āHELP US PREVENT HOMELESSNESSā
Hello everyone, Iām back with a more up to date post about whatās been going on since this post.
First off: Thank you to everyone who had donated, reached out, shared this post and helped IRL. Itās meant the world to us!
Unfortunately, this post is a mixed bag of news. So, letās start with the positive.
Julesās Cancer is in complete remission!! Nothing showed on their PET CT Scan they got at the end of October! Now they just have to go in for check ups every few months, get their feeding tube removed and their port! They are back to work and doing great! Weāre very grateful this is how this story ended. It couldnāt have been possible without all of you.
As for myself... My surgery went well. Despite the bumps that happened. I ended up having to have more tissue and organs removed than expected. Cervix, Uterus that had a ton of Adenomyosis and Fibroids, Fallopian Tubes, Necrotic Ovaries, 20 Spots of Endometriosis, and a Large Umbilical Endometriosis Tumor. My surgery lasted longer than expected and my healing is going to take 8 to 12 weeks verses the 4 we expected.
I am currently waiting on pathology reports to see if anything was cancerous. I was a high risk case so they sent everything in for biopsy. My Doctor saved my life and made the right choice in making sure this surgery happened sooner rather than later.
But, it seems as we were finally seeing some light ā something else is testing us in a big way.
Remember the house situation from last year?
Well, despite our best efforts it seems we are back to square one. I want to make this clear: This is no ones fault. It is all legal technicality. My aunt has done her best, but she canāt even pull from the equity to gift us without the courts interjecting. Sheās tried. And due to the nature of it I am legally not allowed to speak much more on the situation. Letās just say a life lesson was learned: Never get private student loans. EVER.
Meaning: Weāll be homeless without extra help. We have a plan to get out of this house and into another place of living, but we need to raise as much money as possible for moving costs.
This is quite a blow considering Jules just beat cancer and I myself am healing from a major surgery. The worst part is we donāt know when weāll be booted out ā just that we will be and soon. Thereās nothing we can do weāve exhausted all resources that we possibly could.
Iām currently fighting disability in order to get my checks and time off approved. Weāre down a paycheck and the money raised from this summer went into medical debt and equipment for Jules. Cancer is an expensive disease. From drip tubes to special care items to medication and medical bills we are drained.
Jules and my brother Stephen are doing as much over time as they can stand to earn extra money. And if I could I would be back at work. Weāve also pulled from certain savings accounts as well to get this ball rolling. But, since weāre still having to pay the bills in this place until the time comes that we get booted ā itās not quite enough.
We are in dire straights and anything will help us. Please help us keep a roof over our head! We are scared and not sure what else to do.
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