The right question. Again. Just doodling around and letting things happen. Itâs fun. Like automatic drawing/writing ! I like the black cat. #pascalcampion
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The right question. Again. Just doodling around and letting things happen. Itâs fun. Like automatic drawing/writing ! I like the black cat. #pascalcampion
The February updates to the Queer SFF Database are here! New entries include:
The Lifeline Signal by RoAnna Sylver
Gideon the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
A Promise Broken by Lynn E. OâConnacht
No More Heroes by Michelle Kan
Smoke Signals by Meredith Katz
Steel Crow Saga by Paul Krueger
The Cloud Roads by Martha Wells
Pet by Akwaeke Emezi
Moonshine by Jasmine Gower
Iâve currently got 170 entries in the database, 75 scheduled to be added, and 175 books still in draft. Donât let anyone ever tell you that queer sci-fi and fantasy books donât exist!
no offense but iâm not about to sit here and let the culture and language of my ancestors disappear off of the face of the earth
i may look white, most of my ancestors may be white, but i refuse to lose sight of my native ancestors and their systematic oppression under colonial powers
blood quantum only seeks to suppress and eliminate native identity from this country, and bitch i donât care if iâm 100% native or 10% native or 1% native, iâm sure as hell going to pay respect to the ancestors that gave up everything they knew just for this country to exist
so hereâs to all my anishinaabe family, and even more, hereâs to all the dinĂ© and miâkmaq and kanien'kehĂĄ:ka and nÄhiyaw and tsalagi and lakÈĂłta families and all the other indigenous peoples of the americas that i could spend hours talking about
much love to you all at the end of this indigenous history month, and hopefully all you people without indigenous ancestors will consider looking into the native languages and cultures of the land we live on because theyâre cool as hell
I keep forgetting that NT people donât do math the same way people with ADHD do it until I try to explain my thought process and get weird looks from people who are like âhow the FUCK did you do that?â
whoops
and for those of you who DONâT know what Iâm talking about Iâll give you an example
42 + 29 = 71
for neurotypical people, they use the method we were all taught in grade school where you add 9 + 2 to get 11 and then move the extra one over to make 4 + 2 + 1 which equals 7 to give you 71
but the way I do it (as many other people with ADHD as Iâve come to find out) is this:
okay so you have 42 + 29. if you take 1 away from 42 and give it to 29 to make it an even 30, you now have 41 + 30 which is an easy 71
or, another problem: 53 + 88
round that 88 up to 90 and take the two from 53 so you have 51 + 90. but wait I can make this easier. take 10 more from 51 to make 90, 100 and now you have 41 + 100 which equals 141
itâs justâŠso much faster? and makes so much more sense to me
also? the math teachers that always took off points for kids not showing their work?
fucking HATED that. as someone who could get from point A to point D in my head in a split second, I felt like showing my work was often a waste of time when sometimes it felt like I just automatically knew the answer
or, if I did put down my work, I went through a process that wasnât taught and would get points reduced anyway because it wasnât the way we were taught just because my brain worked differently than the rest of the class. my answer was always right. they just didnât like how I got it
never did like that muchÂ
also, this is another way of doing it that I just saw on facebook that Iâve also done before
because I do things to that extent too
so if you give me something like 37 + 45 Iâll go âwell 30 + 40 is 70 and 7 + 5 is 12 so 70 + 12 is 82âł
thereâs justâŠso many ways to do math that make more sense than the way I was taught
this post got a lot more popular than I was expecting wow
Iâve seen some people reblogging this saying they donât have adhd but have autism and yes! People with autism do this too! Iâve learned that a lot of people with adhd and/or autism do things that overlap and this is one of them!
iâm sorry but these are the only valid tags on this post
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literally throwing hands with anyone who has dumb shit to say about asians at this point
heads up for anyone interested in this movie
so i started a new book
*drags hands down face*
Not all of us were fucked up by our parents. Many of us had loving parents who were unable to shield us from fucked up school systems which we spent 7 hours of our days from ages 6-18. Â
Our culture really romanticises the idea of a brooding misunderstood loner whoâs an asshole to everyone but secretly has a heart of gold, so itâs frighteningly easy to meet a guy who treats everyone around him badly and believe without evidence that he has a heart of gold.Â
Donât fall for it.
And a lapse in cruelty is not evidence of kindness.
âA lapse in cruelty is not evidence of kindnessâ Bolded because that line is so incredibly important
It just kills me when writers create franchises where like 95% of the speaking roles are male, then get morally offended that all of the popular ships are gay. Itâs like, what did they expect?
#friendly reminder that I once put my statistics degree to good use and did some calculations about ship ratios#and yes considering the gender ratios of characters#the prevalence of gay ships is completely predictable (via sarahtonin42)
I feel this is something that does often get overlooked in slash shipping, especially in articles that try to âexplainâ the phenomena. No matter the show, movie or book, people are going to ship. When everyone is a dude and the well written relationships are all dudes, of course weâre gonna go for romance among the dudes because we have no other options.
Totally.
A lot of analyses propose that the overwhelming predominance of male/male ships over female/female and female/male ships in fandom reflects an unhealthy fetishisation of male homosexuality and a deep-seated self-hatred on the part of women in fandom. While itâs true that many fandoms certainly have issues gender-wise, that sort of analysis willfully overlooks a rather more obvious culprit.
Suppose, for the sake of argument, that we have a hypothetical media franchise with twelve recurring speaking roles, nine of which are male and three of which are female.
(Note that this is actually a bit better than average representaton-wise - female representation in popular media franchises is typicaly well below the 25% contemplated here.)
Assuming that any character can be shipped with any other without regard for age, gender, social position or prior relationship - and for simplicity excluding cloning, time travel and other âselfcestâ-enabling scenarios - this yields the following (non-polyamorous) possibilities:
Possible F/F ships: 3 Possible F/M ships: 27 Possible M/M ships: 36
TOTAL POSSIBLE SHIPS: 66
Thus, assuming - again, for the sake of simplicity - that every possible ship is about equally likely to appeal to any given fan, weâd reasonably expect about (36/66) = 55% of all shipping-related media to feature M/M pairings. No particular prejudice in favour of male characters and/or against female characters is necessary for us to get there.
The point is this: before we can conclude that representation in shipping is being skewed by fan prejudice, we have to ask how skewed it would be even in the absence of any particular prejudice on the part of the fans. Or, to put it another way, we have to ask ourselves: are we criticising women in fandom - and letâs be honest here, this type of criticism is almost exclusively directed at women - for creating a representation problem, or are we merely criticising them for failing to correct an existing one?
YES YES YES HOLY SHIT YES FUCKING THANK YOU!
Also food for thought: the obvious correction to a lack of non-male representation in a story is to add more non-males. Female Original Characters are often decried as self-insertion or Mary Sues, particular if romance or sex is a primary focus.
I really appreciate when tumblr commentary is of the quality I might see at an academic conference. No joke.
This doesnât even account  for the disparity in the amount of screen time/dialogue male characters to get in comparison to female characters, and how much time other characters spend talking about male characters even when they arenât onscreen. This all leads to male characters ending up more fully developed, and more nuanced than female characters. The more an audience feels like they know a character, the more likely an audience is to care about a character. More network television writers are men. Male writers tend to understand men better than women, statistically speaking. Female characters are more likely to be written by men who donât understand women vary well.Â
But itâs easier to blame the collateral damage than solve the root problem.
Yay, mathy arguments. :)
This is certainly one large factor in the amount of M/M slash out there, and the first reason that occurred to me when I first got into fandom (I donât think itâs the sole reason, but I think itâs a bigger one than some people in the Why So Much Slash debate give our credit for). And nice point about adding female OCs.
In some of my shipping-related stats, I found that shows with more major female characters lead to more femslash (also more het). Â (e.g. femslash in female-heavy media; femslash deep dive) Iâve never actually tried to do an analysis to pin down how much of fandomâs M/M preference is explained by the predominance of male characters in the source media, but Iâm periodically tempted to try to do so.
All great points. Another thing I notice is that many shows are built around the idea that the team or the partner is the most important thing in the universe. Watch any buddy cop show, and half of the episodes have a character on a date that is inevitably interrupted because The Job comes first⊠except âThe Jobâ actually means âMy Partnerâ.
When itâs a male-female buddy show, all of the failed relationships are usually, canonically, because the leads belong together. (Look at early Bones: she dates that guy who is his old friend and clearly a stand-in for him. They break up because *coughcoughhandwave*. That stuff happens constantly.) Male-male buddy shows write the central relationship the exact same way except that they expect us to read it as platonic.
Long before it becomes canon, the potential ship of Mulder/Scully or Booth/Bones or whatever lead male/female couple consumes the fandom. Itâs not about the genders involved. Rizzoli/Isles was like this too.
If canon tells us that no other relationship has ever measured up to this one, why should we keep them apart? Donât like slash of your shows, prissy writers? Then stop writing all of your leads locked in epic One True Love romance novel relationships with their same-sex coworkers. Give them warm, funny, interesting love interests, not cardboard cutoutsâŠ
And then we will ship an OT3.
Iâm going to bring up (invent?) the concept of subjectification.
As in, people gravitate to the characters given the most depth, complexity, and satisfying interactions for their shipping needs, because those characters are most human, and we want the realest characters to play with.
In a lot of media, the most depth gets handed to male characters.
And, oftentimes, even when the screentime and depth and interactions are granted equally well to female characters, there can be a level of, for lack of a better word, dis-authenticity to those female characters: they are pared down, washed out, or otherwise made slightly less themselves than they could be, in the interest of making them decorative, or likeable, or âgood,â or keeping them from upstaging or emasculating their male companions, or just that the writer whose job it is to write them doesnât know how to write women the way they write men.
And you get the characterization equivalent of that comparison chart where so many animated female characters have the same facial features because the animators and designers are so worried about not letting them be ugly.
When you have a group thatâs allowed to be themselves, warts and all, and another group that has to be decorative at all costs, the impression given on some level is that the decorative quality is making up for a shortcoming. That they wouldnât be enough in their own right.
And sometimes that cost is authenticity. The interesting, striking, awe-inspiring, bold and glorious unapologetic selfhood that draws the viewer most particularly to those characters who are unapologetic in their particular existence, standing clear of the generic and bland and unchallenging âsafeâ appearances.
It is authenticity, not beauty, which powers subjectification. The love for a character, not because they are perfect, but because they are them.
They can be pretty, sure. They can be sweet. But being pretty and sweet is not a replacement, and too many female characters have been written by writers who think it is, while the interestâin appearance, in personality, in interactions, in plot developmentâgoes to the men.
And when that happens, well. Surprise, surprise, thatâs where the shipping goes.
Yeah I donât really ship but I do write a fair amount of fanfic, and in most franchises working with the female characters is a chore.
You have to do so much of the work yourself, because the canon left them unfinished, with huge gaps or unexplored contradictions that you have to somehow resolve. Every female character you decide to integrate into your fanwork in some major role constitutes an undertaking in her own right as you patch together an understanding of her sufficient to model a consistent set of reactions and priorities &c.
The dudes just get handed to you. Even the ones whose canon is a mess have properly developed character cores.
That you donât have to unearth and piece together like some sort of volunteer archeologist coming up with theories way more complex than the available artifacts truly support.
Guys read this this is an amazing breakdown of it
ALWAYS reblog.
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If youâre like sleep spooning a centaur and they roll over in bed do you just die
sleep on her back, then youâll just roll off if she shifts
i dont follow
okay but what if you had a special bed insteadÂ
nothing says commitment like buying a new mattress
Centaur Comfort Mattressâą: The Horse Hole Keeps Your Bones Safe
Iâm honestly so glad Tumblr discusses things like âHow can I comfortably sleep with a centaur?â and âWhat kind of chairs would dragons have?â
there are some internet friends where eventually you start calling them by their real name and then thereâs times where its like nah son your name is crispy forever
you know whatâs a good feeling? a real good feeling?
when sunbeams do this.
that is all.
economists really took the divine right of kings and turned it into billionaire CEOs
âitâs kinda fucked up to reject the business practices of jeff bezos when he rightfully earned his position under capitalismâ
âAbout twenty years ago, I attended a lecture by a Harvard professor who talked about how corporations operate like modern-day kingdoms. At one time, she said, people believed kings ruled by divine right, and today we seem to believe the same thing about corporations. Toward the end, she asked, âDo you know what it is that allowed people to let go of, overcome, and reject the notion of the divine right of kings?â I held my breath and got ready to take some notes. Her answer: âThey just stopped believing in it.â
- Frances Moore Lappé
i don't know what writer needs to hear this, but
if you've just read a bunch of your own works and noticed some similarities between all of them,
like odd (but grammatically correct) placement of commas,
or scarcely any contraction words,
or conversely a fuck ton of contraction words,
or long sentences full of semicolons and hyphens and exquisite (but not purple) prose,
or paragraphs and sentences that are straight and to the point, telling you in a blunt but sufficiently descriptive manner exactly what's happening,
that's not a bad habit you need to break.
nor is it a sign of amateur writing.
that's your style.
sob story upcoming:
it took me a long, long time to realize that no, my writing wasn't full of repetitive phrasing, it wasn't overly pretentious/eloquent, and my frequent use of semicolons wasn't anything like a bad habit.
i had found my writing voice.
and instead of being proud, i thought it was something much different, something in need of fixing, because kurt mcfucking vonnegut told me semicolons were transvestite hermaphrodites.
don't dismiss your voice as a bad habit. don't make my mistake. and for the love of god, don't take all that writing advice telling you "anything that differs from these stupidass rules i made up is bad writing" to heart. please.