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Fanfic is a great way to practice self-indulgence while writing. It doesn’t even have to be good, it just exists purely for your pleasure, be a little freak about it. Worry about quality and what other people think when it comes to works you intend to publish in a formal setting
Okay yeah sure but what if you consider AO3 to be a formal setting?
you show up to AO3 in a pressed suit, polished shoes, briefcase in hand, ready to keep minutes at the four hour discourse meeting.
I drag myself to AO3 in my sweats, no bra, hair up in a thing, hastily shod flip flops, looking for a cheap coffee and a sandwich.
boss pays us the same: 2 kudos each, and one unhinged commenter to share
Help cover my cat's medical bills!
Hello. I hoped I'd never need to ask for money here, but life's been an absolute bitch. I'm drowning in uni work, debt payments and bills and my soul cat got sick. I don't know how serious it is yet, but he is a very sickly kitty in general and one of the reasons I'm in debt now is because he got really sick in December and his treatment drained all my savings.
I don't know yet how much I'd need, but by my rough estimate I'd need 45$ for his first appointment and labs. It may not seem like much, but I have literally nothing at least until next week. I'd post all of the paperwork. It is in Ukrainian, but you can use a translator.
My PayPal is [email protected]
Thank you all in advance.
Please help my family stay sheltered!
Hello everyone. For those who don't know me, I'm Jess, AKA Frog. My mom and I have been homeless and living in hotels since the spring of 2023. I'm queer, nonbinary, and autistic; my mom is physically disabled and chronically ill; we're both suffering from anxiety, depression, and CPTSD. We also have a cat with us. (We had a dog, but he's in foster care until we get some real housing. Working on doing the same for the kitty.) I lost my job because of the instability of our situation. Mom gets Social Security, and we have SNAP, but living in a hotel is not cheap. We're barely keeping our heads above water.
When we can't quite scrape by, which is often, I will use this post to ask for help. If you don't want to see it, ask and I'll create a tag for you to blacklist. I don't want to bother anyone. I'm just doing what I have to do for my family. One day, I'll be able to delete this post, and I will pay forward every bit of kindness.
PP: emeraldpleiades16
CA: $paradoxicalfrog
Ven: JessicaATaylor517
This is for Sunday, 05/24.
We have been outside since noon on Saturday. We're cold, tired, and hungry, and Mom has developed a cough that worries both of us.
We're going to need multiple days to recover from this, so I'm aiming for enough to pay one night, plus buy points for two more and cover pet fees for all of the above. Alternatively, it will pay for a ride and a room at some other hotel if we get banned. So far the management either hasn't noticed us or does not care, but the possibility remains.
Please help us if you can.
$0/$175
P.S.: We can pay it back at the end of the month.
Please help my family stay sheltered!
Hello everyone. For those who don't know me, I'm Jess, AKA Frog. My mom and I have been homeless and living in hotels since the spring of 2023. I'm queer, nonbinary, and autistic; my mom is physically disabled and chronically ill; we're both suffering from anxiety, depression, and CPTSD. We also have a dog and a cat with us. I lost my job because of the instability of our situation. Mom gets Social Security, and we have SNAP, but living in a hotel is not cheap. We're barely keeping our heads above water.
When we can't quite scrape by, which is often, I will use this post to ask for help. If you don't want to see it, ask and I'll create a tag for you to blacklist. I don't want to bother anyone. I'm just doing what I have to do for my family. One day, I'll be able to delete this post, and I will pay forward every bit of kindness.
PP: emeraldpleiades16
CA: $paradoxicalfrog
Ven: JessicaATaylor517
This is for Monday, 05/11. Checkout is at 11:00 AM EDT, at which point we must pay or get ourselves, our pets, and our possessions out of the building.
Now that we have used our reward points, we have to pay full price plus the $20 pet fee. (And what we had left over yesterday went into food; we're having a bit of trouble with our SNAP again because we've moved.) I know it's more than we've had to pay in quite a while, but that's unfortunately just how it is. This is the last safe, clean, pet-friendly, and remotely affordable hotel in the region that hasn't found a reason to kick us out yet. And it is going to rain Monday for most of the day, so we really do not want to end up outside.
Please help if you can, friends. I'm sorry.
$0/$100
Tomorrow is today.
It is now 8:00 AM EDT. Three hours until we have to pay or move outside. Please help! 🙇
It's 9:00. Please! We don't want to be caught in the rain!
Preparing to move outside.
We don't even know if they will let us back in if we sit outside. Please help! Please!
I lost my job in September and have since gotten and accepted an of… Aulus Ovidius needs your support for Support Needed to Avoid Foreclosur
For all I like to pretend the cat in my avatars is actually me, it actually belongs to a friend of mine – and he's in a nasty spot of financial trouble right now. He lost his job some time back and while he has a new one now, he hasn't been able to start it yet due to paperwork troubles - and in the gap between fell far enough behind on his mortgage and car payments that he won't make it without support. The house is not only home to him and three cats, but - as he's talking around in the gofundme (since the area of the US he lives in runs deeply conservative and he's had to share it in stuff connected to his realspace identity too) - also has served as a temporary place for queer friends of his to stay after having been kicked out or needing to run away from home three separate times by now and he would like to keep being able to offer that safe haven. If you can donate or share, I'd much appreciate it!
Modern research shows the public work together selflessly in an emergency, motivated by a strong impulse to help
“The notion that people panic and run screaming for the exits is a Hollywood fiction,” said Prof Stephen Reicher, an expert in group behaviour at the University of St Andrews.
“Characteristically, people stay and help each other,” he said. “We found this during the 7/7 attacks on the underground and the 1999 attack on the Admiral Duncan pub in London, where people looked after each other even though they feared other bombs.
“In our own research on the Leytonstone tube attack in 2015, there was an amazing level of spontaneous coordination by bystanders: some directed others away from danger. Some distracted the attacker. Some confronted the attacker. Each was able to act because of the others. Heroism was a feature of the group, not just the individual,” he added.
Prof Clifford Stott, a specialist in the psychology of crowds and group identity at Keele University, agreed. Modern research, he said, showed “bystander apathy” was a myth. Instead, strangers often work together in emergency situations with highly sophisticated unity.”
Bystander apathy is a myth invented by the New York Times to cover up that the police were called by several residents of the building, but the cops refused to act. The cops then told the Times that 38 people just watched her die (a seemingly arbitrary number and a physical impossibility based on where the attacks occurred), and the Times ran with it. In fact, Kitty was alive when the cops got there, and was being held and comforted by one of her friends who lived in the building because one of the people who saw her get attacked from across the street called her friend to go get her. Because people care.
You have just been attacked. How likely is it that someone will come to your help? If you remember the infamous case of Kitty Genovese in 19
I will always re-blog this. The story of Kitty Genovese’s murder has gone down in history as a story about everyone watching it happen and doing nothing and none of the story is true.
literally everything is unisex if u stop giving a fuck
When I worked at Target, it was during the winter, and this guy comes up to my register with a neutral-colored beanie with a fake fur pompom on top. All embarrassed and cringing, asking me if it was a woman’s hat and if it would be weird for him to get it.
I was like, “It’s just a hat. If you like it and you wear it, it’s not a woman’s hat, it’s just your hat. You don’t need to follow what the tag says if you don’t want to.” And it was like I gave him some kind of awe-inspiring wisdom he’d never considered, and he left with that hat on his head.
More cishets need to hear and internalize this message because so many of them are avoiding things that would make them happy just because of it having a label on it for whatever gender.
“We chose the term “asexual” to describe ourselves because both “celibate” and “anti-sexual” have connotations we wished to avoid: the first implies that one has sacrificed sexuality for some higher good, the second that sexuality is degrading or somehow inherently bad. “Asexual”, as we use it, does not mean “without sex” but “relating sexually to no one”. This does not, of course, exclude masturbation but implies that if one has sexual feelings they do not require another person for their expression. Asexuality is, simply, self-contained sexuality.”
— The Asexual Manifesto, Lisa Orlando and Barbara Getz, 1972
Note the date, people:
That’s 1972
29 years before AVEN was started online,
and 47 years before the present.
And that’s only the date that Manifesto was written, so asexuals as members of a community must have existed at least some time before that.
So, no: we are not just Tumblr trenders. Get out of here with that.
supporting my asexual friends and foes by rebbloging this
It’s 50 years this month since the first version of the Asexual Manifesto was written. Aces have been writing about our experiences under this name for at least half a century. We are not an internet fad.
Hey tumblr! So uhhh... my state (Ohio) is trying to ban drag, but the wording is vague and could end up ruining the careers of people who are just dancing. The opposition hearing is this Wednesday (March 18) and I am submitting a letter that highlights how vague the wording is.
I am going to include some photos to challenge their sense of understanding of gender.
My problem is that I'm a little far into the gender abolitionist sauce to tell what the average person thinks is 'correct gender expression.'
Here are the photos I have chosen. Tell me which persons are performing appropriately in accordance with their gender. (Pretend you are also not on the gender abolitionist sauce.)
There are correct answers.
If you would likewise like to help, please consider writing to the Ohio Reps. There's some information about it here:
Here's what I sent to the committee:
When it comes to my position on HB249, I have to ask myself- where do I even start?
HB249 is vaguely-worded, unenforceable, and shows a lack of understanding of not just drag, but performance arts as a whole.
Let’s start with the actual wording of the bill. Let’s pretend we live in a world where drag does not exist and see what kinds of performance arts this could apply to. Because if this bill is truly about the general health, then it should apply to other areas of performance as well.
“Recklessly putting on a performance that is harmful to juveniles or obscene.” Right away, I think about childhood sports and pageants- gymnastics, ballet, beauty pageants- can all be hotbeds for eating disorders, joint issues, and the potential for abuse within their systems if left unchecked when young people are involved in them. If this is about children imitating what they see adults do, then I submit that dangerous sports such as motocross, football, and hockey qualify as being ‘harmful for juveniles.’ If sports are exempt from this definition, then circus acts would be considered harmful, outside of your average clown- but not rodeo clowns.
When it comes to defining ‘obscenity,’ that is a matter of opinion and often culture. Dancing, at present, is not considered obscene in America. However, in some parts of the world, public displays of dance are considered ‘indecent.’ In fact, public dances of any kind are penalized under the umbrella term of ‘immoral acts,’ which is vague and very exploitable by anyone with an agenda. This is similar to ‘harmful to juveniles or obscene,’ as it is putting a moral weight behind a personal feeling of distaste.
Now this part: “performers or entertainers who exhibit a gender identity that is different from the performer's or entertainer's gender assigned at birth using clothing, makeup, prosthetics or imitation genitals or breasts, or other physical marker.”
Clothing- I’m female, but I sometimes wear pants when I’m performing. Is this legal?
Makeup- I’m female, but I sometimes contour to give myself a stronger chin when I’m performing. I also draw my eyebrows in to make them thicker and more visible on the stage. Is this legal?
Prosthetics- I’m female and I sometimes stuff my bra when performing to make an ill-fitting bra more secure. Is this legal?
Other physical markers- There are lots of things that are physical markers. A wig. A haircut.. Earrings. Acrylic nails. Are these legal?
It’s also unclear what performance we’re talking about. A theater troupe using stage makeup and prosthetics? A band whose lead singer is female but has short hair and wears jeans and flannel? A stand-up comedienne is a trans woman performing in a public space- is this permissible? A yakshagana (theatrical ballet style from India) group often has troupes consisting of a single gender performing either gender, and there is a yakshagana troupe that performs every year here at the Asian Festival- would they be barred from their cultural performance? There is an Egyptian dance style called Tahtib that is typically danced by men, but modern dancers have adapted this style to be performed by women as well- would this be allowed under the new law and how would it be enforced in the very large international dance industry in Ohio?
My next question is- how is this going to be enforced? If police are now in charge of this, then they will have to be trained in recognizing the appropriate gender markers of performers, regardless of the performance, which means more training and potentially more police presence at festivals where there are entertainers. Costly.
A special task force on this subject would likely also be costly.
A citizen-lead coalition of persons looking to make sure someone is following the gender of their birth prior to going on stage is so very abusable and would result in a greater number of false-positives than provable misdemeanors and possibly violence.
As a fun exercise, I have included some photos of performers and I would like you to take some time to look at them and decide for yourself if they are performing in a way that is consistent with their gender at birth.
Keep in mind that it only takes a split second decision to decide whether or not a person deserves this misdemeanor.
Have you picked them?
Are you sure?
Now on to the topic of drag itself.
Drag, at its barest bones of a definition, just means ‘costume.’ While it has the connotations of gender, it is just a costume. A drag artist is playing a character on a stage- not particularly different from- once again- your average clown. There are female artists who exaggerate their own features to create female stage personas. There are male artists who do the same. And there are categories of drag artists who play creatures or monsters or clowns as part of their stage character.
General audience drag is not any more obscene than your average sketch comedian. The type of drag that is sexual or expresses adult themes are already labeled ‘18+’ and held in ‘adult cabaret’ venues. This bill would restrict something that is already restricted while further restricting things that could affect the lives beyond the demographic that it intentionally targets.
So taking the bare-bones definition of ‘drag’ into account, let’s think about what it is we’re actually outlawing.
It’s clothes. But look up at those examples again (have you figured out which ones are correct yet, by the way? If it makes it easier, it is a specific number neither zero nor nine, so its not a trick question.) Everyone is fully clothed, and wearing more than you would see on a beach in the summer. Some are wearing more clothes than the average person on a normal day.
So if it’s not the amount of skin being shown in a costume, then the problem is the intention behind the costume. So how can a person in charge of judging whether or not a performer is adhering to gender standards know the intention of a costume unless there is an artist’s statement attached to each piece?
Can I trust the person in charge of vetting the veracity of my gender to look at my skirts and my show dresses and my fake eyelashes, and then also at the facial hair that I’ve started growing during perimenopause or the receding hairline that I’m developing from stress or the fact that I’m not exactly what they think of as an adult human female- to make a reasonable decision about whether or not I deserve a misdemeanor for wearing a show costume?
Look at those photos one more time, please.
For the privacy of the people in the photos, I will not tell you which ones would be found guilty of a misdemeanor under the new bill.
But I will tell you that if your number was any greater or less than three, you were incorrect. If I can’t trust the people representing my state to interpret this law consistently, then I cannot trust any law enforcement tasked with it. It is, honestly, ridiculous, that I have to defend my right to wear a costume.
Here's hoping it wasn't too bitchy.
Hey Do You Understand Why Synagogues Have Intense Security Measures Now. or will it take 87 more fucking synagogue shootings. screaming at the walls screaming at the walls
To be clear this is the fourth synagogue shooting this week. Also there was a bombing as well. :)
The Government of Canada announced a $10 million immediate investment toward Jewish community security through the Canada Community Security Program (CCSP).
Ideally, we wouldn't need security. We do not live in an ideal world.
if tiktokers want to pronounce aesthetic as “aestetic” they should have to pronounce every word that way. anaestetic. syntetic. sympatetic. empatetic. kinestetic. prostetic. patetic
@captain-acab @hydrogenperfoxide
ok wait, i do say “anestesia,” but not “anestetic.” strange.
but also, i haven’t heard it for aesthetic irl. i wonder if it’s a regional pronunciation that got popular on tiktok so that’s why i assumed it was a tiktok thing?
How do you pronounces to “th” in aesthetic, anesthetic, and anesthesia? Soft “th” is represented by θ
all three as θ
θ, θ, t
θ, t, θ
θ, t, t
t, θ, θ
t, θ, t
t, t, θ
all three as t
nuance/other
Struggling to put into words how big this is.
As game developers continue to argue about the value of generative AI tools, some genAI inventors are trying to claim for copyright on their
"Thaler's lawyers complain that if the Copyright Office's reign of terror continues unchecked, it 'will have irreversibly and negatively impacted AI development and use in the creative industry during critically important years.'"
GOOD.
Voting did matter. Even the worst democrat or in all honesty the next worst republican was not going to do all this exact same crazy shit. Voting cannot fix a broken system but if the system asks you to weigh in on how much more broken it wants to get, you can tell it "no, not that far please" instead of effectively "I don't care, go hog fucking wild"
So please vote in the midterms, for the least evil options on the ballots, instead of telling them you just don't mind who they put in charge of whatever the hell they want.
To back up OP’s post, democrats have won the majority of recent state elections (NPR link), and closed the gap on the few they didn’t. Dems also are notorious for getting stuck having to fix shit and get locked in a constant uphill battle (why it feels like they don’t get a lot done). As for the arguments of “lol we won’t have midterms” or “even if we do win midterms it won’t work so what’s the point”… that’s a form of voter suppression and weak ass defeatism.
The federal government cannot interfere with state’s voting and board of elections, it is unconstitutional and was defended as recently as a few days ago Jan 9 2026 (Politico link). The arguments that it’s not worth it or won’t happen will get louder and worse because the far right know that they are losing power.
Keep track of your local and state elections, check your voter registration status and make sure it’s active and correct, and make a plan to vote. That means all seats from federal down to city council. I get how tired y’all are bc I’m right there with you, but I want to get out of this. If you do too, stop doomscrolling and start being strategic with your attention. Pay attention to your local election boards, start giving yourself grace to learn and grow, if you can get involved do, if you can’t just make sure to get out and vote. Remember voting is not a magic button and it’s going to take decades to fix what has been undone, so pace yourself accordingly.
Please help my family stay sheltered!
Hello everyone. For those who don't know me, I'm Jess, AKA Frog. My mom and I have been homeless and living in hotels since the spring of 2023. I'm queer, nonbinary, and autistic; my mom is physically disabled and chronically ill; we're both suffering from anxiety, depression, and CPTSD. We also have a dog and a cat with us. I just lost my job because of the instability of our situation. Mom gets Social Security, and we're trying to get on SNAP; that covers a lot of our expenses, but living in a hotel is not cheap. We're barely keeping our heads above water.
When we can't quite scrape by, which is often, I will use this post to ask for help. If you don't want to see it, ask and I'll create a tag for you to blacklist. I don't want to bother anyone. I'm just doing what I have to do for my family. One day, I'll be able to delete this post, and I will pay forward every bit of kindness.
PP: emeraldpleiades16
CA: $paradoxicalfrog
Ven: JessicaATaylor517
This is for Monday, 01/19. Checkout is at 11:00 AM EST, at which point I must pay or get myself, our pets, and our possessions out of the room.
My mom is in the hospital with the flu. I have it, too. I feel absolutely abysmal, and I should not be leaving this room, let alone hauling bags and then sitting out in the lobby with my germs. I really really really need to rest and recover. Please help if you can, so that I don't get worse or infect anyone else.
$0/$75
Tomorrow has become today.
It's currently 8:00 AM EST. I have to pay or leave in three hours.
I still feel like crap. Please help. 🫠
9:00: Two hours left. Please!
It is 10:00. Packing up the room.
Data compiled by news non-profit the Trace shows 14 firearm incidents and more uses of force cases
The Trace is tracking gun incidents connected to Trump’s immigration crackdown. Know of one? Please be in touch.
please stay safe, friends. tfg (or Miller, or both?) is SALIVATING for reasons to invoke the Insurrection Act.
i think this is where National Guard can be summoned by state government, to guard each state of the nation? that might be helpful.
🧊 has no vetting process, no background check. the other day an agent pointed a gun in a child's face and basically said "stop crying or i'll give you something to cry about". this is not a person who is in control of their emotions, this is not a person who should be allowed impunity and firearms. NOT TO MENTION, ./gestures at everything.
i'm posting this on Shabbat to boost the reporting links.
SO BEAUTIFUL