leave a little mark on something maybe

kt; 31; white tme nonbinary lesbian (they); i love being a silly goose & a menace. please only follow me if ur like 20+

[gaypornvideoswebsite]

mid-way pride month check-in

[gaypornvideoswebsite]

just saw someone comment under a videoclip of the sylvia rivera interview where she insists on the modern (circa 2001) pride movement being a capitalist smokescreen, a “straight gay” movement that worships the almighty dollar, that:

and this person is likely quite young but this really really really captures the limited imagination of capitalist neoliberal indoctrination around freedom and liberation. radical queerness treated as a paintjob over a prison as opposed to the bulldozer that tears the prison down. we have to dream for so much more and endure the pain of dreaming.

[pjackk]

Vodka & benadryl got me feeling like a oyster

[secretcircuit]

so many people have a fundamental misunderstanding of what i like and what i dont which would all be cleared up if they would just read dorohedoro

[alco-luvr]

Can you fucking TMEs stop with this fucking shit oh my fucking hell

[villainessbian]

"I've hit the stage of transition where I notice that everyone is transmisogynistic but I get not to care because it doesn't affect me :3"

[ordr]

Thanks for sexualizing peoples trauma fuckhead

anytime

[t4nku]

Btw the strongest raw powerlifter Tamara Walcott started lifting at 34 and broke world records at 39. And is currently 43 and still beastmoding. So if I ever hear you guys whining about being too old to learn something new at 24 I say shut the HELL up #youcandoit

[pitbolshevik]

my super sustainable bmw

[pitbolshevik]

[sapphling]

usamerican film producers love to watch cinematic masterpieces and go fuuuck dude. what we made this again but in english and totally dogass

[krasnoarmeyets]

i bet it feels good as fuck to intend to do something and then actually do it

[cheesefags]

2-YEAR CHEDDAR

from GRAFTON VILLAGE

I usually try to review cheeses virginally - that is, ones that I’ve never had before. In this case, this is a cheddar I’ve had many times before. But I couldn’t leave it off the blog, what with its obvious appeal to leather and rubber fetishists.

As far as cheddars go, Grafton’s 2-year aged isn’t going to shock you. It’s mild, light on the salt, with a slightly sweet and grassy flavour. It’s got a nice texture. It’s dense, more moist than I expected, and smooth.

So what is the deal with the gummi suit on this cheese anyway? Well, cheese has obviously been around a lot longer than fridges. Fresh cheeses like mozzarella are too moist to last very long outside of a cold place (bacteria and fungi do so love damp places), though I don’t think anyone was too mad about eating that stuff quickly. But cheeses that have been aged (and dried) more have some more preservation options, which is where cheese wax comes in. The wax is a physical barrier, stopping fungal spores from landing, and also blocks moisture and air, making the cheese a pretty unfriendly place to grow. Even drier cheeses can be bandaged in cheesecloth and then slathered in lard to preserve them while allowing some ventilation.

I gotta admit: hot wax isn’t really my thing. But cheesecloth bondage and grease… it has potential.

[dumbpuppyfag]

this site used to be awesome

[1percentcharge]

if I ever met Ryan Gosling I would be like omg Ryan I loved you in hey girl I mean they

[miamaimania]

“Untitled (Face In Dirt)” (1990) by David Wojnarowicz ⦿ His final self-portrait, made while dying of AIDS-related illness.

[thewolfstrongdiary]

Scratching your vaginer through your baggy jeans pocket #yes

[mgsr]

[bebsi-cola]

disabled people are often in permacrisis

[bebsi-cola]

there's never enough money each month. there's always an unexpected illness. new symptoms pop up or old symptoms flare up. meds have to be managed always and refilled constantly and any refill has the opportunity to go wrong. any regular care has the opportunity to go wrong. any mistake can send your health spiralling. it's always "i just need to get through this bad patch" but as soon as one ends another begins. another crisis begins in the middle of the last crisis. managing one thing leaves another thing to be neglected until that becomes a major issue and has to be managed asap and the cycle starts anew over and over and over

[chingaderita]

I got told by someone who manages a mutual aid resource that I was getting suspended for asking constantly for help.

I know she meant well, she wants this resource to flourish and help many people in the years to come.

But I still got suspended for 12 weeks.

The reason was donors fatigue. Like genuinely, look it up, it's apparently a real thing.

People got tired of seeing me weekly ask for help to afford groceries, medication, my healthcare monthly renewal, rent, house repairs to deal with the humidity, black mold, rust, falling roof, falling ceiling, falling wall or the water leak in the lightbulb and many other things.

The thing is I am chronically ill, I have no degree or higher education than my high school certificate, my partner is the same except for some english certificates that he has an advanced language.

We take care of our kids, the cats we've rescued from the streets and his parents and sister after they lost everything in a house fire.

We are always struggling to stay afloat paying the bills, keeping a roof on our heads and feeding our family while chronically ill, with chronic pain, dare I say some of us are disabled.

And people got tired of us. I got told because I keep changing what our main need/goal is I look like a scammer.

And ok, I get it, it must be really hard to see people struggle all the time to stay alive when all you want is to share a funny meme, cat pics, fanart and fan fiction.

But what about begging fatigue? What about poor fatigue?

Having to shake our can and beg for a kofi every day is exhausting. And no amount seems to fix our struggles and get us out of the red because by the time we get some help our bills are already overdue, we've got extra charges, we no longer need only the groceries and regular medication, now we need to run to the hospital or we already did and all that stacks up.

And every day, every week, month after month, year after year it just gets worse.

Chronic illness and disability are disabling in more than the physical way, we are shunned from every place for being considered a burden.

Show more compassion, you have no idea how hard it is.

[nikfromtheinternet]

common grackle and red-winged blackbird best friends forever!!!

[tattahitotsunosaetayarikata-dea]

The key to opsec is Assume your shit's already compromised

[tactfulsaboteur]