♡Silent Plant♡

🤍🍵🤍 she/her psychology student

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Hello beautiful Person! I am glad that you have found my blog <3

#daydreamer

Here is a small impression of my blog:

--> this is first of all a safe place, where you can let everything out.

--> I would like to write here about thoughts that are never expressed, just because they are considered unacceptable in our society.

--> I want to show that it is okay not to be okay, that you can also give your feelings free run.

--> I am ready for new recommendations and you can always give me your thoughts, fears, worries and feelings free run, in the question box.

(Please write me whether I should/post on these answers or not)

~Take care of yourself my love~

{Song of the day <3}

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When you think you have nothing left, you still have the moon, sunsets, your favorite music, paper to write on, warm clothes, new starts and your cute self.

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Discipline is the highest form of self-love.

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All it takes is:

Discipline

Routine

Education

Action

Mentality

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Discipline /noun/

choosing between what you want now and what you want most, the choice is yours

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"I hope you fall in love with being alive. I hope you pick flowers and read books and understand that life is so much more than a Snapchat from a boy you won't remember in a couple of years. I hope you feel pursued. I hope you have the best of friends, and I even hope you get in trouble together. I hope you make fun memories and take too many pictures and scream at the top of your lungs on roller coasters. I hope you swim in the depths of the oceans, and feel the dirt underneath your fingernails when you climb mountains. I hope you feel the joys of genuine laughter, and I hope you know the difference between wisdom and test scores. I hope you understand that you can be anything you want to be, but you have to work hard to get it. I hope you do more than sit around and complain about the things that could change; I hope you are the change. I hope you journal and write every thought down. I hope you learn how to skate, and eat you fruits & vegetables. I hope you treat your body well, and respect your reputation. But I also hope you have fun. In fact, I hope you have unapologetic fun.

Because my love,

I hope you fall in love with being alive."

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"A villain is just a victim whose sfory hasn't been told.,,

-Chris Colfer

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The fears we don't face become our limits.

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If you come from a dysfunctional family, you may have promised yourself something like...

• "I will not end up like my mom."

• "My kids will not feel the way I did growing up."

• "I will never be with someone like my dad."

• "My marriage will be nothing like my parents'."

• "'Il never turn into the kind of parent I had."

• "When I get out, my house will feel like a home."

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Heal before having children so your children don't have to heal from having you as a parent

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Parents cause their kids so much hurt but don't realize how much that pain stays & develops with them & pretty much defines who they become.

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HEALING & LOOKING WITHIN

"What is it that you want?" My Mind asks. "A lot of things," my Heart answers. "But what is it that you really want, really NEED?" "To be happy, fulfilled, powerful!" my Heart exclaims. "How will you become happy?" My mind asks, understanding that my Heart is unsure. "I don't know, but what I do know is that I'll never stop until I get there," my Heart replies. "Have control over me,," my Mind states, "and you will see that what you want and need is within you already."

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I fall in love with souls not faces..

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IT'S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT-

life is rarely ever predictable.

the truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.

that's part of this journey's adventure - to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe - and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.

the secret to life isn't about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather - having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.

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侘寂

Wabi-sabi (Japanese)

the discoverv of beauty in imperfection; the acceptance of the cycle of life and death.