I've been seeing the term "secondhand dysphoria" in some places. Do you know what it is, is it like a real valid thing?
it roughly translates to "I saw someone that I think is ugly and it made ME feel bad" so like yeah I guess it's a real thing but you should probably stay away from people who think of themselves as the center of everything like that
like take the transness out of the equation, reminder that cis people also get gender dysphoria. if you heard a cis woman say she saw a woman who was so ugly it made her feel bad about herself, you wouldn't worry about whether that's "valid" you'd just think she was an asshole
























