Trigger warning: dysphoria, hrt advice, medical detransition
Does anyone have any advice on not dealing with atrophy? I take Viagra and use it often but I made the decision to medically detrans for now because the genital atrophy dysphoria has been worse than any euphoria I've gotten from results. Has anyone had really great results with tcream? I'll probably take a 3 month break and then get back on hrt with tcream, if anyone has any advice or like anything I should adjust about my game plan please let me know 😔
some trans guy got mad at me for my last post so im gonna do some passing tips 💖
hair and face
the first passing tip i have is for hair is please please dont dye your hair. if you dont do it properly it will die and youll have to cut it back which wont be good. instead use biotin (i think its called?) to grow your hair out quicker and healtier. For face ill link some makeup tutorials on how to femminize your face. if you dont have makeup then try to wear jewlery ie:chokers, earings, necklaces, or other face items like round glasses or eyelashs (they can be bought for like 4 dollars at claires or a dollar store).
2. chest and upper body
one of the best things you can get for chest dysphoria is pushup bras, padding, or a sports bra. somethings thats worked for me that could work for some of you is use socks as padding if you cant afford padding or gels. the way to do it is fold them from tip to back and put it in your bra. it works well for hiding a flat chest or a lack of curves. another thing for curves is to wear waist liners, but dont make them to tight itll fuck up your ribs major.
3. tucking and legs
as a trans women whos goal is to pass tucking is a necisary evil. the way to tuck is to push your balls into theyre sockets and pull back the p*nis between your butt. to keep a tuck in place theres 4 methods ranked from safest to dangerous.
gaffs are special panties made for trans women to tuck tightly and comftarbly. they can cost anywhere from 15 to 250 dollars US. homemade ones can also be made (linked below)
multiple pairs of panties (usually 2 or 3) can be put over the tuck to make it stay (this is the method i use)
duct tape is very dangerous but works so well for things like bathing suits or lingerie. it can however rip skin and cause epidermal damage from the adhesives
and finally is hair ties. yes, some people do this. wrapping hair ties around the scroatal skin can cause blood lose and need for surgery to removed the killed skin.
for legs wear tights and mom jeans to hide a lack of curves (unless you have them).
and for the crescendo
voice:
i will link tutorials below but the best way is to push back your adams apple and speak from the top of your throat and not your chest. practice this on an app like voice pitch anyliser made for trans voice training
please reblog this so all our trans sisters can see💖
-love, alexis texas⛦
edit: @discyours suggested instead of sports bras which when worn for long periods can cause damage, to have vest bras i think theyre called?
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I'm a high school junior (if you don't know what a junior is, I graduate next school year), and as such I've started looking into colleges. I'm also applying to a month-long summer program where I'll be living on a college campus about 7 hours away and taking classes. With all the research I've been doing, I've learned some things that are important
Trans-Related Tips
Are bathrooms accessable for trans people ? This might go without saying, but you're obviously going to have to use the restroom while at school. Policies tend to vary by school on which ones you can use, so ASK. We have college visits where we talk to admissions officers and can ask questions, but if you don't have that, get online and find out. Google "[name of school] transgender bathroom policies" or send an email to admissions. I've had schools tell me I can use male restrooms, but I've also had schools tell me I'd have to use female. It's an important thing to know
On that note, what about dorms ? Some schools have dorms that strictly divide students based on sex/gender (whichever one it may be). Some dorms are co-ed. Some dorms are single-person and you share a bathroom. Some schools have apartment-style dorms where you have a bedroom and you share everything else. Some schools even have dorms that are LGBTQ+ inclusive, where you can be placed with students who are just like you. ASK. Talk to someone, email someone, call someone. Don't get to school and be placed with the wrong gender. And if they have options for you, TELL THEM YOU ARE TRANSGENDER WHEN YOU APPLY. Most places look at your birth certificate and placed you based on if it says M or F. If you want an LGBTQ+ dorm, or to be placed in a dorm that doesn't match your gender assigned at birth, TELL THEM. They won't know otherwise
If you want to play sports, ask about transgender policies. Some times they're totally inclusive, some times it's case to case, sometimes it's whatever you were assigned at birth. ASK. And ask for you specifically. If I talk to a college, I tell them "I'm female to male transgender, and I want to swim in college. What team would I be on ?" Make it specific to you and your sports. Don't get a nasty surprise at the start of the season
This applies to all minorities, but will use trans-related wording: Find out what the school climate is like. And this applies to all minorities. If you're trans, ask if there are other trans students. If you want to see people like you, and you don't want to stick out or be "different", find out if there are people like you. And ask about other students. Are the people there generally accepting towards trans people, or do they have a tendency to be transphobic ? Schools will tell you. I've had people flat out say that it's not a welcoming climate for trans people, and that I might be safer to apply somewhere else
What about teachers ? If you ask them to, will they use your name and pronouns ? Or are they going to misgender you ? If your name and gender aren't legally changed, and you have to tell your professors what name and pronouns to use, make sure your decision will be accepted
Another important note is to FIND OUT WHAT NAME TO APPLY UNDER. I've had schools say to use my legal name, but I've also had schools say to use my preferred name. If it's your preferred name, what do you need to do to make sure everything goes smoothly ? Do you need to tell admissions you're trans so they know why your birth certificate and transcript don't match ? If so, find out. What about test scores ? In America we take SAT and AP exams that are directly from the college board. My college board account is under the name Greyson, and lists me as a male. I was told by my high school guidance office when I set it up that I could do that. All of my tests list me as a boy. If you have to apply under your legal name, how do your test scores transfer ? Who do you need to talk to about that ? How do you make sure there aren't any complications ? This is extremely important, because it could cause trouble with your application otherwise
What's the city like ? Are they inclusive to trans people, or is it unsafe for you to live there ? If you're moving away from home, PLEASE don't end up in an unfamiliar city where you're going to be in danger because you exist. You have to be careful
General Tips
Speaking of the city you move to, what are the crime rates ? Are you going to be safe off campus ? Should you leave at night ? Should you carry pepper spray or something for self defense ? Safety is the top priority
If you're like me and you can't go home for holidays/summer, does the campus have year-round dorms ? You probably don't want to go buy an apartment for the summer, or get a hotel for the holidays. That would not only suck, but be expensive. Make sure you always have somewhere to stay.
What do the meal plans look like ? How many meals do you get per week ? what's that add up to daily ? I recommend 2 meals a day (14 a week). Have a box of cereal in your dorm, and have that for breakfast. Then, eat lunch and dinner on campus.
On the topic of meal plans, does your school have extra meals ? some schools have tokens or "credit card" type systems where there's pre-loaded money that you can use to buy something extra (like a fancy drink or a snack or something), or some places even have options to use that money for places off campus. like if you have a fast food place down the street. If that's an option, it's usually included in your meal plan, and the money is refilled monthly. If you're paying for it, make sure you know about it. Don't waste your money
Find out EXACTLY what you need to bring to your dorm. Most dorms are pre-furnished. If it's college-provided apartments, some of them have furniture, some don't. Know ahead of time. If possible, get a dorm that's pre-furnished
Books are a really expensive part of college. A lot of people will tell you to get them free online, which i totally agree with ! But if you're like me and you're a visual learner, a physical book is nice because you can mark it up. In that case, try and find books second hand. Also, try and wait until class starts to buy your books. Some professors will tell you not to even get a book.
That's all I've got for you. I know this account has been kind of quiet lately, and it's because I don't know what kind of content you want. Below is the link to a Google form where you can tell me a little more about what content you like to see, and suggest posts that you would find helpful. It's super short, so please take a moment to fill it out. I want to continue helping my community. It's like 8 questions, and half of them are optional. It only takes a minute.
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I saw a lot help blogs for ftm people but only a few for mtf. Thats why I created this one. I'm mtf myself and 18 y. o.
I came out to my fiance about me possibly being trans and she dumped me. She says she will love and support me but she cant be in a romantic relationship with someone who is transitioning. She says that its too much for her to handle. And if i do still want her after i transition i can attempt to court her again as she is demisexual and would have to fall in love with me again.
Note that we have been together for over 10 years now since sophomore year of highschool. Im devastated. I finally come out and this is the reaction.
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Will be starting to post timeline photos each month on HRT since i started now. Already on 2-3 months so will show some images from the past two and go from there.
Hi all!!! I find writing on here instead of keeping it in my head helping, and even though I don't get much interaction, receiving something back helps So I have been spending some time with my friends dressed as Iona and my other half has helped me so much that I feel that I am coming out of myself more and more. I am talking about it in public with people who I trust and ain't getting as shy. I love buying the clothes and trying them all on. It's a shock how comfortable I'm coming around everyone and am so greatful. Also checked my weight today and I've lost half a stone in a month!!! My life is getting better although I will soon be going to counciling. I know it's all going to come out and people are going to need to deal now because this is right and I'm thinking I'm close to being ready to show the world. Love to all!! X
