sunflower seeds

Formerly combeelegend. F 24, likes fantasy and naturey and shoujoy things c:

[queenpalms]

[humancomputer-blog1]

If you need me I’ll be in the bath watching lava on my television

[cloudfreed]

“sigh…. this extremely hot water will have to do”

[6ilit-deactivated20250716]

Nobody is immune to the neck kiss

[a-well-meaning-goat-deactivated]

Yeah? And? Coward.

[drlangdons]

[alexagent21]

I really wish there was a typo here lol

[alibrightshaw]

first level evocation: 1d8 + spellcasting modifier 

[hempkitty]

me after every conversation: why the fuck did i say that

[satanhaus-deactivated20220217]

yo does anyone else feel CONSTANTLY guilty? like you’ve always done something wrong but you don’t know what it is?

[why-am-i-even-on-here]

Yes, and I’ve spoken to my therapist about it, who offered an explanation:

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

People for whom guilt is the default emotional response are also more likely to have low self-esteem, doubt their own experiences, and experience impostor syndrome. So, watch out for that too guys

[textsfromtheborderline]

[jadorexjaii]

Oh okay

[amynchan]

It’s… in words…

[thecollectibles]

Inktober 2019 - Dark Souls/Bloodborne/Sekiro by Raquel Cornejo

[biglawbear]

[sandersstudies]

You CANNOT serve from an empty vessel but go off I guess

[i-have-n0-idea-what-im-d0ing-de]

OP what does this mean?

[sandersstudies]

When your friends are hungry, you cannot serve them from an empty breadbasket, no matter how good your intentions. When they're thirsty, you cannot serve them from an empty pitcher, no matter the effort you put in.

We have to stock ourselves with good things before we are able to give them away, and if we are too exhausted to make bread, we must rest before we can make it to serve our friends. If we are too hungry to serve, we must eat some bread ourselves first.

It's a metaphor for emotional exhaustion. When we wear ourselves down it makes it difficult or impossible to help the people around us, and all the effort and good intentions in the world can't make up for the fact that our vessels are empty. It's hard to not want to serve when our friends are in trouble, but trying to serve from an empty vessel often leaves both of you floundering.

On the contrary, when we care for ourselves and are kind to our body and mind, we are full vessels, and serving the people around us becomes easier. That's why it's important to take time for ourselves once in a while, to refill ourselves with good things.

[cluegrrl]

In the event of a sudden pressure change, put on your own oxygen mask before helping a companion with theirs if needed.

[ailithnight]

I have never seen this concept so perfectly and eloquently articulated.

You cannot serve from an empty vessel.

[bakwaaas]

Maturity is realising that other people are not mind readers, even those who love you. It’s on you to reach out, talk about how you feel, and to explain yourself. ​Everybody is busy living their own lives and is caught up in their own issues & problems, amidst all that you can’t expect them to magically be in tune with your every need and emotion. Communicate.

[twoofcups]

gordon ramsey: is the food good here?

underpaid server: 

[b0ggyb1tch]

[dadmech]

[twinky-dinky-doo]

[writing-prompt-s]

From a young age, you realized the mirrors never showed your reflection; they showed you how you’ll look in a month. One day, your reflection is gone.

[foxoftheasterisk]

“Huh, I guess I am gonna go through with it.”

“What?” calls my vampire girlfriend from the other room.

“Tell you later,” I say.

[pussyhaver-deactivated20231126]

Its time to let trans butches have complicated relationships with gender just like all other butches

[closet-keys]

you cannot look at any behavior in a power-neutral context, because we do not live in a power neutral world. an action can be abusive or oppressive in one context and be self-defensive or liberatory in another, and the difference is in the positionality of an actor within a system of control. the question is not: would this action be deemed unethical were my enemy to use it? the question is: does the action serve to perpetuate the extant system of control or to break it down? 

[hxmoerotic]

trans people: we are being attacked and murdered for being trans and can’t go outside without feeling unsafe

cis people: listen i know that’s hard and all but some frustrated teenagers on a blogging site are making jokes about us and i think that’s the real issue we need to focus on here

[thebyrchentwigges]

I don’t know where this came from but I NEEDED it