i was boy crazy once, now i’m old man crazy

jules | 33 | they | epicene

[groovythinggoin]

yeah

[nongunktional]

i do think the negative interpretations of "im probably nonbinary but i have a job right now" are kind of reaching. it's obviously a waste of time to theorize the op's intended meaning, so instead i think it's better to recognize how the phrase can be a useful framing device to criticize how much of a fucking hassle it is to get gendered correctly. "but i have a job" e.g. will face discrimination that could threaten livelihood; e.g. don't have the mental bandwidth to explain gender to others; e.g. don't have the time and energy for the soul-searching necessary to confirm. all three of these are labor issues. yes you could interpret it as "but being nonbinary isn't important enough to worry about", despite that being a blatantly bad-faith read. it's more useful to interpret it as "but being publicly nonbinary requires a lot of social effort that, in many cultural contexts, will create more problems that you can't afford to deal with". like cmon it's a really good jumping off point for productive conversations about queer labor rights

[henchforlife]

Adult Swim's 'Venture Bros.' Co-Creators Talk Gay Characters, The Upcoming Season And Gay Sex

Adult Swim's 'Venture Bros.' Co-Creators Talk Gay Characters, The Upcoming Season And Gay Sex

Ye Olde Interview from 2012

[lakemojave]

You know that whatever character did those problematic things isn't like. Real, right?

[lakemojave]

You are aware that a fictional character is just a rhetorical construct designed to fulfill a narrative/thematic purpose right? That their actions are written by an author who wants to use them to explore complex ideas and moral gray areas within the safe confines of fiction right? That they aren't a real person who has killed real people right?

[rottingapotheosis]

[dzumii]

girls yearn for popular media with a butch as a main character

[urie]

i haven't seen anything about this on my dashboard, so i wanted to share. ICE gestapo killed another human being on tuesday. he leaves behind three sons and his wife, who he has spent the last 35 years building a life with

there is a gofundme supported by the league of united latin american citizens set up to help with funeral costs, legal fees, and supporting his family moving forward.

please give if you can and share if you can't

[natasha-lightwood]

i like the idea i've been seeing circulating that the reason claudia's “stuck” in a “spidery-ass nowhere” and can't find madeline is because she's in purgatory (the fixation with telling louis to burn her diaries and her dress makes a lot of sense with her wanting to sever any remaining connection) and i love the hopeful twist of believing that being finally able to express her rage at louis and lestat is what will finally get her out of there and i want to add that it's so perfect that we're never going to be able to know for sure. if claudia's free it means she's free from the story. it means she's free from all of them, but also from all of us.

[thereignclub-trc]

I just want to remind you that sometimes your life really doesn't begin until you are 26+... Romanticizing and obsessing over our youth is harmful. Growing up is beautiful. Discovering who you are and how you interact with the world is a gift. Maturing and learning what you truly want out of life and living in that purpose brings fulfillment and peace. Your life is not over in your early 20's because you haven't figured it out yet, it's just beginning.

[photosynthey]

This feels especially true if you came into your queerness in your mid 20s or later. Life doesn’t end after 25. You have so much more to learn.

[charlesoberonn]

[virtu-typhoon]

[scifikimmi]

[captain-starskull]

[charlesoberonn]

[emperorpenguin]

These two fire extinguishers at my work

[edge-complains-and-loves-art]

Had to draw them

[petrolipelo]

[what-even-is-thiss]

Sleep should be refreshing and if it isn’t you should look into that tbh

[petrolipelo]

I'm in love with demi adejuyigbe

[aggot]

back in the day you could squeeze out 30k words about locker room fucking and a boutique gay press would publish it as pulp erotica with a hand illustrated cover but these days you gotta write 100k words about changeling princes who play sports and are also pop stars but don't fuck until 2/3 of the way thru and a big 5 imprint of an imprint will slap clipart on the jacket and cheat you out of film rights

[lestatthevamp]

The women in this show???? They deserve so many accolades it's crazy.

[roycohn]

in hindsight nobody’s ever gonna come up with a better way to start a song than “i was like, ‘good gracious, ass is bodacious’”

[notkatniss]

whenever they get sam reid and jacob anderson yell acting at each other at full volume it is genuinely is like cocomelon. to me. two of the most fucked up ppl alive hooting and hollering. both just loud and deranged. magnificent

[foxglovedforest]

Starting a collection

[veryintricaterituals]

Daniel: hey what's up you guys!!! My boyfriend wants to tell you a bit of gossip, it's his first time on camera in 500 years so you BETTER be nice. Okay, you go baby