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[sappho-of-suburbia]

eating a girl out for the first time? as someone with a couple of decades' experience (i started young, ok?), can i offer some advice?

take your time. your aim isn't to make her come as fast as possible, it's to make sure she enjoys every moment. slow down, revel in the process of finding out what she likes.

tell her how beautiful she is, how tempting her cunt looks, how intoxicating it smells, how sweet she tastes. she might be feeling vulnerable, especially if she's inexperienced too - it's your job to make her feel safe and adored.

enjoy the journey - i know you just want to feel your tongue on her clit NOW, but exploring her thighs, working your way slowly to her folds, trailing all the way up her cunt, drinking her juices, letting her feel your breath before she feels your touch...it'll be worth it. for both of you.

learn to read her body with all of your senses. she might be vocal but she might prefer to bite her lip or enjoy being gagged. you don't need to hear her words to know what to do. you'll feel her muscles twitch and relax - learn what it means when she lifts her hips, squirms or sinks into you. she might taste and smell differently when she is close to coming for you. pay close attention to her clit - if you're lucky and you've done a particularly good job, you might see it twitch as she recovers from the perfect orgasm. enjoy it.

you can be vocal though. moan into her. use every sensation you can. light flicks to determined, long, slow licks. blow gently on her wetness. how does she react to your lip piercing? your teeth?

build and add to the experience until she's completely overwhelmed. play with her nipples. run your nails over her skin. lift her legs and spank her.

chances are, she'll get to the point where she really needs you to fuck her. slip your tongue all the way down and inside her. if you can't breathe, you're doing it right. that means you probably won't be able to keep it up for hours, so save this move for when she's right on the edge and you're ready to let her tip over.

if you're especially lucky and she's a squirter, you will get absolutely soaked. enjoy it. show her you're enjoying it. moan into her cunt; she'll come even harder.

if she needs to be fucked harder, slip your fingers inside her cunt and curl them up towards your tongue as it circles her clit. all of her most sensitive nerves will be between your tongue and your fingers. you'll be able to feel every tiny twitch inside her; it's the most beautiful place in the world to be.

when she can truly take no more, stay close to her as you drift away from her cunt. kiss your way up her tummy and her chest, let her taste herself on your lips as you hold her and let her ride out the aftershocks. trail your fingertips over her back. whisper in her ear. tell her everything you loved about eating her out.

[acapelladitty]

are you taking part in no nut november

In this current climate?! Are you fucking insane? The dopamine i'm receiving from ringing the devils doorbell is the only thing stopping my mental health from collapsing into itself like the house at the end of the film Poltergeist. Let's not be silly, anon.

[lankybrunettepartdeux]

[acapelladitty]

HAPPY NOVEMBER 💦

[codotafterdark]

Go Nut November is upon us.

[official-masturb8ion-posts]

Official Monthly Subscription Post

[turnpikeghosts]

saw a sponsored post about knotting. this is the only website

[turnpikeghosts]

the only website

[turnpikeghosts]

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[three--rings]

There’s always a lingering question that I ask myself, which is why do I, a cis bisexual woman, enjoy romance between two men so much?  

There are easy answers, like that it’s just fetishizing.  And like, I find men attractive, yes.  But I also find women attractive.  I don’t have a problem with enjoying het romance, assuming I can find good ones.  I enjoy stories with female characters I can relate to.

But there’s something much deeper at play, IMO.  A friend of mine who is a gender studies professor was the first person to point this out to me, but a lot of women enjoy m/m romance and gay porn because of the lack of women.  It removes a source of pressure and sexism.  Without any women present, you don’t have to constantly evaluate the sexism of their portrayal, or be reminded of negative experiences in your own life.  It allows women to experience romance and especially sexuality without all the baggage that comes with it in our patriarchal society.

This was recently illustrated to me rather dramatically.  I read a recommendation for a het romance.  And it sounded cute, and came highly recommended.  The tropes at play were fun.  Until I read a snippet and realized this was a romance between a woman and her boss.  I had a visceral negative reaction.  

Instantly I’m thinking of sexual harassment stories I’ve read and heard from other women. I’m thinking of how uncomfortable it would be to have your boss develop feelings for you.  How icky the power dynamics would be, etc.  

And then I realized…this wouldn’t bother me if it were two men.  Now, there’s no logical reason for that.  Sexual harassment is just as wrong when its object is a man.  But I know I’ve read fics with a similar premise and never thought about it.  Because when it’s two men I can accept this is just a light romance, a fantasy, meant to be fun and sexy and not to represent the real world.

But I can’t when it’s a het relationship.  There’s too much baggage there.  Too much societal history of abuse.  I can’t relax enough with the premise to enjoy that story.  

Now some people can.  And that’s fine.  And some people are never going to be okay with power imbalances like that regardless of gender.  That’s also fine.  I don’t think having either reaction makes one morally superior.  It’s okay to just enjoy light entertainment for what it is without going into deep analysis.

But it’s much more difficult for me, and I think for many women, to relax and enjoy romantic and sexual stories when they involve female characters.  We’ve been burned too many times by shitty depictions, by shallow role models, by abuse portrayed as romantic.  We have developed a stress response, a trauma response to heterosexual romance.  We are hyper-reactive to a wide variety of triggers in regards to it.   But removing women from the equation makes stories safer for us.  And maybe it shouldn’t?  In an ideal world?  But for many of us, that’s the truth.

[three--rings]

So this post blew up in the last 24 hours, for whatever reason, and I was looking through people’s responses, as you do.  I’m quite moved that so many found it relatable.

But I wanted to highlight one set of tags (via @reallifepotato​ )

Because I AM comfortable with my sexuality and fairly comfortable with my body, but still, this resonates so hard as someone who has always been overweight.  The amount that our society teaches women to constantly compare ourselves, almost always negatively with every other woman out there, can utterly ruin our enjoyment of this kind of thing.  Like how many times have you tried to watch a mainstream romantic comedy where some utterly gorgeous actress is bemoaning that she can’t get a date, or WORSE is made out to be less than attractive.  And you look at her and go…but she’s fucking perfect?  And you just want to puke.  

But with m/m romance you can put yourself in the place of either character and…not compare yourself.  You can enjoy a character being attractive without feeling bad about yourself, which is REALLY HARD to do for any woman in our fucked up culture.  

[barblaz-arts]

If we don't get shots like these in season 2--

(full pics below. CW Sexual Content)

[serial777killers]

love language

[futchling]

The wrist bites aren't safe and you shouldn't do them there. I had numbness in my hand for a month after a puppygirl latched too hard on my wrist, please be aware of the anatomy where you bite! Go higher up in the meat of the forearm, it feels better too!

[benihana-circumcision]

posts from wildlife experts

[futchling]

Fwiw I enjoy recreationally hurting women in ways that are both impermanent and permanently scarring alike, but an important part of risk-awareness in kink is recognizing that "common" acts like impact and biting can cause unintended injury and temporary or permanent loss of function if you aren't safe in your play. Refer to biting and impact maps of the human body, use test bites, have safety and care protocols figured out, be prepared to shut shit down as a pain top if you fuck up and the situation calls for immediate redress and harm reduction.

In the above instance the nerves of my hand/wrist were compressed by bites. In general, avoid joints and their associated tendons and ligaments, because that is where nerves are easiest to compress + damaged ligamenture really hurts and is easy to fuck up itself, too, with too-aggrssive biting in the wrong area.

Shoulders are usually meaty enough to take it without nerve compression, but you should still be careful around the connective tissues there. Do not bite the back of the leg at, just above, or just below the knee, I give 3 inches on either side for safety. Do not bite the wrist or within 3 inches of it. Do not bite the elbow, when you bite the forearm try to have it offset from the visible vascular structures that run through your elbow (bite to the side). Remember that your teeth are sharp and your jaw is powerful and if you tried, you could kill someone with them.

My favorite places to safely bite very fucking hard are the front of the thigh, the chest area, the ribs, meat of the arms but away from the elbow and wrists, meaty parts of the shoulder and upper back, hips and tummy, etc. lots of great places, be safe and have fun you fucking freaks

[benihana-circumcision]

imagining tgirl david attenborough saying all this in a bulldog harness and a pith helm and NOTHING ELSE

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

adding onto this, there are certain areas you don't want to hit when doing impact play. many of them are already mentioned above, like the wrists, knees, and other joints, but i think a diagram will also be helpful (from this article)

and if you're doing rope bondage then this article from ropestudy goes over where certain nerves are and what to avoid - again, joints are generally a no-go and meatier parts of the body tend to be safer.

be safe with kink and dont forget aftercare!

[sophie-ladder]

ADULT CONTENT SELLING RESTRICTIONS

adult content creators, I maintain this spreadsheet cross-referencing commonly banned kinks and different adult selling sites

[submissivefeminist]

Sophie makes amazing resources for SWers and this is one of my favorites. Please reblog her work and spread the resource to content creators who need them!

[rosalarian]

All these restrictions make me so sad. I miss the old internet.

[sapphling]

contrary to popular belief the rarity of good butch4butch porn is less influenced by a straight male consumer's desire for normatively feminine stars in lesbian pornography and more due to the fact that when two butches fuck we produce a looney tunes-style dust cloud which lasts for several minutes of punch and bite sound effects until the lesser butch is tossed out of the cloud with x-eyes and a big circle of stars over their head

[urhokarila]

Jesus christ, I wish to just one day be this pinnacle of wit, horniness, and sacrilege.

[b00bologist-deactivated20260104]

my wife, upon learning that pubes can be straight: Thats not bush,,, thats just grass

[sabertoothwalrus]

[normal-horoscopes]

THIS IS WHAT GOOD PUSSY SOUNDS LIKE: [GEIGER COUNTER GOES WILD]

[rosswoodpark]

I'm going to kill you with a gun

[catmask]

build a bear? yeah i give my boyfriend his t shots i know how to build a bear

[catmask]

[animentality]

[squiggalaimon]

Union strong Tony the Tiger is here for YOU! 💪🐯💦

"Spicy" variants and more under the cut:

I managed to get 101 variants between text/textless and all the bits combos, including trans/nonbinary ones (hope that's okay, people seemed to want them and I'm happy to oblige!). Available NOW for all five US dollarbucks and up patrons at:

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If I can get a bunch of new patrons this month, I'll make a SPICY version of the Basil pinup for y'all sometime soon. 👀 lol And yes, I am still in my J. C. Leyendecker study/homage phase. Here's the piece that Tony is based off of:

[squiggalaimon]

Did I draw a furry bait pinup of Basil of Baker Street from The Great Mouse Detective? Yes. 👀 Is he doing a suggestive J. C. Leyendecker cheesecake pose featuring sock garters? Also yes. Do I regret this? Yes, unless more people go buy the print of it:

Basil Pinup 4" x 6" Mini Print - Eevachu's Ko-fi Shop

A J.C. Leyendecker inspired pinup of the famed mouse sleuth! If you're into that. Or if you're not and want to torture your friends with it

[squiggalaimon]

The union cums with great benefits, including a gym membership! 🎾🎾

[agnesandhilda]

destigmatizing periods isn’t enough. I need to eroticize them

[agnesandhilda]

deafening silence from the “I love blood & guts and the taboo” website. is this not a safe space suddenly