ALSO IF YOU ARE UNDER THE AGE OF 18 MAKE SURE YOU STATE THE FOLLOWING:
āMy [fill in trusted adult here] wants to come too. [pronoun] said we can do our own thing and [pronoun] will just sort of grab [pronoun] own table, but I wanted to let you know. Hey, if you have an adult coming too they could sit together!ā
If hearing this freaks the other person out and they decline, TERMINATE ALL CONTACT. Do not pass go, do not collect $200, go directly to block. Iām 26 years old and if you tell me youāre coming with a friend or parent for your own safety, I will automatically say āhey, cool. Yāknow, if youāre nervous we can just do Starbucks or something, Iām okay meeting in a busy place. That way your [adult/friend] can hang out, too, and they donāt have to pay for [admission, a movie ticket, whatever].ā Your safety and comfort is important to me, and is important to any good person you meet online who wants to meet up IRL. In the early 2000s when I first started seeing online safety PSAs, this was a widely-spread tip. Use it.
And for the record, you can use this over the age of 18, too. I still wonāt meet people from online except in public places. You never knowāthat person holding up three fingers and drawing a Pokemon on their palm could be some pervertās child, niece, nephew, family friendās kid who was encouraged to take some silly pictures. Always voice-verify and always meet in public, with another person if possible.
Be smart and stay safe, kiddos. Nina loves you.
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