#m-spec positivity

[wildshadowtamer]

and one more time:

you dont need dysphoria to be trans

neopronouns are valid

it/its pronouns are valid

xenogenders & mogai are valid

we are not hurting the trans community

you are, you transmedicalist 

non-binary doesnt mean androgyny

asexual people are lgbtq+

aromantic people are lgbtq+

he/him lesbians exist and are so valid

she/her men exist and are so valid

pronouns do not equal gender

queer has been reclaimed by much of the lgbtq+ community (for instance, i am queer)

fat & BIPOC queer people are so goddamn valid

pansexuals are not biphobic, nor transphobic

bisexuals are not panphobic, nor transphobic

m-spec identities are not -phobic and are completely valid

pedophiles are not lgbtq+

anyone who disagrees can catch these hands

transmeds dont interact ❤

(god, how many times do we have to repeat ourselves?)

[queerpride]

bisexuals of the blade 💜 ⚔️ 🗡

meaning: a solidarity movement made up of bisexuals who support all of our m-spec siblings, whether they’re pan, ply, omni, or beyond!

I’m really tired of following bi positivity blogs only to find out somewhere down the line that they’re part of an exclusionist group called the “battleaxe bis” (anti pansexual/polysexual/omnisexual/any multi-gender-attracted label that’s not ‘bi’), so I thought I’d try spreading a message of support and acceptance instead!

- FAQ -

what makes someone a ‘blade bisexual’?

all you have to do is acknowledge and uplift pan/ply/omni/etc. people!

are there any symbols we can use to signify we’re bi people who support other m-spec orientations?

yes! personally, I’ve been using the following:

sword (of any kind)

double/dual-wielded swords

purple heart

official flag (see above image)

I wholeheartedly support pan/ply/omni/etc. people. what can I do to join?

to show your support, put at least one of the previous symbols somewhere in your bio using emojis!

that’s everything I can think of! if you have any more questions, please don’t hesitate to ask! 🌈

[mysticsnowstorm]

hey, friends! m-spec and nonbinary lesbians and gays are amazing! i love you all!

-signed, a genderfloren lesbian

[thekittyburger]

I need more m-spec solidarity on my dash

im talking pan🤝bi🤝poly🤝omni🤝bin🤝etc

these all broadly overlap but the distinction matters to some people and that’s okay :)

bi is the attraction to two or more genders usually with a preference but not always

pan is the attraction to all genders without a preference and not ’seeing’ gender

poly is the attraction to some but not all genders with or without a preference

omni is the attraction to all genders usually with a preference or not being gender-blind

bin is the attraction to both binary genders with or without a preference

sorry I couldn’t include every m-spec identity but you’re all super valid! These were just the ones I could remember, feel free to comment any other m-spec identities I missed!

[pansapphicpositivity]

Hey, shout-out to the wlw haven't dated women.

Lesbians that haven't had a girlfriend? You're rad, and I hope you find a girl that treats you right!

M-spec women that haven't dated women? Your attraction is still valid!

A-specs who haven't dated women? Wonderful, outstanding, you deserve all the love.

Aro and aroace wlw who've never dated women? YOU ARE SO FUCKING VALID, HOLY SHIT!

And of course, m-spec wlw who have have preferences for genders other than women and have also never dated women? You are still valid and awesome and wlw.

[ace-and-aro-wlw-positivity]

Sexuality can be and is fluid. For m-specs, you might find yourself steadfast in your perception of your orientation, whether it’s being attracted to two or more genders, or someone regardless of said gender. This can also waver in intensity. Some days, I find myself liking everyone except men, or vice versa. The list is honestly endless. The only thing that matters is how you feel and you being comfortable in your identity.

That, and the fact where you might be like me, and you’re bi yourself

[queerpride]

I’m extremely happy for lesbians who used to identify as bi! I hope you’re comfortable in your own skin now that you feel free enough to wear a label that fits you better.

you know what else? I’m really proud of bi people who used to identify as lesbians. we’re happy to welcome you into our letter 💜

and while we’re at it--bi people who also use the pan, ply, omni, gay, and/or lesbian labels are incredibly brave. I want you to know that you deserve to feel safe in our community, no matter what.

[wildshadowtamer]

friendly reminder that all m-spec identites are valid! none of them are transphobic, biphobic, panphobic, or any other phobic! i hope the m-spec person reading this has a great day!

(for those who dont know, m-spec stands for multi spectrum, meaning attracted to multiple genders. Such as Bisexual, Pansexual, Polysexual, Omnisexual, Trisexual, Quadsexual, and more!)