Greedy Hoe

Sell the pussy by the grands in a month you’ll own a Benz

[aokayo]

Aquarius Venus – she flirts in sparks.

• Not touchy. Not obvious. But you know when she likes you.

• It’s the blink that lingers a second longer. The eyebrow raise. The smirk at something you thought only you noticed.

• She seduces with individuality. If you’re strange, if you’re intense, if you’re secretly tortured? She sees you—and she likes you.

Venus in Aquarius is like:

“I like how weird you are. I like how you move when you think no one’s watching.”

Libra Mars – The pretty, soft, slow-burning sexual draw.

• Libra Mars doesn’t chase. They attract.

• Her walk? Intentional. Hips that sway, posture that whispers elegance, movements that feel like they were choreographed by someone in a silk robe.

• But it’s also strategic. Libra Mars is ruled by Venus—she knows what she’s doing. She’ll flirt with a glance. She’ll sit on the counter in her hoodie and ruin you just by tucking her leg under her.

Mars in Libra is like:

“I won’t tell you I want you… but I’ll make you want me so much, you forget your own name.”

[femmefatalevibe]

Golden life rule: If someone's desire is to confuse you, cut them out. They don't deserve your kindness and access to your time or energy. Only surround yourself with those who treat you with the respect you deserve. Live in your queen energy.

[f0reignluxe-deactivated20221120]

IDK HOW MANY TIMES IT HAS TO BE SAID BUT, THERE ARE OTHER WAYS TO COMPLIMENT DARK SKIN WOMEN BESIDES SAYING THEY HAVE BAUTIFUL SKIN.

WHY IS THIS SO HARD FOR EVERYONE TO UNDERSTAND?!?

[closet-keys]

I hate that Tumblr doesn’t include timestamps on posts, because it not only perpetuates misinformation in the form of wildly outdated news being passed off as current, but it also means that none of us are ever allowed to move past posts we made years ago as long as one single person decides to find and reblog it and get the notes started back up again, leading people to assume we wrote it yesterday. 

[g-l-i-t-t-e-r]

So ya know how anti-choice trashcans say "what if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of a fetus that gets aborted?"

But since fetuses already knowing advanced medical sciences aren’t a thing, I figured I’d provide some more valid alternatives:

What if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of someone who has a “black sounding” name and gets their school application thrown out?

What if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of someone who accidentally becomes pregnant where abortion is illegal or very difficult to access and they are forced to quit the sciences to raise the child?

What if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of a fat person whose credibility in the medical field is destroyed because they are assumed to be “unhealthy” and a hypocrite?

What if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of a person who starves to death?

What if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of someone who is murdered by drones or police?

What if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of someone who is raped and cannot continue their research due to trauma?

What if the cure for cancer lives in the mind of someone who is killed in a shooting because some below average teen boy couldn’t get laid?

I mean if you wanna talk about real life actual things that prevent scientific advancement look no further than capitalism, misogyny, ableism, racism, violence, oppression. But I guess that doesn’t allow you to control people’s bodies and push your gross agenda.

[jehovahhthickness]

This shit needs a million reblogs

[ssstop-it-sunflowa]

Fuck

[sugar-boston]

I hate all these fake SBs on here. Like you know how “great” it is to be a SB? My SD insists on eating me out for like 40 fucking minutes and it feels like he’s trying to rip my vaj off. And it sounds similar to a large dog drinking water. When he kisses my body his lips make this disgusting old man smacking sound, and he gets that white shit in the corners of his mouth. And I have to have sex with that horny bastard for three hours a week. I walk away with a good amount of money. But I walk away with my vagina practically in a wheelchair and have ZERO desire to fuck ANYONE. Forget dating someone my age, sex repulses me right now. Emotions just get shut off, because I spend three hours making cringing and horrified faces when my face is shoved into a pillow, trying to think about why I have to do this, and I bite my lip to keep from screaming because the sounds he makes are so damn gross. So if you think this life is good enough to pretend you’re in it, fuck right off.

[medschoolsugar]

Literally my life 

[modelinterrupted]

Lmfaooooo 😭 my endless eyerolls during sex have me cracking up

[spoiledgfng]

No comment

[blacksugaruniverse-deactivated2]

This shit isn’t easy and it damn sure isnt always glamorous.

[sbmisstaylor-deactivated2020031]

Here’s the thing though you don’t HAVE to force yourself to sleep with an old nasty fuck for good money. (SB Perspective not escort) I’ve done it, it sucks. From then I decided to have to be AT LEAST somewhat attracted to the person and it is still possible to get a good allowance with decent looking guys. Because there’s just no reason to make yourself sick every time you have sex.

Sugaring isn’t glorious but it is what you make it.

[rottenheaux]

I always say the same thing! I don’t share space with people who disgust me that’s why the sugar life has been so glamorous over here.

[zanabism-deactivated20200529]

if you’re not committed to antiracism, you’re not a good doctor. 

I remember when I had pneumonia I was so sick and exhausted and in pain that I couldn’t get out of bed for *days* — I eventually pushed myself to walk across campus to the doctor’s office (it took me literally 45 minutes to walk there bc I had to walk so slow) and when I got there…the doctor made it seem I was only trying to get out of writing an exam lol. I was too embarrassed to tell her that I was going to be withdrawing from the class anyway bc I hadn’t had the energy to get to lectures at all that semester. She lectured me about how she sees students do this all the time and she can’t take a risk in trusting me when the only thing that was wrong with me was exhaustion. “We all have off days” is what she said lolol. 

I was so humiliated at her insinuation that I eventually just nodded when she said it “didn’t seem like I had any issues” and went back home. It wasn’t until I fainted walking down the hallway like 4 feet outside my apartment that I started panicking and called someone to take me to the hospital. When I got there even the receptionists looked genuinely pale to see how hard it was for me to walk and how much it hurt to breathe or talk.

It would take *6* different antibiotics for the really advanced pneumonia to finally die out, the last of which was delivered intravenously in my arm for 10 continuous days — I still have the scar where the initial IV was and I have another mark on my wrist. I *literally* couldn’t walk or lay on my back for 8-9 weeks. I would sleep sitting up with pillows on a chair and when my breath would involuntarily deepen as I started to fall asleep I would jerk awake bc of the sharp pain my lung where the pneumonia was.

That same doctor who thought I was lying about being sick would then call me like 34 times in a row when my blood test results came to her office and the hospital sent her my chest x rays lolol, obviously worried about looking bad and having called me a liar and sending me home when I had such a serious bout of pneumonia.

In the 3rd year of my premed degree I would learn that doctors in North America — and specifically white women in nursing lol — often see south Asian women as malingerers who exaggerate their pain. In a UK study there were neonatal nurses who went so far as to say that south Asian women also lack maternal instincts, care more about their pain meds than their child and “can’t handle” child birth.

Yosif al Hasnawi — an Iraqi Canadian teen — died at the hands of two paramedics who did not believe he had been shot and claimed he was “acting” when he was actually internally bleeding. They made him walk to the ambulance with a bullet in his stomach, from which he would later die after not being transported to the hospital for 38 minutes.

Just yesterday My cousin, totally healthy, just died of a brain hemorrhage and often complained about ongoing migraines that could’ve been telltale signs of hypertension that were totally ignored by her doctor for years.

and just a day before that Kim porter who was otherwise healthy just died of pneumonia while having expressed her symptoms and pain to doctors for days — I would say that I’m shocked by this but the implications faced by brown people and racism in the healthcare system is 10x worse for black women who are often seen as liars and in it for the meds as a result of historical anti blackness and systemic rejection of black patients’ pain.

doctors are literally trained to perceive racialized people as malingerers who are trying to scam for meds or medical attention instead of people in pain. It’s 100% systemic and actually integrated into medical education.

[xmagnet-o]

Yeah exactly this

[oakttree-deactivated20221126]

Medicine is no less likely than any other field to have problems with racism. But when it’s someone’s life at stake (or at minimum someone’s comfort), it is really critical that this kind of prejudice is rooted out.

Most likely everyone’s seen this notorious page from a nursing textbook, but in case you haven’t, enjoy some piping hot medical racism:

[zanabism-deactivated20200529]

…this is ….published in 2014….i don’t know what to say

[tariqah]

All of them are talking about how we pray the pain away or overreact to the pain… amazing

[ramdaughter]

“a tribal shaman” mother of god

[beben-eleben]

For future reference.

[mollimassacre-deactivated201408]

Thank you.

[fuckyeahifightlikeagirl]

For those who would ever need it. -C

[rapeculturerealities]

reblogging here because i can see this being relevant to anyone who’s ever tried to get out of an abusive relationship

[directorlazard-deactivated20171]

Reblogging because that last comment made me reread the whole thing in a new light and realize this could be vital information. So, putting it out there for everyone, and hoping no one ever really needs it.

[rottenheaux]

Empty Those Pockets Plz🗣

I firmly believe that even women who are not sugaring should be receiving money from their man if not just to give them at least for their nails, hair, skin etc etc. I’ll be damned if a man compliments my nails and shit and then don’t want to pay for it or contribute to my good looks (you know the good looks he’s benefiting from)

In all seriousness though even when I was strictly vanilla I was never going without or having him not helping out. Hair, nails, waxing, phone bill, subscriptions, etc etc all that was paid for by my boyfriend in addition to our dates and gas for my car and gifts whenever he did that. (Sugaring before I even knew what it was lmao) If my mom didn’t teach me anything else she taught me what a man was supposed to do and if he didn’t then I knew not to accept him as a man and especially not as my man.

Moral of the story is: IF HE AINT BUYING OR GIVING YOU SHIT THEN LEAVE HIM 🗣

[dancinginlosangeles]

So last month we had 8 providers in my area robbed and raped. This man had fake escort accounts that he paid for himself on eros to provide fake referrals for himself, provided ID, provided pictures, talked on the phone, etc. In other words, he seemed legit…because he was a professional thief.  

But.

The real kicker here is that he’s been blacklisted 20+ times on Verify Him. I’ve seriously I’ve never seen a guy blacklisted so many times. If these girls had known to check this site, he would never have gotten the chance. So please Sugar babies and escorts, get on Verify him. It’s free. Its been around forever. Even when you run out of credits, you can use the “browse blacklist database” and search with emails, names, phone numbers, etc. Just screen everyone and make no exceptions. It pisses me off that hes been able to do this to so many women and he knows hes going to continue to get away with it, because the police will never do anything about it. 

I know we know this, and I know we talk about how important it is to screen all the time…but clearly the message isn’t getting out there for this man to be doing it for decades and getting away with it. He continues to victimize women all over the country. 

All we can do is warn each other. stay safe girls. 

[videocraft]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Breaking Free from Co-Dependency

Check through the list below to see if you have traits of codependency. They include:

1. Feeling responsible for other people’s thoughts, feelings, behaviour or physical, mental and emotional well being.

2. Repeatedly putting the needs, wishes and wellbeing of others before your own needs, wishes, and wellbeing. Caring for them is more important, and takes precedence over, caring for yourself.

3. Feeling compelled to be there for others. Feeling most comfortable when you are putting yourself out for others … or are doing everything you can to support them … or are desperately helping them to find solutions. At the same time, you feel guilty about asking for help from other people.

4. Staying in relationships that have little benefit to you, and may even prove to be harmful or abusive. Excusing and tolerating poor treatment for the sake of maintaining peace and harmony.

5. Repeating the pattern of going from one unhealthy or abusive relationship to another. Having low self worth and low self esteem.

To break the self destructive patterns above:

1. Recognize that you have a tendency to be drawn into codependent relationships – and make the decision to change this pattern. This will require acknowledging that these types of relationships are actually unhealthy (which may not be obvious to a codependent person).

2. Understand that breaking these ingrained patterns is very difficult to do alone. Consider working with a counsellor to identify the roots of the problems, to separate out what are healthy patterns of relating from what are unhealthy patterns of relating. Learn how to establish healthy appropriate boundaries. Work on saying “no”, and putting yourself first.

3. Step back and allow others to accept full responsibility for their words, responses, reactions and behaviours. Recognise the facts that it’s not your job to be responsible for anyone other than yourself. Don’t assume the blame when other peoples’ lives go wrong.

4. Keep your focus on yourself and your own needs and problems. Remember that you also have your own life to live

5. Understand that the right thing to do is to take care of your own life and needs first – before looking out for the needs of other people. That’s not being selfish: that is being a healthy, responsible adult.

6. Don’t feel guilty about enjoying yourself – even if others are dealing with huge problems. You have a right to be happy, and to make something of life.

[svensklangblr]

hottest language learning tip

write a diary

literally

just write a diary, it has helped me sooo much and i dare say it has been the most developing thing i’ve done while learning french, nothing else compares

1. you’re exposed to the language daily

2. you quickly see which words are missing from your vocabulary

3. you learn to write about the things you think about a lot

4. learning to actually think in your target language

5. having to look up words and when reading the entry back a couple of days later you can’t even remember which words you didn’t know

6. going back to the earlier entries and seeing all the mistakes and knowing how much better you’ve become

7. when you’ve been writing for a few months and your target language becomes a natural way for expressing yourself

8. when you’ve been writing for a few months and you start seeing the diary writing as a way of self-expression and stressrelief, and the language learning aspect becomes natural and secondary

9. filling out a whole book using only your target language and physically seeing how much you’ve accomplished

[brownbarbiesugar-deactivated201]

Definitely doing a diary in French in 2018!!!

[rottenheaux]

A gift

That moment when you’re on your first date with a new pot and you guys go shopping 🤤

I asked him what my limit was and he said “no limit!” Poor (actually lucky because I am that bitch) guy didn’t know what he was in for....mama grabbed everything in sight. 😍

[sugarofwallstreet]

Sugar for thought....

Or food for thought, but since I’m speaking on sugar terms I felt sugar for thought was appropriate. Anyhow, yesterday I was thinking of how I ran into a very handsome man earlier and it got me considering my ultimate dream guy. I have ran into some I considered to be very similar to my dream version of perfection I’m attracted to but nothing ever happened. Why you ask?…I asked that question too….

No matter how beautiful a person may be or how incredible they seem, they will always have a battle with their confidence. Issues with confidence can be pushed aside when needed but it’s still an issue for everyone. Even the girls you think are more beautiful than you have a problem with how they feel about themselves. 

Many women who sugar use sites to find their SD. But also complain about how they love the money but aren’t satisfied with the man, looks etc. Some of you ladies stick with it though because you are too nervous to freestyle. But why? Why should you be nervous? Is there fear to be turned down, worry of rejection? You show yourself on sites as every man’s dream girl. You sell yourself as one through conversation also. So why can’t that be done in public? Confidence issues? You may be relying on a site to protect you from rejection in some sense. If it’s not face to face, it somehow hurts less. 

If you are a sugar baby, you know how to seduce a man, how to not only look like every man’s fantasy but also act like it. So us ladies have no reason to shy away from doing some freestyle. If you want the man of your dreams go get him. You are other men’s fantasy so the possibility of rejection is slim. Find a successful, well educated, sexy man, walk up to him and start a conversation. Either you’ll gain a SD, or you will start a real relationship and it’ll be with a man you not only desire but can support you financially too. What woman wouldn’t want that? So what is really stopping you other than your own mind? Just some sugar for thought….  -sugarofwallstreet

[rottenheaux]

This is so true! I’m satisfied with my arrangements and I found them all online or on campus but if you’re struggling then you need to get out and freestyle. I personally haven’t because I’m only 19 and most businessmen don’t hang out at 18 and older clubs/bars lmao but if you’re old enough to drink then I highly suggest going out to freestyle. 💕

[rottenheaux]

Hmmm

I don’t know if something is wrong with me but I think sugaring is so easy because I love older white men, it’s something about the salt and pepper beard and the beady eyes that gets to me lmao. I find them so attractive and honestly if I was dumb I’d probably be fucking them for free that’s how wet they make me 😂😂

Anyways ignore me you guys I just had to share this with someone. Also I’ve never had wrinkly dick so by older men I mean between (28-46) sometimes 50+ if they look younger than that but no older than 58 unless we really connect.

My current boyfriends are between 19-35 which is funny lmao. If you’re wondering why 19 it’s because I’m 19 and he’s a trust fund brat 😍 Met him on campus so ladies if you’re in school don’t forget everyone can be finessed into taking care of you. If you’re scared of being a sugar baby to an older man then I suggest looking for rich frat boys, trust fund brats, etc etc and getting them to spoil you until you feel comfortable with an older man. Kisses xoxo

[rottenheaux]

New lingerie

Boyfriend is buying me lingerie today, he gave me his card so you guys already know what my spoiled ass is about to do lol