women should get even more childless

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women should get even more childless
it's crazy how once you notice how literally everything centres men all the time you will never be able to enjoy anything properly ever again
i love you ambiguous endings i love you pyrrhic victories i love you tragedy masquerading as a happy ending i love you characters who are living and dead at the same time i love you cognitive dissonance i love you existential death
ladies⌠has anyone ever told you itâs okay to be feminine 𩷠iâm sure no one has ever ever ever reinforced this deeply held secret, thatâs itâs okay for you to be feminine. 𩷠i know the world totally tries to tell you that you have to be manly and masculine and grow your body hair and eat as much as you want and get strong and stand up for yourself and make waves and take up space and show your bare face and show your anger. but itâs okay to do the exact opposite actually. 𩷠itâs okay to shrink yourself down to the exact same mold every other woman is expected to conform to. 𩷠did you know that itâs okay to be feminine. 𩷠did you know itâs okay to be feminine. 𩷠did you know itâs okay to be feminine. 𩷠has anyone ever told you itâs okay to be feminine. 𩷠will you be feminine. 𩷠will you be feminine. 𩷠will you be feminine. 𩷠will you just be feminine already. đЎđЎđЎ
Being a flop changed my life. The world is not my oyster, I am glowing. I walked into a pole this morning. There's very little I wouldn't do for $1,000
they used to make smackable technology. you used to be able to hit your tv when it didn't work good.
It just shifted to spanking your puppyâs ass, to make them take that thick knot. Like the good little play thing they are.
i don't really think it's like that at all
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I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?
Don't become a housewife.
And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure youâre legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partnerâs assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.
If your spouse fights you on any of this, then donât quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.
also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. donât risk thinking âheâs just stressed, itâll get better when the baby comesâ because it wonât. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can
Jerry Seinfeld says that you could never do Seinfeld today but one time when I was really high I fell asleep and dreamed a new episode where Jerry came out of the closet as a trans woman and Elaine wanted to be supportive so she gifted Jerry a dress that she didn't really like but when Jerry wore the dress out she got tons of compliments and Elaine gets super pissed about it because she never got any compliments when she wore it but couldn't say anything because she didn't want anyone to call her a fake ally.
you're just mad because you're hungry and tired and your legs hurt and you head hurts and you're too hot and you have depression
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people on here who have been on 10-15+ years like myself...i don't know how they claim that there were never any Black bloggers on here, or that it was always such a white website. trudy gradientlair was on here. thisiswhiteprivilege was on here. there was a feminist citation project sara ahmed was involved in on here. there was someone on here whose username was wretchedoftheearth and that was how i learned who fanon was when i was 12, by googling those words. tumblr was the only place i knew i could go to get accurate & compassionate info about what happened to trayvon martin, when everyone around me irl was rabidly racist. the amount of reportage and scholarship that happened on here before the first big wave of bans was so huge and so much has been lost. where were you when it was happening??? why weren't you paying attention??
PDF | We, Moya Bailey and Trudy aka @thetrudz, had significant roles in the creation and proliferation of the term misogynoir. Misogynoir de
âTrudy: âMisogynoirâ as a term and concept experienced what I think of as four distinct phases of public awareness. There was the initial relatively unknown phase, primarily 2010â2013 where only a small group of people, primarily Black women, knew of the concept and wrote about it, including Moyaâs original work, of course (Trudy 2014). During this time, 2012 to be exact, is when I started developing the foundation for how this word is understood and applied across contexts today. In 2013â2014 was the pushback phase where people began to push back on the term because it has mixed root word origins; however, âmisogynoirâ is not the only word that exists like this; portmanteaus exist. This pushback occurred 3primarily on Tumblr, a space where a lot of Black women develop theory that is often mocked at first, plagiarized second, and absorbed into the mainstream last, often where the origi-nators are erased altogether. This pushback itself reflects misogynoir, as people questioned the intelligence and the validity of a concept that centers how Black women experience misogyny. In 2014â2015 was the mainstream entry phase where the word began to really be used outside of primarily Tumblr and small appearances in the academe and started to appear in articles in indie and mainstream publications that mostly do not cite Moya or myself. Or, if they name Moyaâs coinage, they do not cite my work that is used to support such articles. The term was added to Wikipedia, and produced several pages of Google search results during this phase. In 2015 through the present, the term has appeared in major newspapers, is used in conversation and hashtags on Twitter, generates over 5,000 results on Instagram and has general public exposure, at least in academic, media and social media spaces. The word has spread like flames through conversation, media attention, and academic scholarship, but even so, this fire would not be possible without the initial spark nor the stoking over time through theorizing and development.â
Trudy of GradientLair was the woman who coined âtransmisogynoirâ, herself. Tumblrâs vested interest in erasing feminist scholarship runs deep and reflects both cultural and administrative issues.
Sometimes fiction doesnât have a moral to the story. Sometimes fiction points at something and goes âEver thought about THAT???â And you look at what itâs pointing at for a bit.
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''female'' and "male" as a categories need to stop being used in a medical context.
we do not need to correct or expand how ''female sex'' and "male sex" is defined. we need to decouple all physical traits from their sexgender categorization.
when people are faced with the artificiality of "sex," many people fail to actually deconstruct it and instead covertly maintain their belief in a binary by invoking a spectrum model instead.
"sex isn't binary, it's a spectrum" is not accurate, and it does not constitute deconstruction of sex. this conceptual model envisions sex as a sliding scale between two "real" sexes at either end, where one can either move "towards" male or female.
as eckert explains in intersexualization: the clinic and the colony, this bi-directional spectrum model is foundational to the creation of intersex subjectivity. "intersex" is envisioned as a "mixture" of sexes, which inherently constructs male and female as "pure" and anything outside of them as "impure." the intersex body is envisioned as inherently more complicated or complex than the "pure female" and "pure male" body. and reliance on the fixed points of "male" and "female" on either end of this "spectrum" does the work of naturalizing these categories and, by doing so, necessarily also enshrines the sexgender hierarchy they exist to define.
"Therefore, I do see problems with using it because the references it combines reaffirm the two entities, which are supposedly more âpureâ and then merge into the hybrid. The notion of the hybrid in itself implies that there is such a thing as purity, whether it is in relation to identity, gender, body, nationality, ethnicity, or origin in general. Moreover, whenever there is a third (no matter if it is an identity, a body, or a space) the first two are implicit and are thought of and listed according to a specific hierarchy. This hierarchy makes one of the two entities the more dominant, hegemonically more justified, debatably more important part and the second one less influential, less important, and more likely to be disregarded. The Third is always based on a first and a second and these are not free from their hierarchical reference system" (pg 193-194).
to deconstruct "sex" we have to actually do the work of challenging the grouping of traits together within gendered categorization. there is no "male" or "female" or "intersex" body outside of these medical labels being forced upon us.
our bodies have a whole bunch of various characteristics, and we can influence these characteristics through learning how they develop and age over time and what factors influence that development in what ways. some are influenced by overlapping factors and some are not.
some of our characteristics are captured under "sex" (determined to constitute sex, or to be part of this collection of traits associated through sex categorization, or to be imbued with gendered meaning) and others are not.
every new trait that becomes "sexed" leads to less bodily autonomy. "sex" is an expanding naturalization project that captures more and more of our bodies for restriction under sexgender enforcement.
we need to abolish sex, not expand it.
âcanât believe women fought to work!! i donât wanna work!!â women have Been Working they fought to get Paid you know that right ?