Feral Waifu

Mid 20s. I am a simple woman. I come online, I hit reblog 50 times in a row with no rhyme or reason

[pixiecaps]

so many people would be happier if dating wasnt something u did with ppl u wanna have sex with but people u love being around and harbor friendships with

[pixiecaps]

for the sake of everyone i will radicalize society’s perception of dating. and dating culture as a whole. dating is when u are best friends with someone

- u can still get romantic with people that arent ur best friend and hookups but the person u choose to “date” or “marry” realistically should be ur best friend and i guarantee everyone would be happier if we removed this pressure of dating and ur partner being a sub category entity thing that makes u miserable

[pixiecaps]

source me. im aro. my girlfriend is aro. we started “dating” because we are best friends. we are best friends and i wanted to spend all my time with her so we labeled it dating. i feel like this makes sense and everyone should do this with their friends.

im putting dating in quotes because nothing rlly changed and labeling things is funny to me whateve rwhatever im the woker

[pixiecaps]

also this is coming from a person who personally is seeing a lot of the like

jessica is best friends with veronica and veronica is her favorite person in the whole world and she’d die for her if asked. jessica also has boyfriend justin who shes dating and she likes him enough to keep him around. at the end of the day though the person she enjoys being around the MOST is veronica.

and ppl will say omg jessica needs to learn about lesbianism. when like sure that could be the case sometimes it is. but sometimes i think changing our perspective of dating in general would do so much good for people. jessica should date veronica and they should home own together and they should do all the domestic bullshit. and if jessica wants a justin around for whatever reason. thats fine. but part of recognizing the traditional family ideas forcibly placed on us as a society for decades is breaking down these concepts and going hey there might be a more efficient and reasonable way to view these things. dating can be a lot easier woaaahhhhhh #get aro #date ur friend #fuck labels #do what makes u happier

​idk so many relationships i see especially hetero ones are very transactional and doesnt seem like they enjoy spending TOO much time together. which is kinda the whole deal around dating

[scramblema-am]

Yes omg I have been looking for a way to articulate this!!!

I'm an alloromantic ace and I'm married to my husband. Our relationship is romantic, but has no sexual obligation. We've labeled ourselves "polyamorous" which works for us to explain how we feel about each other engaging in other romantic and/or sexual relationships- fine! Go for it! 👍😁 And when we got married people in my family who don't understand but were trying to be supportive were like "but why bother getting married if you're polyamorous?" Sometimes answering their own question "oh for like tax benefits and so you can see them in the hospital, right lol" and like

Ok what if it's because we're best friends??? What if I'm Getting Married because that's the structure we have in place to say to the whole world "I'm building my life with this person"? I want to spend every day with my husband! I love hanging out with him! I want to do all the domestic bullshit!

I do think dating and marriage for the relationship(s) where you want to spend most of your time with each other. For both practical and emotional reasons! I labeled mine as polyamory because that's the label that works for us but it can legitimately work like this for so many kinds of relationships.

Like, I married my romantic partner and best friend. Maybe A marries B because they're best friends who are dating, like @pixiecaps ' above. Maybe C and D are close friends and fuck buddies and want to live together. Maybe E and F are sisters who have separate friends and romantic/sexual partners from each other, but they want to spend their time really with their sister. Maybe G, H, and K want to live and raise kids together, but don't share romantic or sexual relationships with each other.

That should all be fine and awesome and normal!!! The "traditional family structure" of Mother, Father, Boy Kid, and Girl Kid really isn't the only one out there, and I've seen people deconstructing the hetero-normative, mono-normative, cis-normative, and idk "wanting children"-normative parts of this idea, but not the alloromantic and allosexual elements.

Everyone should feel safe to "date" and "marry" whoever they want.

[elokitties]

are we going to start acknowledging that cancel culture does not work on oppressors and has thus created a system of impossible morality which makes people stagnant and fearful instead of empathetic and productive members of society. and those under the most scrutiny for moral purity are most often the victims of the so called cancelable offense

[catasters]

[laurenthemself]

BIG STRETCH

[krsonmar]

let's practice stretchy-stretch with mama

[thebellekeys]

europeans be like “omg north americans are so racist it’s horrible” and then elect fascists

[thebellekeys]

I would like to emphasize that I agree with all of these tags by the way. My post wasn't aiming to pin all of Europe's grotesque racism on the new elections.

[dailymanners]

A few weeks ago I was at a board game night with some of my old classmates from various mainland European countries. They started talking about how horrible Trump's treatment of immigrants is and how they're so glad to be in Europe where nothing like that is happening right now. I asked them what they thought about the fact that their own governments were complicit in turning the Mediterranean into a mass grave of asylum seekers, and some of them legitimately didn't even know and were surprised to hear that their own governments had enacted policies that caused the deaths of thousands of asylum seekers.

Even here in Iceland, almost nobody has been talking about the fact that some of the far right populist parties have legitimately been talking about wanting to establish detainment camps to keep asylum seekers in.

[barishal]

Additional readings:

Greece suspends asylum applications for migrants from North Africa by Laura Gozzi (BBC).

Greece passes draconian legislation with prison terms for rejected asylum seekers by Helena Smith (The Guardian).

Greek coastguard threw migrants overboard to their deaths, witnesses say by Lucile Smith and Ben Steele (BBC).

Bill on Detention Centres for Asylum Seekers Published by Jelena Ćirić (Iceland Review).

Italy sends 40 rejected asylum seekers to Albania by Karl Sexton (DW).

Record number of migrants, refugees reached Canary Islands by sea in 2024 (Al Jazeera).

Portuguese government announces major migrant expulsion plan by ANSA (InfoMigrants).

[dailymanners]

This post is a few months old now, and the bit about Iceland is now outdated, because Alþingi (the Icelandic parliament) passed the bill approving the detention center for asylum seekers. It will be legal to handcuff and detain children there.

Never let anyone from Europe feed you the lie that racism and fascism are unique to North America in the 21st century.

[polytrixaf]

dont forget that YOU 🫵 are the backbone of this fandom. oh but im not a- DONT CARE. write a bad fic, draw that silly art, make that tumblr post with your headcannon. oh but i have nothing to share- DONT CARE. kudos that fic, write a nice comment, gush in the tags of a reblog.

YOU 🫵 ARE CREATING A FANDOM SPACE BY EXISTING AROUND AND ENCOURAGING CONTENT CREATION

what YOU 🫵 say has impact. make it a good one.

[bluef00t]

Tobey Maguire Spider-Man "it's a hard knock life" fancam hours

[boastmalone]

How does it feel to have conceptualized the perfect Spider-Man trailer op

[oracleocelot]

[reallyreallyreallytrying]

british money’s called “quid”, short for liquid, which used to be the official currency. any liquid. “as long as it splash we use it for cash”- old british saying

[leespinoodle]

The term “bank” comes from this too, as people would go down to the river banks to collect more quid

The wealthy would store their quid in large tanks, and they would place sharks (which are smooth) in there to guard it

[datasoong47]

[can-i-make-image-descriptions]

[Image IDs: Image #1: Tumblr reply from healRosie on Aug 31, 2019 reading: actually it comes from squid. the brits used to trade exclusively in cephalopods.

Image #2: Tumblr reply from animatronic-christmas-chickens on Jan 5, 2020 reading: My friend Quo says this isn’t true, and they have studied the British financial system extensively. That’s right, they are the quid pro, Quo.

Image #3: Tumblr reply from miraculous-mara on Oct 16, 2019 reading: Is that why we say we piss it away?

Image #4: Tumblr reblog from dontBeMeanMrBubz on Dec 17, 2025 reading: So filling your socks with river water Isn’t free???

Image #5: Tumblr reblog from kinsey3furry300 on Dec 14, 2025 reading: hence “To drain a bank account” “To syphon funds” or “to freeze” assets.

Everyone remember to stay safe out there and avoid pickpockets with silly straws.

Image #6: Tumblr reblog from somePeopleAreWorthDyingFor-me on Aug 23, 2019 reading: it’s true - my parents bought our house with spaghetti sauce /End IDs]

[gecko-with-a-greatsword]

*guy who doesn't know anything about sports and has never cared about sports in his life* hey did you know womens professional baseball is returning after 70 years and the games are going to be streamed for free on youtube and the season starts august 1st

[gecko-with-a-greatsword]

youtube link

Women's Pro Baseball League

Our time is now. The inaugural season of the WPBL begins August 1st, 2026.

website

[butch-ragh-barkrock]

I think this is so cool and it's awesome they're streaming games for free! I also think it's incredible that this picture is the one they used to advertise the opening day. It's like those videos where someone threatens the camera while their partner shows off their collection of rocks they found.

[sabertoothwalrus]

you CAN 👏 NOT 👏 tell me Aang wouldn’t love fart jokes. Boy is an AIR bender from Prankster Island. He’s airbending his farts at people. He asks Sokka to pull his finger and launches himself 50 feet in the air. He does this every single day. Sokka laughs at it every single time.

[sabertoothwalrus]

I can’t even say he finds it so funny because he’s 12 because I also find it funny and I am in my 20s

[jerseymuppet]

kissin kate barlow has the best villain origin story ever put to paper. if i fell in love with a sweet man who just wanted to sell onions and show of his sick carpentry skills and they killed him for being black i think i would also snap and kill everyone involved in the most ironic way possible.

[skidfarts]

"Whats your favorite genre" i just Listen to music i like man I dont kno w

[twinprime]

teal and orange truly is the greatest color combo in the world. like name one better combo

[twinprime]

this is spiritually healing to me

[beans-after-midnight]

a platypus palette?

[zzoupz]

[beans-after-midnight]

PERRY THE PLATYPUS PALETTE???

[mrsmarymorstan]

Derry Girls really said that life is not a linier series of events and the worst parts of your life can and will co-exist with the best parts and there is no telling if and when those will be. So you just have to try and make the best of every situation as it comes to you.

And they were right.

[saltedume]

[bogleech]

Zubat is a broadcast symbol.

I noticed years ago that the wings look like stylized "soundwaves" but the meaning of its two long stick legs JUST clicked and I can't find anyone else pointing this out?!

[lakemojave]

People comment on posts like they're the first person on the planet earth to tell you about nuance

[terrafey]

not everyone does that. it depends

[homunculus-argument]

Craving more berries while my legs are still tired from getting berries yesterday. I'm unsure whether there's any decent berry spots within walking distance, and also I'm out of breadcrumbs again as well. Going to get some from the grocery on bike would be an option, but it's summer out there and I don't want to get scorched and sweaty.

>:C

[stopaskingmetosignupforthissite]

Some people just live wildly different lives from me, and that's okay.

Like.

I am eating cinnamon rolls on my couch that I made from a can for my girlfriend because that's our "high effort" breakfast.

And you're out here talking about picking fresh berries and needing breadcrumbs!? Like, are you secretly also Hansel and Gretel?

[homunculus-argument]

I make what I call blueberry mush: 1/4th sugar, 1/4th breadcrumbs, 1/2 crushed blueberries. Every year when there's blueberries out there I go feral for them. Yesterday I had no breadcrumbs left to mix to my delicious blueberry hoard of the day, so I ground up a goddamn old dried up bread loaf end with a stone mortar and pestle for the crumbs. Proper 1800s type of shit. A friend of mine called this "caveman wife material activities."

[yehoria-offical]

not even like using a blender???