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Multi- fandom trash-dump |@btsvsmysanity is my BTS side-blog| 23 |

[all-seeing-ifer]

i do think it's so interesting that essentially ianto dies bc Jack tries to pull a the doctor style move (going up to confront the alien bad guys face to face and grandstand about how humanity won't bow down to them and basically play "are you willing to take us on" chicken without actually having a plan for what to do if the alien bad guys just go "fuck you" and hit the kill everyone button) and because he's a character within the show he doesn't understand that the reason this always works out for the doctor is. fundamentally. because doctor who is a lighthearted family show for the whole family. and bc that means for the doctor there will always either be some kind of deus ex machina to save the day (or at least the main characters) or the show just won't have the alien bad guys go fine have it your way and gas everyone in the building. And that actually there's nothing keeping him and his loved ones safe bc they are missing the one crucial thing the doctor has which is the protection of the 9pm watershed. anyway i think genre blindness is awesome as a trope so i'm having a lot of what can from a certain point of view be called fun here

[reapainting]

Which quote of this saga lives rent free in your head? 🔥 I think the last one is my favourite ❤️🙌🏻 And OMG I did maybe too many fanarts of TOG and I think I should draw Elide too since I like her a lot ❤️❤️

[epilepticsaints]

[if-you-see-gay-me]

[magnetictapedatastorage]

[heatandapathy]

Needs the last part

[captainscarletsc]

[scoundrellyfeline]

@heatandapathy you forgot the best part

[tsamired]

you are never living this down

[fleshdyke]

godawful post i made when i was 14. let me escape it please god

[daysleftofsecondterm]

no 🩷

[helenvaughans]

[depsidase]

[junglejim4322]

90% of age gaps don’t matter when you’re a grown adult as long as you don’t have a repeated pattern of dating people barely legal. I would date someone 30 years older than me if I liked them who gaf

[junglejim4322]

This entire conversation is somehow 90% people infantilizing themselves and 10% actually people talking about the issue of men who never grow out of dating 18/19 year olds. No it is not a big deal when a 25 year old dates a 35 year old please get a grip

[junglejim4322]

Honestly if you’re in your mid twenties infantilizing yourself on this level maybe you shouldn’t be dating anyone

[eddardandtonysnark]

Everyone writing “Leonardo DiCaprio” in the replies—Leonardo DiCaprio, who eats 10,000 25-year-olds a year, is a statistical anomaly and should not have been counted

[waral]

The problem with Leonardo DiCaprio isn't that he dates women who are 25, it's that he *doesn't* date women that are 26.

[waral]

Also, still thinking about this a huge problem with the way this conversation plays out is the distinction between "this is / should be illegal", "this shouldn't be illegal, but it IS a red flag," and "this isn't a red flag, but it IS a questionable choice from a logical perspective" gets completely flattened.

Adult going after a minor = this is literally already a crime.

36 year old who serially dates 21 year olds = this is a red flag. Importantly, though, red flags are only bad because they're *potential evidence* of actual problems, they aren't themselves the problem. It *could* be that the 36 year old goes after people they think are easily manipulated. It also *could* be a coincidence. It's impossible to tell *for sure* which it is without getting into it. If it's just a coincidence, it's not a problem. Like, 100% not a problem. On the other hand, even if the way the relationship ends up playing out ends up confirming the red flag, it's whatever other *actually bad* shit that the red flag was part of a pattern &or evidence of that was the problem, not the red flag itself.

30 year old dating a 60 year old = not even a red flag. "Weird" is the worst you can say about it. But, there will be potential challenges to this relationship that there won't be to a similar age one. Are you sure you want compatible things out of a relationship as someone in a completely different life stage? If the relationship *does* work out, are you comfortable with your partner likely dying 30 years before you do? There are logistical considerations here to think through before you get into it.

[captainclickycat]

Also just as an aside, sometimes the rationale isn't "wanting to date someone easily manipulated" but "being an ageist/sexist who thinks people (particularly women) become unattractive, boring and undesirable once they're out of their early twenties".

Which to be clear, still bad and still loser behaviour.

[thevictoriousone]

Happy dagger day, friends

[lunarblazes]

after a lifetime of hearing about aragorn but not reading the books or watching the movies, genuinely nothing could have prepared me for his actual introduction. the hobbits picked this man out of a dumpster. he is a textbook softspoken angst prince and he is covered in dirt and he probably smells so bad. he’s the coolest man alive and is so casual about it. his number one skill is Knowing Where They Are and his number two skill is Having A Horrible Destiny That Torments Him. tolkien got it in one i’m afraid aragorn son of arathorn you are the guy of all time

[darkspaceboytoy]

Incredibly violent take of mine but I actually don’t think you need to relate to a story in any way to enjoy it. You can enjoy a story even if you can’t point at a character and insert some aspect of your personality or identity into them. In fact I would argue the need for a character like that to be present in every single story you experience is a sign of stunted growth.

[specialagentartemis]

Aro and ace activism is housing reform, is well-funded public housing, is an expansion of affordable housing, is allowing single people to get affordable and public housing, is rent controls to make it possible for single people to be able to afford to live alone on a single salary.

Aro and ace activism is healthcare reform, so that no one needs to rely on a spouse for health insurance, so that healthcare is available to everybody regardless of income, so that no one’s lived experiences or basic dignity are dismissed or overridden by doctors

Aro and ace activism is well-funded and expansive public transit, so that you don’t need to have someone on hand to drive you places if you are incapacitated, so that you don’t have to pay for an ambulance if you need to get to the hospital quickly

Aro and ace activism is disability and elder care services, so that no one needs a spouse to care for them, so that no one needs children to care for them, so that marriage is not a bind for disabled people, so that people on disability who want to and can live alone can

Aro and ace activism is community-building, it’s public events, it’s free social activities, it’s mutual aid, it’s activities that bring community members together without socializing relying on just a romantic partner

Aro and ace activism is developing a culture of believing when people tell you who they are and what they want rather than assuming you know them better than they know themselves

Aro and ace activism means a better world for people without “normative” desires or “normative” social support, which means a better world for everybody

[hisuianserperior]

Knives! Get your Knives here for no particular reason!

🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪

Get em while they're cold, get em while they're sharp!

Special discount if your name is Brutus for no reason in particular!

[mesmes99]

Grabbing one early this year so I’m prepared.

[daalcuntynatural]

yeah i don’t think we processed i need you enough

[destielgaysex]

no, but really at the end of the day when would you say "I need you" to a "friend" instead of saying "I love you" I really truly don't understand how we are still here, but we are and that's something you just have to reckon with and keep posting. All we can do is keep posting. There is more to say. And as long as there is more to say, there is more to post. There is more to post there is more to post. There is more to post. And I like this show! I just have to keep on posting about it even when everyone leaves it's it's just back to the original question I posed at the beginning of this post. When would you say that instead of I love you? TELL me when TELL ME WHEN. At the end of the day, it's night . at the end of the day, bug loves cas

[patientno7]

my humor 2016

[patientno7]

happy 3 year anniversary of wheeze man

[rubinaito-inactive]

Finally, the original has crossed my dash.

[lavena]

@strangezeroz welcome to tumblr where the app decides when you can be gifted with the sight of og memes, you cannot look for these yourself via the search engine, you won’t find them, you have to wait to be gifted them

[miss-nerd-alert]

For those of you who might be new here, Tumblr has no algorithm, legendary memes are brought to your dash by mutuals like pet cats bringing you dead birds.

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

it really is crazy that women's clothes don't fit anybody. fat women can't find clothes, skinny women can't find clothes, tall women can't find clothes, short women can't find clothes, big chested women can't find clothes, small chested women can't find clothes. who the fuck are these being made for

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

we all really resonated with this one huh

[theabigailthorn]

musuclar women also can't find clothes

[byjove]

there is this controversy going on on TikTok where a girl made a video about how she is unemployed and disabled due to currently going through cancer treatment and how the loss of SNAP benefits was going to effect her. and the MAGA crowd found her and ripped her to shreds because she was a young “healthy-looking” girl with dyed hair. the most baffling part was all of the people saying things like “My dad had cancer and he worked EVERYDAY until he died! No excuses, you lazy bitch!” which is soooo wild. it is crazy how many members of the conservative ‘blue collar’ crowd love to brag about being fucked over and killed by capitalism. that is not a flex, quite the opposite, if anything that is insanely pathetic and sad. maybe your daddy would still be alive if we had socialized medicine and better sick leave policies but no, he worked himself to fucking death and you want a 20 something young woman to die the same pathetic fate. we need to start telling these people ‘that is so sad, I feel sorry for you’ instead of pretending this is in the scope of good work ethic. because it’s fucked up the things they’re going through and patting themselves on the back for. maybe if they felt less proud of being fucked over by the system, they’d work to change it.

[forevergulag-deactivated2026013]

children are more vulnerable and need to be cared for more which is why ill be assuming complete control over your life and isolating you completely as i see fit.

[forevergulag-deactivated2026013]

can you imagine what children would do in the world if i wasnt there to control their lives and not allow them to modify their body and not allow them to have a life. theyd probably just die instantly