#hyperace

[our-hyperace-experience]

stop misinterpreting, sexualizing, or judging on hypersexual people.

We are struggling.

[the-wilds-system]

Interesting that a lot of who we are, what we believe, and how we identify was something we figured out at 14, but didn't figure out we are hypersexual until 17, and asexual until 19.

Internet exposed us to everything we needed to unpack and understand everything else about ourselves. However, when it came to those two topics specifically, the amount of acephobia even the queer community actively fucked us up more.

I think the way sexuality is forced into asexual people scared us away from the label. We were in spaces where the only ace people we saw were the ones who made acephobic jokes about themselves.

No one is expecting you to actually secretly be super kinky or write amazing smut UNLESS you are ace. So why would a confused sex repulsed kid ever feel safe with that label? It felt like wearing a target.

Most people subconsciously think of sex as being inherently good. They will say ace people are valid as a general statement, but they will never care to work to understand ace people well enough to not be acephobic.

That understanding of sex as inherently positive will end up fucking with hypersexuals too. We heard so many people say that "kink being caused by trauma is a negative stereotype" that we were left under the impression that it couldn't be, and that we were just feeling religious shame or something. Bc literally any negative experience with or view of sex is chaled up to religious shame, and I'm so tired of it.

It's like the whole world gaslighting you, telling you you like it before you have the language to understand why you don't.

[voids-mogai-blog]

Lushsexual

Definition: An asexual identity under the psuedosexual umbrella. Lushsexual individuals experience a false or psuedo-sexual attraction due to hypersexuality, although they do not experience real sexual attraction to any other person

Coined By: Me :3

(NSFW below->)

They may…

• Have the urge to be sexual or enjoy bdsm/kink

• Describe their sexuality as an attraction to sexual activity rather than an attraction to people

• Have little or no preference for their sexual partner OR be extremely picky and unable to find anyone to actually do sexual acts with

• Find people themselves to be a turn off and/or have a hard time enjoying face-to-face sexual acts

• Imagine faceless bodies when fantasizing, but not actual people

• Experience what feels like real sexual attraction right up until the point of actually having sex with a person, then losing that attraction

You can be lushsexual even if you…

• do not have sex

• feel romantic attraction

• experience some rare sexual attraction but are still acespec

• are sex-repulsed (towards the actual act of sex)

• do not enjoy sex but still choose to have it

Who cannot be lushsexual?

• allosexuals

• people who are not hypersexual

[narc-rants]

Me everyday trying to solve the puzzle of why I have so much sex even though I’m asexual and don’t enjoy it and don’t even like people:

My somatic NPD:

[the-silver-sparrow]

So... asexual awareness week?

Given recent discoveries, I thought I'd treat myself to a doodle :]

[3scapethevoid]

Erm- more vampire flags no one asked for woah?

(guys I need to get a better hobby.. and I need to get better about IDs)

1. Hyperrose + aromantic

2. Hyperrose + asexual

I also made uh . These two.

1. Aroace

2. Aroace + hyperrose

Look at my other post for the hyperrose one!

[lunentity]

𓉸✙ hyperace aromantic lesbian ┈ a flag for lesbians who are hyperace & aromantic. this flag is exclusive to any & all lesbians who fall under this category.

[yourfaveis-hyperose]

UDG toko & syo fukawa is hyperace

Toko Fukawa and Genocide Jack from Dangnaronpa are Hyperace!

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