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funny how people can admit that "penetrative sex has to hurt women" is a myth, created and spread with the purpose of conditioning women to expect and accept sexual violence from their male partners, but refuse to even consider how "hurting your partner (usually a woman) during sex is normal and fun" might have the same purpose. their violence-as-a-sexual-baseline belief is evil and stupid. my violence-as-a-sexual-baseline belief is good and smart.
That quote 'women are unaware how much men hate them' and it's pretty apt right now.
Over the last few years I've spent time looking in manosphere circles and this stuff has been brewing the last few years.
There are compilation videos on YouTube by MGTOW (men going there on way) of women that they hate. Mostly tiktoks about dating and feminism. The comments are full of men who talk about how much they hate 'modern women', they hate that were in the workforce, they hate that women have 'high standards' for dating, the gate childless women, they hate career women, they hate single mothers, they hate religious women 'chameleons' they call them, they hate slutty women and they hate that we can divorce now. A lot of them hate their own female relatives.
It's a real visceral hatred. One comment was a guy saying he only spoke to women when he imagined them as an inferior being. Another said all he imagines when women speak was whether or not his dick fits in her mouth. They discuss rolling back the clock on women's rights or talk about women causing the downfall of the west.
They lament the lack of pure women, saying even 18 year olds are 'ran through', used up, smashed, have '1000 cock stare', unable to pair bond, hypergamous whores. Women over 30 are dried up hags who are hysterical, bitter Karen's destined to either die with cats and wine or divorce rape a beta.
When you look at their profiles a lot seem to normal guys. You wouldn't spot them in the wild. And there is a lot of them. People obsess about white male republicans but a lot of them aren't. A lot of these manosphere channels are run by black men. A lot of comments are left by Indian men who complain about Indian women getting 'tainted' by Western feminism. Stuff like fresh and fit is a starting point but these guys get crazier the more you follow the algorithm. Some are religious but a lot aren't. I saw a lot of 'i hate Muslims but Islam is right about women'.
There's a black manosphere guy who films foreign women in his Uber and asks them 'why aren't American women feminine anymore?' and puts up the videos despite them saying they're uncomfortable
They share tips on getting a young, untainted wife from poorer countries. A lot share videos of their trips to South America or Asia surrounded by young women (sometimes VERY young).
You also have the tradmen, who claim to care for women but also believe they are inferior and illogical, best kept at home to serve and raise babies. They will say they value women's natural role', but it's telling that this role requires financial dependence and an inability to leave no matter what (these guys get angriest about divorce). These are the ones who feel most cheated that an income is no longer all a man really needs to land himself the attractive 20 something he feels he deserves.
Then you have guys really angry about the dating market, whine about Chad and Stacey, the 80/20 rule, height standards and hypergamy. They talk about living for the day women 'hit the wall' and they can laugh at their teenage crush getting older and less attractive. I've seen comments where they hope women ask them out, so they can have the satisfaction of turning them down cruelly.
They can't be normal about anything. One Brit talked about going for a walk, and said all the 30 something women he encountered looked miserable. A woman posts a video of her dog and they assume she's fucking it (dogpill they call it, pornrot more like). A woman posts a video for women about life over 30 and they swarm the comments to say how unattractive she is and that women expire.
There are lots of alpha male type accounts on twitter, usually fronted as fitness advice for men. But there are a lot of posts about women being illogical, childlike, simple minded and often just evil. Lot of younger guys follow these and again, chat about how to bring women to heel.
I know as a woman that being aware of this is very straining for mental health. But I don't think pretending these guys are a handful of gross yet mostly harmless trolls is a good idea. And they aren't just cis white men in their mums basement either. The subway shooter was deep in this manosphere stuff, as was the Toronto van killer, yoga shooter and more I'm sure.
A lot talk about wanting sons, but also how they'd never ever want a daughter. The hate is that deep rooted. The she's someone's daughter' isn't going to help them see women's humanity.
Keeping women dependent is what a lot of these guys want. And some don't even want a wife out of it, just putting women back 'in their place' is enough to make them happy. They love watching videos of women being upset, revel in it.
Removing the right to abortion is one step, they are already talking about repealing women's right to vote and a lot want women out of the workplace.
Like idk what the solution is, but these guys are out there and would like to get more extreme.
Anyone know the solution?
And don't forget the new incel trend of creating tons of AI generated vids of misogystic trash using philospher's name for clickbait or inventing studies in which women are proven to be so wicked. In a vid a supposed german scientist made a study back in 1940's about female disloyalty and that women aren't capable of loyalty in marriage, that they are nothing but wanton selfish women who ruin their families for their selfish reasons. All the men in the comments agreed and even boldly stated that for this reasons women shouldn't have rights and that islam is right in keeping them opressed and caged. They were commenting that: Wow! The vid is so true! Now I understand why women's didn't had rights for most of history.
And many other comments with that sentiment. But guess what? The so called experiment never existed and was invented by AI. I hate this new trend of incels making tons of money on misogystic propaganda and lies while promoting more hatred against women and these comment sections giving men space to bond over their deep hatred and contempt for women.
When you look at those comments you realize that the majority of men wants us opressed like the women in Afganistan. They'd be happy if we were prisoners with no right to study, work, freedom, etc.
the og feminist icon
Women will wake up before her entire house, cook, clean, do laundry and 759329 other tasks and go to work and come home and do it all over again just for men to say “women weren't meant for labour” when what they really wanna say is, “women weren't meant to be paid and recognised for her work.”
women be like omg 🤣 i can't believe how CRINGE our makeup was in the early 2000s 🤣🤣 omg look at how BAD the makeup trends used to be 🤣 and omg look how BAD they ALSO were in 2010 🤣🤣🤣 AND in 2015 🤣🤣 AND in 2020 as well 🤣🤣 thankfully NOW in 2025 we have FINALLY found the RIGHT makeup to wear, we have FINALLY perfected the way to apply eyeshadow and foundation in a way that is NOT CRINGE 🤩🤩👏👏 and NOT BAD 🤩🤩👏👏 but instead cute and sexy 🥰🥰🥰 finally guys wow good job we finally got it this time 🥰
Searching 'men's safety items' then 'women's safety items' offers an x-ray of our world
Men need to protect themselves from their environment. Women need to protect themselves from men.
I discovered a new trend on youtube in which red piller incels are posting lots of AI generated videos promoting their misogynistic agenda attracting LOTS of views and men. I even saw one in spanish and it's name translates to "Philosophical Awakening" 😒. There's nothing philosopical, rational, or objective about any of his content. How come they dare to call his channel philosophical when there's no logical argumentative structure or objectivity or logical analysis. Just prejudices and opinions.
AI is alucinating, regurgitating and vomiting all the video essays, there's not even one logical argument. The videos have all the fallacies in existence, errors in cause and effect, and distortion of concepts and authors, with all the typical patterns, absurdness and generalizations of AI.
It's obvious to me that he just told AI: "Write a 20 min essay from the perspective of a red piller, an attack on the monstruos feminism of Simone de Beavoir. Talk about how she destroyed society and caused all the divorces and all the problems in society." And AI being what it is, twists and makes great gymnastics to write whatever you ask of it.
The worst part is that many people applaud him as some genius when he couldn't be bothered to even write one sentence, they even call him teacher! Also his most popular videos have over 100k views, he has only like 7, but still! Imagine all the money he's earning by promoting misogystic beliefs and AI desinformation.
It's scary how trendy misogyny is and how it never passed out of trend. How quick men are to applaud at this and follow him.
In the thumbnail there's the hateful phrases of: "Simone, the women who enslaved women." "Women are wicked" "Women are dangerous". In other channel similar to this one, a video with the title: "Women are kids, Schopenhauer despised female nature and physchologist proves he was right."
“Sorry to the men who need a team of stand in father figure podcasters to tell them how to think” lmfao literally
grown men will throw fits about how they face sooo much rejection and women would never get it meanwhile me and the girls who were even just like average or a lil ugly at like 12 years old were being treated like we were subhuman by peers and adults alike
It's very interesting to listen to history lectures that first say that there was no slavery at a certain period of time, and then follow it up with something like: "women didn't have the right to marry at their free will, property was passed down from father to son..." and so on.
you are absolutely sure that there was no slavery, right?
People are extremely reluctant to use the term slavery when it comes to women's oppression. But it was and is slavery.
Can you please name times where woman are not allowed to own property and where udes as bredings stocks?
I am pretty sure most of times this rules only applied to rich woman.
Common woman always had to work/earn money until the 19 th centry, where the housewife was invented.
2025.
Men are buying little girls and marrying them. It's called "child brides" and it is slavery. So is prostitution.
You're supposed to be a historian blog and you're not aware that women were and are sold as property. What have you been doing?
Women have been exchanged in trade by men since before written history—does this explain why they are unequal in the economy today?
"I read Jancee Dunn's book the night after I'd hidden in the bathroom, silently sobbing into a towel so I wouldn't wake the baby—or my husband, who was sleeping through his third consecutive night shift that I was somehow pulling alone, despite us both working full-time. I wasn't crying from exhaustion. I was crying because I had just calculated how much child support he'd have to pay if I left him.
This isn't a book. It's a goddamn mirror reflecting the darkest thoughts of every mother who's ever fantasized about abandoning her family at 3AM, not because she doesn't love them, but because she's drowning and her partner is standing on the shore checking his phone.
The Maternal Rage You Feel Isn't Mental Illness—It's Mathematics Dunn ruthlessly quantifies what most parenting books politely ignore: the raw numerical inequality of modern parenthood. When she tracks hours spent on childcare (her: 35 weekly, him: 9) while both work full-time, it's not anecdotal—it's violence. The liberation comes in recognizing your homicidal thoughts aren't hormonal or "crazy"—they're the rational response to systemic theft of your time, sleep, and identity while someone who claims to love you watches from the sidelines.
The "Mental Load" Isn't Just Unfair—It's Killing You Cell by Cell What devastated me wasn't just Dunn's account of doing everything—it was her scientific exploration of what invisible labor does to a woman's brain and body. The constant vigilance of tracking every family need doesn't just make you tired—it restructures neural pathways, elevates cortisol, and accelerates aging. When her doctor finds her blood pressure dangerously high while her husband's remains perfect despite their supposedly "shared" stress, the physiological consequences of inequality are laid bare. You're not imagining it—this imbalance is literally shortening your life.
Your Husband Isn't Just Annoying—He's Been Systematically Trained to Disable You The book's most chilling insight comes when Dunn investigates how her competent, intelligent husband develops "strategic incompetence" around domestic tasks. Her research reveals it's not accidental—it's subconscious warfare honed through generations of male socialization. The weaponized helplessness ("Where does this go?"), the learned blindness to mess, the performance of bumbling assistance—these aren't personality quirks but sophisticated tactics to maintain privilege while appearing supportive. I'll never hear "just tell me what needs done" the same way again.
The Fights You're Having Aren't About Chores—They're About Human Worth Dunn's epiphany comes not in cataloging tasks but in recognizing the existential question beneath them: whose time and peace matter? When her husband unthinkingly preserves his exercise routine while she hasn't showered in days, when he sleeps through night wakings because he "has work" (as though she doesn't), when he requires praise for basic parenting—the underlying message is that his humanity outranks hers. This reframing transformed how I understood my own marriage's breaking points.
You're Not Control-Freaking—You're Preventing Catastrophe The section that left me breathless was Dunn's dissection of "maternal gatekeeping." Her therapist suggests she's "not letting go" of child-rearing tasks—until she documents the actual consequences of her husband's cavalier parenting: a toddler left in soiled clothes for hours, forgotten medications, a child nearly hit by a car while dad texts. The gut-punch: sometimes the "perfectionist mom" narrative masks legitimate terror of what happens when the backup system fails. I've never felt more vindicated about my inability to "just relax."
Romance After Children Requires Blood Sacrifice—Usually Yours Dunn's unflinching examination of post-baby intimacy problems goes beyond fatigue to something darker: the resentment poisoning attraction. Her account of faking interest while mentally calculating how many hours of sleep she's losing made me physically flinch with recognition. The breakthrough comes not through date nights or lingerie but through radical redistribution of invisible labor. Her documentation of how performing oral sex feels easier than asking for help with dishes exposes how parenthood turns sex into another form of female emotional labor.
The Solutions Aren't Cute—They're Nuclear What elevates this beyond primal-scream therapy is Dunn's scorched-earth approach to reconstruction. She brings in hostage negotiators. Corporate efficiency experts. Therapists who specialize in high-conflict divorce. The message is clear: half-measures will fail. Her implementation of NASA's black box system for critical communication during arguments saved not just her marriage but possibly her husband's life. This isn't about better chore charts—it's about dismantling and rebuilding the entire operational system of your relationship.
This book should be handed to every couple in the delivery room, not as celebration but as warning. Dunn doesn't offer gentle suggestions for reconnecting with your spouse—she offers battlefield triage for the psychological trauma that parenthood inflicts on females and marriages."
This book is on my list of books that will forever change how you look at the actions of men (along with "Why Does He Do That" by Lundy Bancroft and others)
I heartily recommend it, even if you don't have or want kids, if you work with women in a mental health or healthcare setting.
Women live less after marriage and men more. Men's lifes get better and benefit exponentially from having a housewife, it's paradise for them, an uninterrupted vacation where everything is taking care for them. Like they're in a nice resort or hotel and they never need to worry for any cleaning or laundry, or even their children. While the wives cortisol levels increases and is always high. They need to do all the housework, cleaning, washing, supermarket shopping, cooking, menu organization, helping the kids do their homework, take them to the doctor, to school, to after school activities, take care of them while they're sick, organize family events, organize everyone's items, pick up the husband's underwear from the floor, even work. It's a neverending to do list for women and piles of chores and tasks which are too much for a single person, with the bonus that the men are childish, irresponsible, immature, and incompetent. They can't do a basic task like cleaning or change their children's clothes. The men are just there doing absolutely nothing but resting, like they're a guest or royalty. They don't even connect with their own children or help them do homework, they're emotionally absent.
Why would you choose a bear over a man? Because since 1784 there have been 180 fatal bear attacks, while in 2021 alone, 81,100 women and girls were intentionally killed by men.
Idk where men get the myth of chatty women from. Men will literally go on lengthy monolgues with very little prompting. Not only that, but they will literally interrupt the woman they're speaking to so they can go on said monolgues. Men will talk so much that by the time they take a breath, we are five topics away from the one we originally started with.
I resent how things are built for a male body.
I'm not a small woman. In fact, I'm an absurdly average woman in terms of size. I'm just under 5'5. I'm in the middle of the "healthy" BMI range. I wear a size medium in most clothes. I wear a size 8 shoe. I'm the mediumest woman in the world.
And everything is too fucking big for me.
I test drive a new car. I love it... except that everything is slightly too big. The indicators are just a few millimeters beyond a comfortable resting positions for my hands. The steering wheel is slightly too high - I can't quite see the speedometer behind it. If I adjust my chair high enough to see the speedometer, then I can't reach the pedals. The steering column isn't adjustable. I have this problem in a lot of cars.
I have a desk. I've always found the desk a little uncomfortable, but I blamed it on the cheap thirdhand office chairs I usually buy. So I buy a new office chair. It's very comfortable... and it made me realize that the desk itself is too tall. If the chair is high enough to keep my shoulders and elbows in a comfortable position, then my heels don't touch the ground.
I go hunting for height-adjustable desks. I've always wanted a sit-to-stand desk anyway. Most of them don't go significantly lower than the desk I have. The ones that do are more expensive.
My hand aches when I hold my phone. I specifically bought this phone because it was smaller than the full-size model. They don't even make phones this small anymore. I have a google pixel 3a. The pixel 9a is the same size as the 3 XL. What was "XL" in 2018 is just the size phones are now. My hand hurts.
Everything, everywhere, all the time is just slightly too big. Only slightly. It's a minor discomfort, barely noticeable most of the time, but always echoing in the back of my mind: This world was not built for me.
Yes same with my computer mouses, computer chair, bike, it's endless when you start noticing it...
there’s a connection between the numbing sprays for your feet so you can wear high heels and the anal desensitizing lube so you can have anal sex for your boyfriend and the suppressants for your gag reflex so you can deepthroat that same boyfriend. can’t quite make it though
to add to this: appetite suppressants so you can ignore your hunger signals, and that recent study that was going around that showed that women who self-objectify are less likely to perceive pain or the cold
@cisthoughtcrime
Yikes
as someone who watches a lot of true crime most cases are just plain femicide.
A man murdering women to fulfill his sexual fantasies and performs sexual acts on the dead body.
A man murdering a women cause she rejected her.
Its all the same stories, just in different fonts.
the more i think about it the more i believe that technological misogyny should be taken more seriously because what do you mean im more likely to die in a car accident because cars are built to only protect men from an impact
