shane is kind of great at communicating, like at the all stars he was like i’m getting my man and then shut down every single deflection ilya tried omg and wheedled the truth out of him. iconic.

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shane is kind of great at communicating, like at the all stars he was like i’m getting my man and then shut down every single deflection ilya tried omg and wheedled the truth out of him. iconic.
I love relationships where there’s good communication.
sometimes good communication is all one needs.
to say when you’re not feeling well. To give a quick but honest notice when you need space.
sometimes that’s all someone needs in order to not spiral into depression, or overthink.
me: guys communication is key. you need to talk to people you want to maintain relationships with so you can maintain those relationships!! talk about the comfortable, the uncomfortable, the old, the new, the good, the bad, the regular, the weird!!! talk about it all!!!!!!
also me: what? oh yeah my partner did something that made me really sad snd upset, and they knew it was a sensitive subject for me. what? will i tell them? ha! what!! no way!! no im keeping this to myself until it goes away and i can move on by myself.
Communication is #1
Some people need to realize that you can like hold no hatred or ill will or bad feeling or whatever toward a person or a group of people and have no intention to be rude or hurtful at ALL and can STILL say something that is rude, hurtful, or discriminatory toward that group most likely out of sheer not knowing. And regardless of whether you meant your words to be taken that way or not, you should still own up to their effects and try not to do it again.
Someone telling you how your words or actions made them feel is not immediately them calling you a horrible person who wants to hurt them. (If it was, then that's something different, but it definitely is not always that)
"Only a dynamic democracy with informed citizens can ensure economic fairness and good sense." - Jean Fisher of Wausau