#multiphobia

[tboygirl-discourser]

We're so backwards nowadays.

It's not women's reproductive rights. It's the reproductive rights of anyone with a uterus and the ability to fall pregnant. There are women who cannot due to surgeries or infertility, there are intersex folk who do, there are trans folk who do and aren't women, there are multigender folk who do and aren't women or are women and other genders. It shouldn't have to be seen as these people misgendering themselves when they're talking about legislation that directly impacts them.

HRT is not birth control. Just because someone is on testosterone does not mean they're not impacted by these laws. Not all trans folk who aren't transitioning to women are on testosterone, some are on estrogen and it's none of your business why (whether they're intersex or not), you just have to respect it and include them in the conversation.

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

Tw for th****b slurs and r slur, use of tr***y and general exorsexism, transandrophobia, intersexism and ableism.

I dont even have anything to say. The posts are public so Im not censoring any usernames. Just feel like Im going insane seeing such violent exorsexism (and multiphobia as their intrisically tied to each other) and ableism hidden behind "it's a joke blog" and "it's not that deep". Putting being a binary trans monogender person on a pedestal and any association or partnership with anyone different is treated as disgraceful and a sign of not loving yourself.

Im not encouraging harrassment. Someone else acting harmfully doesn't give you the go ahead to harrassment. It's still wrong, and remains so in all cases.

Sometimes, people are lead to believe "exorsexism isnt that big of an issue actually", because hey, it's just one of those little things that one minority cares about, why should we care? As if exorsexism and multiphobia and intersexism arent intrisically tied to bioessentialist + genderessentialist rethoric. To fight against misogyny and transphobia you must fight with us against exorsexism, multiphobia and intersexism, you must help us abolish these systems. Just as you must fight against racism and ableism and antiblackness and antisemitism and colourism because oppression is all connected.

This is disgusting and should not be accepted by any trans person. It's not just a 'joke blog', we cannot tolerate people being cruel and mocking minorities even if it's "just a joke". @this-is-varsexism-transphobia @thisisexorsexism @thisis-intersexism @this-is-ableism

[resplendentmackerelsky]

No. Trans men do not hold power over trans women.

No. Trans women do not hold power over trans men.

No. Non-binary people aren't "faking trans" and no, non-binary people don't hold power over binary trans people.

We are all affected by the same structural pressures of cisnormativity, patriarchy (both systemic misogyny and toxic masculinity), and the western gender binary.

Demonising and being prejudiced towards other trans people helps no-one except those who wish us ALL gone from this world.

I swear if anyone derails or is bigoted towards any group of trans people I'm going to come to your house and set you on fire.

[learn-how-to-love]

It’s crazy to me when people like this accuse people of transmisogyny for being fine with male lesbians while simultaneously saying some misogynistic shit and misgendering them (Juniper uses they/them pronouns). Also the same tired objectively wrong rhetoric about TERFs “only” hating transfems in the most nonsensical way (what do you mean “a cis woman who hates nonbinary or genderqueer lesbians is just transphobic not a TERF”? Nonbinary and genderqueer lesbians can be transfem as well? You just sound transmisogynistic + exorsexist saying shit like that) when every transmasc in the world knows what it’s like to be hit with a wall of “traitor” accusations and be forced to hear the same talking points about ROGD whenever we so much as breathe. Like I think you need to work on your own internalized misogyny and transphobia before you try to comment on other people living life with a label you don’t agree with bc this is just ridiculous.

[thisisexorsexism]

Pinterest only lets you add 2 sets of pronouns

this is exorsexism and multiphobia

@this-is-multigenderphobia

[uncle-fruity]

I think you have to be a special kind of loser to give a fuck about someone else's gender labels. What are you? A run-of-the-mill conservative? Who fucking cares if a multigender girlboy calls himself a lesbian? No one is forcing you personally to date her or even hang out with him. What are you going to do about it? Cry on Tumblr to all your other loser conservative buddies? Seriously, get a life. Join a book club. Talk to someone different than you and your friends. Find a way to combat your tendency to make up fake problems. Or, idk, wallow in your self pity that people aren't all conforming to your special wittle worldview.

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

I'm a trans manwoman (among other things)

I'm closeted irl and I'm perceived as a monobinary cis woman

As someone perceived as a woman in patriarchal society, I am targeted by misogyny

I go on the internet, the only place where I can be my true self

People are saying I, a woman, that is perceived as a woman, have male privilege, as if my manhood is a magic spell that completely erases my lived experiences and my other genders

"Trans inclusive" radical "feminists" should shut the fuck up forever actually

This is transandrophobia, anti-masculinity, and transmultiphobia.

Multigender people experience oppression that targets all of their genders, not just one. Even just monogendered trans people face oppression that targets their true gender and their socially imposed gender. This should not be hard for people to understand, yet for some reason, this is something people deem "discourse" worthy.

Additionally, having a masculine gender does not automatically give a person male privilege.

The patriarchy only uplifts men who are pericis, gender conforming, nonqueer, white, able-bodied, able-minded, nonfat, and economically privileged.

Men who fail to fit into one or multiple of these categories are targeted by the patriarchy. (And even men who fall into all of these categories still suffer from the effects of toxic masculinity and anti-masculinity, but that's a whole side tangent.)

No trans person is privileged under the patriarchy. There is no male privilege for trans people.

[this-is-anti-masculinity]

Stop centring on cisboys when people talking about trans men

[And you're always goin to do "but what about (those) cis men? 🥺"]

I literally have no idea what you're referring to, anon.

Are you referring to the fact that I bring up cistrans men (ie; cisgender transsex men, some multigender men, etc) when talking about trans men?

Are you referring to the fact that I bring up intersex cis men who may share the struggles of peritrans men?

Are you referring to this post [link] which is literally about how trans man =/= man with periods, and cis man =/= man without periods? And has cis men as one of the main talking points from the very start? And is about the hatred of men in general, not just trans men?

Because if thats what you are referencing, then no, I'm not going to stop. I am going to continue to include cistrans men, intersex cis men, and (when appropriate) pericis men.

Please use your head, anon, and understand that cis and trans are not opposing forces, and that cis and trans issues can overlap or be completely the same.