gregor the overlander

multifandom tori - 22 - she/her

[ceruleanheaven]

[looking at people younger than me] you have your whole life ahead of you [looking at people older than me] you have your whole life ahead of you [looking at myself] its over

[t-oriand]

growing up is realizing people will buy shirts that cost $80

[t-oriand]

threatening to kill myself on work calls to make my coworkers stop asking me things

[projectquotemary]

*skipping stones across an artificial lake the Eridians made Grace*

Grace: This is nice.

Rocky, who does not understand this Earth activity: Take that you fucking lake.

[sreppub]

dick’s apartment has a never ending tim infestation

sometimes there’s more

[steddiebbang]

⚓️STEDDIE BANG 2026: SCHEDULE 🦇

Happy 2026!

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Happy creating!

-SBB '26 Mods

[thealogie]

whatever happens it’s so important that we’re funny about it. Above all else commit to the bit

[t-oriand]

i react to people announcing that they use AI like they said a slur in front of me

[t-oriand]

when i say my relationship is freak for freak, i mean he’s this guy on the left and im the guy on the right. equal/opposite freak if you will

[juniper-petunia]

they should make a version of socializing that doesn’t make you feel like you’re still the weird 12 year old kid that doesn’t know why she’s not normal like the other kids

[sapphling]

they should invent a desire to be wanted that doesn't feel grotesque and perverse

[lastoneout]

Sorry we really went from free the nipple, take back the night, slut walks, and ending gender/sex segregation in sports being fucking milquetoast feminism 101 concepts to fucking girl dinner and "I just worry about fairness if we let trans girls play against cis ones" and "it was right of that woman to call the cops on a black man for existing near here in public during the day time because men are all violent monsters" and "radical feminism isn't transphobic we just need to kill all men including trans ones those oppressive traitors" and I will legit never be able to be normal about it. What the FUCK happened. I'd say I wonder what the feminists of my youth would say about this but I'm one and lemme tell ya I want to throw up. Go fucking read bell hooks or do something else useful please because all of this learned helplessness, gender essentialism, and transphobia dressed up as feminism is actively holding us back.

[t-oriand]

the guy that i’m talking to willingly read the underland chronicles and references it to me all the time now,, i’ve literally tried to get everybody i know to read these books and no one ever has. freaking out

[t-oriand]

btw he’s now aggressively recommending the books to people at bars i’m worried im in love with him

[lilacsandlillies]

Funniest part about Robin Jason canonically going to heaven is that it implies either 1) Jason didn’t kill Felipe and Bruce completely blew up their relationship for no reason or 2) you’re allowed in heaven after killing someone as long as that someone really deserved it, which would then imply that heaven itself is on Jason’s side in the Jason vs Bruce conflict.

[sang-i-fetge]

[depsidase]

[dandelionsresilience]

Just gonna drop these here as a starting point :)

How to identify, and then deal with, your emotions

Emotional regulation skills

Conflict resolution skills

Creating and enforcing boundaries

Dialectical Behavioural Therapy skills

Emotional intelligence ideals to aim for

Axes of self-care/wellbeing

Self-care self-evaluation (find out where you’re starting)

How to make a self-care checklist

How to start a self-care habit

Reparenting resources

Crash Course Psychology

KhanAcademy: Understanding the Self and Society (some units more relevant than others)

Emotional education activities for children and teens

Social-Emotional Learning activities for kids (information can be adapted for adults)

[ash-rigby]

[goldcrescent]

learning the backstories of any of your female relatives always amounts to taking 500 points of psychological damage and wondering if the world is irredeemably evil