Dreaming and This is Where We Land

30s - They/He | disabled writer and creative

[tiktoksformyfriends]

[video by soupygarbagejuice. original caption: stuie]

[bitemeilovewaffles]

"I guess I would scream too if I knew a God could hear me" is too much of a raw line to come from a tik tok about a cat

[theshitpostcalligrapher]

vibes tbh

[homoeroticjunoincident]

reblog to make prev stop having headaches

[skopostheorie]

Once I "made" a custom emoji for my mum by crudely drawing a hijab on it and now whenever she wants me to buy a coffee for her I get a text like this

[cnmcn]

absolutley enchanted by cobepee

[afemalesebastian]

Ok, need to make a Very Scientific Poll to settle some marital disharmony:

When making bagels, should you put cream cheese on

before toasting

after toasting

Remaining time: 1 day 18 hours

[righthandarm-man]

can you remember the name of every person you’ve kissed?

yes, I remember all their names

I could name most of them but there are few I can’t remember

if you put all of them in a room I could put a name to at least half the faces

i’m not confident I could name a quarter of them, let alone half

I can’t remember more than one or two names

I’ve never kissed a soul and want to see the results

Remaining time: 3 days 6 hours

[captain-price-returns]

[sailor-arashi]

[kisskiss-where-is-season-two]

My ides tiramisu, if you even care

[recklesslyinfatuated2]

Oh, my word we care.

[femgineerasolution]

Et tiramisu, Brute?

[bizarrelittlemew]

but above all, one must not concern oneself with the opinions of people who censor the word fuck

[troublepunk-ldn]

me as a teenager: man it sucks to have no privacy or autonomy but i guess its for a good reason. when i turn 18 i will realise how young i was and understand why they did all that.

me as an adult: teenagers are an oppressed class, their abuse is normalised and systemic and they need to start killing people

[ourceliumnetwork]

One of the biggest things i struggle with, regarding my disability, is how much i've lost over time.

Because that's the thing with progressive shit, innit? it just gets worse. you can slow it down and steady it and plateau but you're never going to get better.

i have lost... a lot of independence because of my limitations. I'm not like, fully upset about that because i'm so supported right now but i am VERY aware of how bad off I would be if i had not found the family i did. I cannot drive - i mean i TECHNICALLY can and in an emergency situation i would if it were necessary - but the toll it takes on my body to do so is... more than i can handle. Walking gets more and more difficult as more of my body protests the rigors it was straining under for most of my life.

i'm DESPERATELY trying to maintain the mobility i do have, to strengthen and support my body in healthy ways. i have regular stretch breaks throughout my day, i do body weight style activities on occasion to help, and whenever i feel up to the task i will get myself into Sam and go for a walk with someone. which usually ends in them having to push me...

All of this feels awful on a daily basis. i'm CONSTANTLY in the midst of grieving yet another thing i realize i can no longer have or do.

some days are easier than others. today is very very hard, probably because of yesterday.

i will find my groove again. it'll be a whole new groove but it will be mine and i will ride in it like a needle on a record. and that song will play and i will dance. in the meantime, i will continue working on maintaining what levels of independence and mobility i have, managing my pain, and trying not to wallow in despair over it too terribly much.

but like. tomorrow.

[galaxycepheus]

If your system doesn't account for the fact that Parents Are Going To Be Abusive/Neglectful/Insufficient then it objectively sucks I'm sorry I don't make the rules

[galaxycepheus]

Monitored bank accounts for those under 18. Requiring parental consent for medical procedures. Parental controls on personal devices. "We won't teach this at school because parents are supposed to address it at home." Anything that puts all of the child's power onto the parents' hand, anything that assumes parents are going to inherently do enough of a good job no one else needs to interfer, every single one of these IS going to be used by controlling, neglectful or unprepared parents and already are, and if the system did not account for that very real, tangible, dangerous tendency, then it's not worth fucking anything. You shouldn't make things "for the youth"/with children in mind if you are going to overlook this painfully common aspect of their lives u_u

[beeeleenn]

today is the last saturday of 2012. reblog now or go @#!*% yourself because you won't get this chance ever again.

[pettycentral]

[vamplire]

evil vampire: who could possibly love me when i’m an evil vampire

me baring my neck: well

[rexalogy]

i reference this all the time i forget it’s not a meme online but a children’s drawing i saw on the sidewalk once

[hussyknee]

How long have you been on Tumblr?

Over 16 years (before 2010) (toddlers in the dawn of the ant colony)

16 to 14 years (2010-2012) (livejournal and Myspace refugees)

13 to 11 years (2013-2015) (you used to follow thebootydiaries)

10 to 8 years (2016-2018) (era of Russian bot conspiracy)

7 to 3.5 years (2019-2022) (post sex ban to Goncharov)

3.5 years or less (2023–2026) (Twitter refugee)

Voting ended onJul 15

Rebagel for science pls.

[homunculus-argument]

I bet there's at least one guy who uses a wheelchair who became a sneakerhead just for the laughs. Wearing pristine bright white brand shoes like "if you let your shoes touch the ground you're a bitch. If you keep them on display and never wear them, you're a coward. I'm the only one doing this correctly. Fuck you, get on my level."