#pendogender

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flags in order nebulasexual | nebularomantic | nebularose implagender | pendogender | binarian capyromantic | capysexual | capyplatonic

[genderqueer-dream]

Neurogender folks are fantastic!

Neurogenders are important labels that help many people describe themselves!

Neurogenders are not ableist, quite the opposite!

Support neurogender people this disability pride month!

[transflorall]

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eyestrain flag edits forr:

particlegender

pendogender

pinatic

realityglitchic

IDs to be added

particlegender, pendogender and realityglitchic non-eyestrain flag edits!

I could not for the life of me find pinatic Im so sorry, also sorry if the flag for particlegender is wrong the only source I could find for it was a comment on a subreddit thread

TS: anyone can interact and use, OP is pro-mogai, hate or discourse will be deleted. end TS

[themogaidragon]

Xumgender

Xumgender(or pendogender): the state of never being satisfied with ones gender, no matter how well it fits, due to self-doubt or identity issues. This causes one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better though one will never because of one's neurotype and/or because words will never be able to describe one's gender and/or because one's gender is paradoxical. This inability to find a "one true gender" frequent causes anxiety and doubt and can even cause the label xumgender to feel imperfect to the individual. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people. It was specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.

[neopronounsmybelovaed]

wait do you actually have OCD?

if so... poggers, another OCD neopronoun user!

speaking of... do you know of any OCD-related xenogenders and/or neopronouns? my OCD messes with my gender, so it would be cool to have a gender that reflects that

Yeah, I have OCD, and it's shit!!! But OCD neopronoun user buddies! I don't get so much of the like stereotypical neatness/organization but I have pretty bad harm ocd and like health ocd. And everyone's favorite, gender ocd.

Xumgender/pendogender is being unable to stop doubting your gender because of neurodivergence, especially OCD. I don't really label my gender beyond genderqueer but I resonate a lot with that experience if you like it too.

Also I'm not sure if there's a label for it but since a lot of OCD is around being uncertain and HATING uncertainty, I'm flirting with the idea of a gender that's uncertain on purpose and I don't want to figure it out because I have to come to terms with the fact that I probably won't figure it out.

Pronouns I have related to my OCD are...

Quoi/quoir to just embrace that uncertainty shit

Uh/um for some more uncertainty

Fae/fake is kind of about disassociation? I experience that and I think it's related to the OCD.

Mon/ster is specifically about Harm OCD because a lot of the time it makes me feel like I'm a monster so I'm just embracing it which is very sexy of me

Also I never ended up using them but I think I coined pen/pend based on pendogender

I hope this helps you and I hope your OCD isn't too much of a bitch today.

[aceandarothingies]

Microlabel Pride Posts! Day 14

Pendogender folks are perfect!

Pendogender: never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits, usually due to self-doubt. This causes one to compulsively seek out something that fits better. This can also be called gender perfectionism. This gender is for neurodivergents only and was coined with anxiety disorders, OCD and OCPD in mind.

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[xeno-aligned]

hi, are there any xeno/neurogenders related to overthinking/being indecisive about your gender so you can't quite pin it down? maybe influenced by adhd/anxiety? i've always liked the term foggender but i'm not sure if it 100% fits

quite a few!

Pendogender: “Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people only, specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.

Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.

Kynigender: A gender which is not able to be pinpointed due to the stress of the questioning process causing anxiety.

Genderinimicus: A sentiogender which describes a gender experience that cannot be fully felt/comprehended/understood because each time one attempts to mediate on their gender and determine what it does or does not entail/encompass, they feel a great sense of unease or anxiety, they begin to panic, or they become greatly distressed/distraught (including feelings of anger/frustration/despair) over not being able to make the determination. Note that this is not a distress that comes solely from uncertainty, but is a gender experience that necessarily involves an anxious/panicked/distressed sense of one’s own gender. The experiencer is therefore at odds with their gender, and this is the only thing they can know for certain, even if they can approximate what else their gender encompasses. This is dissimilar to questioning or quoigender because it necessarily entails a dissatisfaction with one’s inability to fully grasp their gender. It is NOT just “IDK my gender” or “my gender is IDK”; it’s “I’m disappointed that I don’t know my gender because some emotional barrier is in the way, but I’d still like a term that describes that experience.”

Varumgender / Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.

Nesciogender: A gender one is not completely sure of due to one’s neurotype disallowing a clear understanding of the concept, but has a vague sense of what it could be; i.e. nescioboy, nescioagender, etc.

[2ulk]

My full genderhoard!

In no specific order! You can look through them to see if you’d like to add them to your own hoard :D

SleepGender

Genderhaze, more specifically Hazemasc

Mascuon

Nostalgender (Which I coined! :D)

Stargender, more specifically the first and second definitions

Masculenby

Voidmasc

Tenebraic more specifically Masc and Starmasc tenebraic

Cyber-Astral, Proposition 1

Nullflux

Gendernull

Aliengender

Dreamygender

Genderverre/Verregender, more specifically mascverre and xenoverre

Caelivus

Quoivir

Urbanox

Kynigender

Foggender, more specifically fogboy

Technogender (though this may be more temporary)

Altegender, more specifically: Alteproxvir Alteboy

Squidgender

Trennian

Abandoe

Thalassogender

Seafluic

Tenebraegender

Novarian

Solarian

Dawnian

Daenixian

Neptunian and Plutoian

Mercurian

Ouranian

Wondergender

Angelcoric

Carminisine

Daimogender

Sciencegender

Pendogender

B✰y

Aliensic

Xenobinary, Xenboy, and Xenoboy

Kenochoric: Neagender, Genderabyssalis, Astronomique, Nullflux (See previous + groveflags’ flag design!), Oddcoric, Backroomic, Dreamcoric, Liminalcoric, and as previously mentioned Nostalgender

Obscurian

Bigenderflux, Demiflux, Boyflux

Misceflux (Which I coined)

Esterialgender

Externisgender

Achillica

Arthos/Arthogender