I think Iām going to be sick. Trans activists are QUESTIONING and some even DENYING Neil Gaimanās victims because the author is apparently a terf. And they claim to be feminists. Iām going to throw up.
I still canāt get over how Chappell and Lady Gaga only talked about trans rights in their Grammy speeches without a single mention of women or the fact that our rights are being erased right now. Trump ordered womenās history removed from NASA and military websites, the CDC deleted critical womenās health data, the FDA erased diversity guidelines that ensured medical treatments were tested on women fairly, and the Department of Defense scrubbed content acknowledging womenās contributions. Yet they act like women are fine as if weāre not being erased in real time. So is it acceptable for womenās struggles to be erased and rights being stripped alongside racism being promoted while trans rights take center stage.
I haaaaaate how porn-rotted men's brains are. You can't even have a normal conversation with most guys these days- especially Gen Z. Almost every word you say to these guys, they'll find a way to make it sexual. Seriously. With no context.
For example- I was telling a male I know about one of my friends who managed to convince an owner of a local bakery to give her one of his popular recipes. ALL I said was, "He wouldn't give her X (most popular recipe) so her gave her the Y." Of course... "that sounds weird!! hahahahaha! He gave her the Y."
Or when you mention the word "stuck" they follow it with something about step-brothers (absolutely vile). God forbid you say the word "size" in reference to anything!
...But noooooo, obviously, porn has no effect on the brain! It totally doesn't make men sexualize every single woman they see IRL.
recently saw a video on insta where a woman was talking about her acts of micro feminism (shaking hands with both women and men, asking women's opinions first, turning to female specialists). in the comments, men started writing that these were "rather acts of hatred towards men", that is, what men did and continue to do with women is normal, but asking women's opinions first and shaking their hands is hatred? wtf is wrong w men??
kinda really sick n tired of people making any and everyone in fandoms trans or kinda trans. like what's wrong with being a gnc woman? why is a woman who doesn't shave suddenly trans/an egg? obviously I don't own the character and neither do they but it's disheartening to see every slight deviation of 'being stereotypically female TM' as being trans or whatever. transmasc this, transfem that - please.
I get so pissed when people say this. The education system was literally created by and for men. Women werenāt allowed to get an education for hundreds of years. Women are still not allowed to get an education in certain countries. Every time women are better at men than something they blame it on āthe system.ā
head pushing while giving fellatio is such a grossly overnormalized heterosexual male behavior. the fact that thereās over 1500 comments and most of them donāt even acknowledge the aggression and violation thatās literally causing their bodies to react negatively in a physical way makes me sad. i hate the way so many women have seemingly created a bond from their own suffering.
As someone whoās always done all four tenets of 4B, hearing this stuff upsets me in the same way as hearing about the injustices of the American health insurance industry as a New Zealander. This is so abusive and so normalised. Please think critically about this, yāall. Yāall should not be treated this way.
i think males actually really love gold diggers. that way you only have to bring in money and material gifts, itās too easy, very low effort.
buying a generic diamond pendant vs. figuring out your partnerās favourite food and learning how to make it just the way they like. which sounds harder to do?
ones males have the resources, THEY WILL ALWAYS GO FOR "gold diggers." they arenāt spoiling a woman they love, they are trying to put in as little effort as possible.
they also hate when you use them for other things. i used to use dating apps to find me dr*g dealers, financial advisors and other sorts of free labour. males canāt stand when you become a labour digger, like they have been for ages. nothing a male hates more than being treated the way he treats a woman.
Please read this whole post and reblog it, radblr. I donāt want anyone to forget this happened to me and I also donāt want anyone to forget how disgusting the TRA community is.
Next month, itāll be one year since I was harassed, doxxed, and targeted by a disgusting person and their sick followers. I wonāt say their name because they still have a cult following, but if you need a hint, look up the drama with photomatt in February 2024.
On my old account, an anon told me about an account getting banned from tumblr and the ensuing chaos from TRAs. I answered the ask and posted a picture of the personās new account so radblr could block if they needed to. I had no idea who this person was until I got that anon ask, just to be clear.
The person found the post and reblogged it, accusing me of being the one who led a ātargeted harassment campaignā against them and got their account banned, and told their followers āyou know what to doā or something like that. Keep in mind, I didnāt know who this person was at all so I obviously wasnāt the one who got them banned. I also *gasp* didnāt use their preferred pronouns, so that was a huge scandal as well.
After that, their followers began to harass me and send violent threats to my inbox. (Edit: oh and this evil person accused me of sending them to myself for attention, which is so fucked up and misogynistic I donāt even have words for it.) Hereās the worst one that I still have trauma from to this day:
My account was then termed by tumblr. I made a new account and called for radblr to report the account for sending their followers to harass me. Well, this made everything worse because the hate I got on this new account was a thousand times worse. This personās minions created multiple posts about me (look up m3nrbad for proof, that was the account name). There were hundreds of comments calling me misogynistic slurs and calling for me to be doxxed and even lynched. They also found my Reddit account and harassed me there too. I even got a few text messages to my PHONE NUMBER. I have no idea how this evil personās followers got ahold of it, but I changed my number and my mother took me to buy a new phone just to be safe. Hereās what one of them said about me, encouraging their followers to false report me:
A short while after this, the evil personās blog was termed again and they were (I think) IP banned from all of tumblr. The CEO photomatt threatened to take legal action against them. It had nothing to do with me, but I canāt lie, it felt so good seeing that happen to them after the hell they put me through. Hereās me reacting to the news:
TRAs on tumblr of course threw a hissy fit and attacked Matt for months because their leader was banned. They also acted like this person was being systemically oppressed by tumblr of all fucking places. Keep in mind this person is white and born male, acting as if they were so oppressed by a website.
I eventually deleted that other blog and made this one. I spent hours and hours blocking every single person who reblogged, liked, and commented on posts about me, as well as blocking almost every one of a big traās followers. I was determined to stop being harassed.
Anyway, I know I shouldnāt be dwelling on this because itās just internet drama, but people still worship this person and act like theyāre such a poor victim, and in reality thatās not true. That month was hell for me and my actual safety was threatened. If it wasnāt for some of you gyns being so amazing and funny on here, I wouldāve never come back to radblr.