has helped me with my OCD

[notgreatthanks]

This tag has been more effective than any meds I’ve ever taken

[the-haiku-bot]

This tag has been more

effective than any meds

I’ve ever taken

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[musiicpix3l]

Yes yes i know love is love. But they are still killing CHILDREN. over this.

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

writing is amazing bc hypothetically I am in control but I would have more control if I was under the imperial curse these characters do what they want and I let them

[smoothjazzdigit]

Have you guys seen that clip

Go off Kermit

[juliathefacesofevil]

we're just normal men

[oddjoblin]

Why the heck is this dude trying to confirm if the frog puppet is hetrosexual???

[karnalesbian]

assessing the situation before he shoots his shot

[defilerwyrm]

Happy Pride to Kermit the Frog, questioning king

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

im supervising exams rn and I was so bored I did an entire higher level English exam by myself I am scraping rock bottom here

[pukicho]

If your friend starts making home made sour dough, it's too late, you will have to kill them

[goldenleopard34335]

what if it's my dad puki. what then

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

wow just end me now I guess

[dailymanners]

Do not ever be rude or condescending to someone who asks "obvious" questions, no matter how obvious or silly you think the question is.

For one, in some cultures asking an obvious question is just a polite way of acknowledging the situation. So for example, if you just put your jacket on and start clocking out, a co-worker asking "oh, you done for the day and heading out now?" doesn't deserve you sneering at them like an idiot, scoffing, and saying "uh duh, just like I do every day at this time" when it's likely they knew the answer, but were just asking as a polite way of acknowledging the situation.

But even if they were genuinely unsure that you're leaving even though it seems obvious to you from context clues, so what? What does being rude and condescending to them achieve? Maybe they couldn't sleep last night so they're really out of it today, maybe they're dissociating, maybe they're about to pass out from low blood sugar, maybe some other employees sometimes put on their jacket and only clock out briefly but come back.

There's all sorts of reasons they could be confused about whether or not you're leaving, but intentionally making them feel bad achieves nothing except, well, making them feel bad. Either way, they're not hurting you or anyone by asking a "stupid" question, so there's no point in being rude about it. If you still want to make them feel bad about themselves for looking "stupid" when they weren't hurting anyone, that is the mindset of bullies and abusers.

[dailymanners]

Thank you everyone who is pointing out in the notes that this is usually an attempt to connect with someone and/or strike up a conversation. Because honestly in my experience 9 times out of 10 when someone asks an "obvious" question that's what they're trying to do. If someone walks into the kitchen and asks "oh are you cooking?" while you're standing over the stove holding a spatula, they probably already know the answer, but they're just trying to start a conversation with you and connect to you.

All the more reason it's sad and hurtful when these attempts are met with sneering and being treated like an idiot.

[sarcasticmothwrites]

There are no stupid questions, only assholes providing snarky non-answers. Because aside from the bid for connection or genuine confusion, sometimes there are REASONS why you might get an obvious question.

“Oh, are you cooking?” asks person who thought you were going out tonight.

“Are you leaving?” asks time-blind person who’s surprised it’s 5:00.

“Are you going to lunch?” asks person who remembers there’s a meeting in 30 minutes.

This is where I make my occasional reminder that Emily Post said the reason for manners is to make others comfortable and foster kind, thoughtful human interactions.

[the-haiku-bot]

“Oh, are you cooking?”

asks person who thought you were

going out tonight.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

we gotta get back into revolving bookcases i'm begging

truly we allow the pinnacles of human achievement to wither and collapse into ashes in the wind

[anablepsian]

These are the most fuckable bookshelves I’ve ever seen

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

[nyaa]

“omg you’re just blogging for attention”

and you’re blogging??? for gold? Women? Immortality?

[geekandmisandry]

[worldheritagepostorganization]

World Heritage Post

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

IM FREEE

[sparkle-robin-4]

From where 😭 school? Prison? Space?

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

I would honestly pay to be trapped in space

[sparkle-robin-4]

My fear of academic failure cannot got to me if I don't think about it

[sparkle-robin-4]

Tw: topics regarding suicide

Just here to say that you should never never never ever give someone who tells they're suicidal the "reality check" talk.

I do not care if you feel burdened that they told U this, I don't care if it's an inconvenience to you, I don't care if you think it'll make them "snap out of it". I don't care if you think they're "just looking for sympathy or attention"

Just don't fucking do it.

Don't insult them. Don't tell them other people have it worse. Don't tell them there are people starving and dying elsewhere. Don't tell them they're being dramatic or that it doesn't matter.

The "reality check" talk rarely ever works, in fact it makes someone who is feeling suicidal feel A LOT worse. Seriously, don't do it.

This also goes if someone sends U anon asks regarding suicide. I know it's horrible not knowing who the person is, you still meet them with compassion. Trust me, the reality check talk benefits nobody.

[litterallymoony-deactivated2026]

Also, in my expiriance, telling the person who said they're suicidal that other people have it far worse than them would make it worse. me, myself, when I'm emotional, i easily blame myself for something, and maybe that person would, too.

also, don't think a person who's suicidal is 'in their own little world'. They're not. In fact, things in their life made their life so bad that they didn't want to go on anymore. When someone tells you they're suicidal, you bet your ass they thought about that day and fucking night all over and over and over again. One doesn't randomly say 'oh, hey, i'm suicecidal'.

hope that helps a little. And, as OP said, that talk really doesn't help anyone. Someone tells you they're suicidal? instead of talking with them, talk to your pet or your therapist or that one friend that'll help you through everything. Or call someone who's a professional and can help you with this, if this really shocked you. Anything but talking to the person.

[litterallymoony-deactivated2026]

Beep boop I'm done w school for 3 months

WHAT ERIN WHAT

THREE MONTHS!? IN SIX WEEKS I ONLY GET SEVEN!!! hahahah six seven ahhahhahahah

[sparkle-robin-4]

I ❤️ the Irish school system

No but seriously it's fucking awesome bro I just get to sleep for 3 weeks straight cuz I'll be home alone I can't wait

L to all the poor poor students elsewhere that still have school, rip fellas

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

hehe thing is in my school junior and senior cert still have to go in for two to three weeks after everyone else is done... sucks to be u I guess

[freakoutgirl]

I don't trust anyone with my vulnerability except 10,000 strangers on Tumblr

[notmyfaultnotmyproblem]

throwback to that time in like November where I was at orchestra and had like a full on breakdown in the back row and the conductor came over to asl my if I was alright and I deadass said allergies while obviously sniffling with tears like running down my cheeks and then I ran off to the bathroom

fun times spoiler she did not fucking believe me