i feel like some people dont realize what actually means to be hight support disabled person it frustates me so much that people think that needing help to cook when in shutdown equals to needing help with basic and complex things of daily life everyday, always, not just when overwhelmed or under a crisis, some people dont realize whats like not having a choice what it really means whem you cant force yourself. yiu have the abilities and capacity i dont stop pretending we're the same stop talking over me you dont need to relate to every single thing to make your needs valid its not about you