for real!
[Transcript: What Iâve realized is that I believe that the matter of gender is practical and relational. Itâs not about who you are inside, itâs more about how you would feel most comfortable in the world. Itâs not Who are you? but How do you want to live?
Had that been the discourse when I was coming up, I would have breathed a sigh of relief. I donât have to figure out who I am on the inside, I just have to figure out how I want to live. /End transcript]

























