#devaluation

[pastelghotstz]

Devaluing an fp is so much worse than being abandoned by that fp.

I'm such an asshole I genuinely can't blame you for leaving

[i-need-friends-420]

why does crushing on / becoming obsessed with someone always come with devaluing myself like I put ppl on a pedestal do i have bpd guys lmao

[frankyoungestein]

Trump tényleg a Kárpátok Géniuszának Tervét hajtja végre

Bölcs Vezérünk csinálta azt, hogy forintra váltotta az államadósság nagyját és elkezdte elinflálni azt.

Most Trump is leértékeli a dollárt, ezzel reálértéken elinflálja az államadósságot.

Matolcsy kaliberű unorthodox látnokok vezetik az USA gazdaságát.

Itthon az ártott meg, hogy a dilivonaton nincs fék és az evés közben megjött étvágy kinullázta ha lett is bármilyen jó eredménye ennek az inflálásnak.

Jó lenne tudni, hogy van-e ezeknek valami titkos társasága, ahol ezeket a baromságokat kitalálják vagy egyszerűen az incel-illib-zombikeresztény mondakör vezet ilyen ötletekhez?

[poetrybyonur]

Didn’t I tell you? I was nothing but a "happy pill dispenser" to you. As your unhealthy attachment trauma you had with me wore off, you realise now that you never really loved me for who I am. How could you, you never wanted to know me. You simply loved the way I made you feel. You woke up from your dream and the drug wore off. Now you realise it, don’t you? It wasn't truly love you felt for me at all. It was the oxytocin all along. You’ll never be free from your addiction, though. You’ll just have to get your oxytocin elsewhere.

A piece dealing with unhealthy attachment that often comes with trying to love someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, that I wrote last year.

[onadulting]

The Hook-Up Culture at its Finest

Living as a person in their 20s in the 21st century is as hard as it is but the additional pressure of having to go through with the current hook-up culture is a mess. There is this notion that this trend is empowering and something that everyone should try out because it’s a no-strings-attached form of self-pleasure. However, what no one tells you is just how damaging is it for those that do not wish to participate, for they are deemed as lame and prudes, so to speak. I guess to some, this culture is somewhat freeing but most just do it because of the lack of other options, they get swallowed up without the intention of it.

In my “humble” opinion, this sort of trend is a form of devaluing oneself for the sole purpose of sex. Which is very shallow. I am all for sexual liberty if it is done in a respectful, safe, and law-abiding way. But any new trend and social construction comes with consequences. Those consequences, specifically in regards to the hook-up culture, being the insincerity and superficial forms of relationships that come as a result. 

Anyone who shies away from this trend and instead wants for something more substantial is left with little to no options. Instead, this generation relies on rizz and games in order to get in someone’s pants. It has come to the point of not knowing who is being genuine and who has an ulterior motive. It has become so normalised that no one sees an issue with this. It’s a sure destruction of what real romance and love should be- for the bare minimum gets celebrated. Again, one’s value is determined by sex rather than anything else that makes a good human being. But who am I kidding? Personal qualities seem to have no value in this day and age.

Maybe I’m the lame one and the prude. Maybe all I want to do is find a good, loving partner and start a family with them. But I don’t know how that’s meant to happen if this is the reality. There really is no shame in wanting to be a part of the hook-up culture if that’s something that you really want, but please don’t shame others for having different views and forcing them into this trend. 

OA <3

[franknfurterstriangulardinosaur]

i need everyone to understand this. some people are unreliable narrators to their lives. some people lie. some people embellish. some people just perceive things wrong. some people are bias, in fact i think everyone is. some people are bias and think they everything they have done is perfect but also some people think everything they have done is wrong. some people are so guilty, they perceive themselves as the villian. maybe it is true but sometimes it is not. never fully believe information given to you even if there was no positive to them telling you that. some people love the people they have fallen out with. some people still idealise them. some people have devalued them. maybe even some people switch between the two in such a quick manner that it is hard to understand. i hate having to put the disclaimer “i am an unreliable narrator” on top of everything for people just to assume im going to purposefully lie. there is so many other reasons.

[bruisedpeachbaby]

[09-12-21]

[flittermousemoth]