#factive safe

[mtmassivesmorgue]

You dont have to reconnect with all your sourcemates. You don't have to find that one sourcemate that hurt you; you can dislike them as a person and as a character within source, and you don't owe anyone an explanation as to Why.

Even if your exo trauma wasn't "canon" or didn't happen on screen/page. Even if what they did was "out of character" for them.

-Upshur & Volleyball

[the-fictive-haven]

Redoing our intro lol

Hello! We are the fictive haven, also known as simply Haven, a traumagenic (diagnosed) DID system made up mostly of fictives/introjects. Here we post about our lives as a system and our struggles with DID, AuDHD, and OCD as well as (an) unidentified neurological disorder(s).

❤️ Non-traumagenic supporters (endogenic, tulpa, willogenic, etc)

🧡 Alterhuman, nonhuman, and otherkin supporters

💛 Fictive, factive, introject, IRL, objectkin and fictionkin supporters (no roleplaying or KFF on this blog)

💚 LGBTQIA+ supporters

💙 Good faith identities and contradictory labels ally

💜 Little, middle, syskid, and agere/petre supporters

🩷 Advocates for fair treatment of persecutors and "problematic" system members

We are bodily an adult. Minors may interact with care. This means remember you're on an adult's blog and behave yourselves.

DNI sexual/kink/nsfw agere/petre centered blogs. While we respect everyone's right to practice what they wish in private, we also have the right to not be involved in it.

Further info, boundaries and DNI:

Do not interact: anti endos, sysmeds, pro-psych, anti informed self diagnosis, fakeclaimers, syscourse blogs, anti fictive or factive, anti kin, anti neos, persecutor abusers, harmful radqueers or "transIDs", any other ableist groups, racists, "pro life", transmeds, TERFs, LGBTQIA+ phobia, anti good faith IDs, animal and/or child abusers, or supporters of any of these. Stay far away from us or get blocked.

Boundaries;

DM? Yes! Go ahead!

Nicknames? Ask.

Touch? Ask.

Flirting? Situational. Make us uncomfy, get blocked.

That's all for now!

~the fictive haven

[nabbit-unmasked]

Blech, I feel icky from all the shaming and gatekeeping I've seen today.

Another quick reminder that this blog welcomes:

• endos and mixed-origin systems/pluralities/multiplicities

• factkin and factives

• therians/otherkin/fictionkin/etc. who chose their identity

• placekin who are societally controversial places

• fans from any fandom

• identity and pronoun hoarders

• self diagnosis

• mspec gays and lesbians

This does not mean that all of these apply to me. In fact, only 3 of them do (the first, fourth, and seventh). This also does not mean that I exclusively support the groups listed here.

Also, reminder that I also do not have a DNI. Although, I do block accounts I'm uncomfortable with!

[altosys]

shoutout to - "problematic" headmate edition:

shoutout to factives whose source(s) is/are on your/the system's DNI shoutout to faitives who are seen as problematic in all of their sources shoutout to fictives with an obscure source shoutout to eateot songtives and artrojects shoutout to introjects who have sourcemates in the system that they hurt in-source and feel shit about it shoutout to factives of people who died shoutout to ashley graves fictives shoutout to fictives of kokichi ouma, junko enoshima, mikan tsumiki, tsumugi shirogane, monokuma, any of the monobears, etc. shoutout to valentino fictives shoutout to tetragenic headmates shoutout to factives whose source you (and/or the system) hate shoutout to fictives who introjected their source creator and vice versa shoutout to introjects who can handle the body's problems due to their source shoutout to introjects who introjected their (in-source) abuser shoutout to introjects who were abusers in-source shoutout to introjects who have a spinterest and/or hyperfixation on their source(s) shoutout to fictives who are attracted to their source shoutout to factives who are attracted to their source shoutout to introjects with tons of doubles shoutout to introjects with no doubles

and finally: shoutout to systems who don't gatekeep introjects.

[black-salt-cage]

Arcadecore post banners for a Markiplier factive!

quote: “Yes, this blog is owned by a Markiplier factive No, I do not have much mental capacity ~Please be gentle with me~”

ଘ(੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭* ੈ♡‧₊˚ For @bounceycastle!

[mtmassivesmorgue]

Shout out to introjects who don't have any positive memories or associations with their source; shout out to all the introjects who avoid any mention of their source like the plague.

And shout out to those that dont; to everyone that mourns their home, friends and family but has no desire to go back ( maybe you do, I can't say, and thats okay. )

Youre allowed to mourn as much as you need to, as publicly or as privately as you need to.

Youre doing great.

-Jkharvi

[the-fictive-haven]

So I just had my first experience with fully switching out (voluntarily, in a non crisis situation) and... wow. That was easy, actually.

I've always been tethered to the front with anxiety and whatnot but since Surge arrived my anxiety and OCD are noticeably diminished. I was kind of just joking around with one of our Sonics that I was going to take a nap and leave him in charge, but then it actually just. Happened? I took a whole ass hour and a half long nap in the innerworld, Sonic was alone fronting the whole time, and I am just astounded that it's THAT easy to do after all once I trust in my sysmates.

Yeah I'm definitely taking more breaks from now on 😭

-Yami

[the-fictive-haven]

When your system accidentally introjects another system's introject lmao. Well guess I'm here now

-Surge ⚡