Sarahfemme Nicole

A 36-year-old trans woman’s journey, documented. HRT 💊2/24/2020. GCS 8/21/24. She/her. Proud transfemme. Happily subverting the patriarchy with my beautiful WIFEY @queenfrostgirl. TERFs arent feminists - they’re bigots.

[nourasbasha]

Fuck you. -> Scream7

#BoycottScream7

#FreePalestine🇵🇸

[nourasbasha]

Instead of buying a ticket for a film that punishes people for speaking truth, use that same money to defend life — real, innocent life.

My children in Gaza are not characters in a story; they are children who dream, laugh, and tremble under the sound of bombs. Every time you choose silence, they grow closer to becoming forgotten. Choose courage instead. Choose humanity. Support those who refuse to be silenced. . support us.

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[nourasbasha]

[elishaalexzander]

Gender is a social construct. Our human biology was designed by our creator, God. Human biology is not binary, but more importantly humanity is not binary, it is to diverse.

Diversity is at the core of all of Gods creation, including us. We were all created in Gods image, and that includes this soft and vulnerable gay non-binary child from the North Georgia Mountains and every "other" out there. We are all born sinners and sin is as subjective as our individual experiences and opinions. Sin is as diverse as spirituality & religion. Life is equally as complex as it is simple. yin & yang. That is Gods creation, and the evidence of this can be found in something as simple as a spoonful of dirt under a microscope.

I washed the construct of gender from my mind long ago, and have been an outcast or oddity for it ever since. I find ways to blend when and where I need to, but I struggle to thrive as my gender non-conforming, non-binary, queer, gender fluid, call it whatever the heck y'all want, but yes I struggle to thrive in these North Georgia Mountains. The family & friends that stick by my side struggle. It's not about the fight being worth it or not, it's about knowing that I simply can not be anything or anyone other than who and what I am. It's about knowing God created me in his image and embracing the light he breaths into me. I am as apart of his creation as Donald Trump. I have to trust that, and preach my truth all the same having faith in God.

Do not give up my trans and "othered" individuals.

Most people who preach of God preach from a book written and re-written by our human ancestors who were just as flawed as you and me are today. I speak of my heart and what God lays upon it. I lost God for a while when I took his creation into my own hands, and I am still learning from that mistake. My body was never flawed, only my mind clouded by the judgment of others that I was anything less.

Today was my reminder to heal so openly and loud, because I almost lost myself in my silence. But I am still, them.

-Elisha Alexzander

[liberalsarecool]

Conservatives' sex trafficking obsession is a confession.

[eldestsiblingsyndrome]

this was the correct reaction to the reveal

[socialistexan]

Right, so, at that point it isn't a ban on trans youth anymore when it targets adults. Now it's just trans healthcare bans period no qualifier

Also, literally every trans person told y'all this was going to happen. We absolutely said it was going to start with "but think of the children!" and then they were going to come after trans adults, and y'all fucking fell for it! Amazing! Thanks for fucking us over!

They will just keep pushing that age further and further up until it's totally (or at least functionally) banned.

[aldahi-rp]

Congratulations to @queenfrostgirl and @sagaofsarahrose on their wedding day!

[kglsudav]

[comtedemoney]

October 14, 1977, Anita Bryant is pied for her antigay bigotry at a press conference in Des Moines, IA by Thom Higgins.

[astoundingbeyondbelief]

when you can’t come out because it’s 2004 and the movie’s rated pg

[lefthandeasyangel-deactivated20]

When you can’t come out because it’s 2013 and America never changes

[astoundingbeyondbelief]

when you come out

[punkzcakes]

Colored Eddie sketch and Steve in a crop top and shorts to match

[muppetmagic]

the simpsons + my favorite lgbt+ moments

[ginsengstripper]

[evilwizard]

if even one more person mocks my wizard tower (The Gateway Arch) i’m gonna fuckin lose it

[evilwizard]

that’s it.

i’m opening The Gateway

[dragonsateyourtoast]

Being an American right now is so fucked up. Like hi I'm living my life. I'm gay. I'm doing great. My government is trying to take away my human rights. I can vote but it might not do anything because of gerrymandering. Sometimes people here deliberately spread deadly viruses because Freedom. We're told this is the best country in the world. I can't escape. I don't want to leave. I want to escape. I love the land itself. The government is like five steps from actively trying to kill me. We have brand new lawmakers who better understand the will of the people. The highest court in the nation is rigged to side with fascists. I'm graduating soon and I have an incredible life ahead of me. My planet is dying.

What the hell do I even do, man

[dragonsateyourtoast]

Like. This sounds overdramatic but you know that scene in the two towers where theoden looks out at saruman's army and realizes he made all these warriors just to destroy Rohan which is full of innocent people and his people and he says "What can man do against such reckless hate?"

That's how I feel on a daily basis

I don't think I CAN do anything except keep doing what I'm doing. Keep myself alive. Make stuff that helps other people be happy. Encourage activism and change. Plant flowers. I have to focus small. There ISN'T anything I can do against the big pharmaceutical companies causing millions of deaths from covid (among thousands of other medical ailments) because they refuse to release the patents on lifesaving medicine. I can't do anything about it I literally can't

All I can do is fucking write stories and posts and run stupid little dragon RPGs and plant flowers and hope. But if it helps other people too, what I'm doing, then it's worth it.

I am very small. I need to remember that and not try to pick a fight with an enemy that's much bigger than me. It's not selfish to say it's probably for the best if I just focus on my life and immediate vicinity. It's realistic and I think I can do more good this way.

There's a lot of pressure to like, fight for every problem ever but I think I need to remember I can't do that and I shouldn't do that and I need to limit myself to what I CAN do

Idk, it's clear a few other folks were also Feelin' This. I guess we all have to scale down. It feels gross because like... Obviously I care about shit that's happening, but I literally cannot deal with emotionally and intellectually engaging with all the awful news I'm bombarded with.

Being an American right now is still fucking awful, but being me doesn't have to be

[dragonsateyourtoast]

Hey I know it's long but reblog this version of the post actually

[practicalsolarpunk]

It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the immensity of things that need fixed. But as my favorite quote says, “You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it.”* You are not obligated to tear down capitalism by yourself. If all you can do is small things, do the small things:

Grow a plant

Talk to your neighbors

Volunteer an hour or two with an organization doing things you care about

Fix something you would have otherwise thrown out and replaced

Share

Learn a new skill

Give yourself permission to take a break from consuming bad news. If we can’t make our own lives bearable, there is no way we’ll gather the energy to do the big stuff. We can’t fight for everything all at once. And small stuff, added up over time, can become big.

If all you can do is small things, just do the small things. It’s okay.

*I’ve heard this quote attributed to at least three different people, so if you know who actually said it, please put it in the notes

[sailorsenshigifs]

[keroascrazy]

I can understand, visually what 4 out of 5 of these girls are doing.

Ami is polishing or using a wrench to tighten up something. Makoto is either adjusting an interior panel or working on speaker wires(?)

Minako and rei are likely working on the same thing on the dashboard but the limited space in the cabin calls for the awkward angle.

But

Someone please yell me why is usagi

Hitting the top of the cab with a

HAMMER??

[wemblingfool]

Shush, she's helping.

[gendernihilistanarchocommunist]

Incredibly fucking crucial information for Americans where period tracking digitally is concerned: DELETE YOUR DATA, DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT AND DELETE YOUR APPS

[cannaqueers]

[chai-ky]

I uh. I let AIs generate pictures for all the Dimension 20 campaigns I've seen and then set them as Penguin Classic covers

[spacebeige]

White Feminism

[academiabutmakeitdiverse]

I wish more white people - and white women especially - would get over their white fragility and truly understand how words and actions like these do more harm than good to women of color. They need to stop making everything about themselves and catering to other whites women like women of color don’t exist.

[andreii-tarkovsky]

To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar (1995)

Dir. Beeban Kidron

[brehaaorgana]

This was such a formative movie

[musicalhell]

This shit was revolutionary for the mid-90s. Among other things it helped me understand that transgender and cross-dressing were completely separate things.

[aqueerkettleofish]

To this day, I am in awe of the fact that Patrick Swayze not only campaigned hard to get the audition, not only auditioned in dress and makeup, but spent most of the day leading up to the audition walking around LA in dress and makeup.

This was a man who could sing, dance, act, ride a horse, fight, and walk in heels, he had nothing to prove to anyone, and he is MISSED.

[aqueerkettleofish]

Okay, I’m not done feeling about this.

If you’re younger, you may not know Patrick Swayze; he was Taken From Us in 2009. But Patrick Swayze was an icon of masculinity. Men were willing to watch romantic movies because Patrick Swayze was in them.

Patrick Swayze was fucking beefcake.

And this man didn’t just agree to do a movie where the only time he’s not actually in drag is the first three minutes, which involve stepping out of the shower, doing make up, and getting Dressed. He has ONE LINE that is delivered in a man’s voice, and it’s not during those three minutes.

And if you watch those three minutes, you see a stark difference between his portrayal of Miss Vida Bohéme and Wesley Snipes as Noxeema Jackson. (I am not criticizing Snipes’ performance. They were different roles.) Noxeema was a comedy character. Chi-Chi was a comedy character. But Miss Vida Bohéme was a dramatic role, played by a dramatic powerhouse.

When Vida sits down in front of the mirror, she sees a man. And she doesn’t like it.

Then she puts her hair up, and her face lights up.

“Ready or not,” she says. “Here comes Mama.”

And while Noxeema is having fun with her transformation (at one point breaking into a giggling fit after putting on pantyhose), Vida is simply taking pleasure in bringing out her true self. And when she’s done, she sees this:

And you can FEEL her pride.

All of this from an actor who, up to this point, walked on to the screen and dripped testosterone.

[jenroses]

It matters that this happened in 1995. It wouldn’t fly today, wouldn’t be the right choice, we’ve moved past it, but it mattered and was important that it happened the way it happened today. It’s one of the stepping stones.