#psys

[mindwrms]

i want a partner who we can be ourselves around. i want someone to hear the way our voice changes when i front and know its me and be excited to see me. i just wanna be me with someone and be loved for me as well as us

[anonymous-solar-system]

i think staying up super late with our partner system, and then waking up at a normal time while still having a normal amount of energy is a great thing. today might be a good day?

[thestarrynightcoalition]

We haven't seen our partner system in like a week because theyre off doing handling work stuff. I miss them so much.

- Solstice

[oceanic-sys]

we r looking for a partner sys, either romantic or queerplatonic. also down for friends, if we sound funky :) sorry this post got very long.

okay some about us:

(below the cut cause im shyyyyy)

about the system!!

collective info: Bayou, he/him, 20. transmasculine femme (agender + demimasc) we r in the USA (rip) & disabled.

main fronters: Seraph (pink, host) & Kathrine (purple, cohost/protector)

we r color coded to hell and back. if we get close im down to explain what they mean, but for now just accept same color = similar role/vibes.

theres about 26~ of us, we dont split terribly often atm. we also have shitty communication rn (at least between me (the host) and the others) we dont switch super often atm, but im hoping to get the ability to switch on command back (suppressing the sys for a while made it hard lmao)

interests!!

consider these all collective interests ig? we care about them to different levels but most of us are interested in everything here. caps = big faves

artsy interests: stationery, penpaling, scrapbooking, JOURNALING, PLANNERS. watercolors, ZINES, photography. sewing, needle felting. webmaster stuff/coding

media interests: (copying these from our website- too lazy to caps)

anime; gundam: witch from mercury, madoka magica, princess tutu, snow white with the red hair, sleepy princess in the demon castle, jojos bizarre adventures, HunterXHunter, dungeon meshi

games; hollow knight, pkm X, balatro, loddlenauts, slime rancher, broken age, pikuniku, wytchwood, skyrim, minecraft, terraria

music: mainly will wood. also doja cat, hatsune miku (esp jamie paige), jack stauber

misc interests: NATURE, birdwatching, animals in general. libraries. TTRPGS. witchcraft/spirituality. TEA. skincare, plushies. CHEESE.

what we’re looking for

you MUST be: 18+, near the CST timezone (USA/Canada/Mexico), looking for something long term if it works out. be active on discord

those are required ^ these are not v

have interests outside of just media. be a lil chronically online. share at least some of our interests. be a bit of a freak.

idk what else. uhhhh dm or comment if you’re interested ig!! please include a little about yourselves!

thanks for reading 💖 cant wait to talk!

[lozsys]

So many people talk about romantic psys I feel like platonic system friends aren’t talked about enough.

I love my brothers, we’re not biologically related nor are we even half siblings, we just one day decided to be brothers.

Since all of us are systems, I’ve always found it kind of.. heartwarming how we care about each other even as different alters

I care about them no matter which alter fronts and I know they care about us no matter who’s in front, even alters that don’t know them. And it’s nice seeing alters that haven’t even spoken to our brothers know they’re loved the way they are.

It’s like being cared about by people you feel like you barely know (even if you KNOW you do) and they don’t mind one bit that you don’t feel like you know them and don’t return the affection. Neither do they force or expect anything of you.

They’re not forcing how much they care about you onto you, it’s just a quiet thing none of you acknowledge but you know is there. Just simple acceptance.

That’s how it is for the old alters that resurface and meet our current brothers I feel like.

I hope we’re able to find more people like this in the future. Genuinely don’t know how we even found these awesome two system friends.. they suckass but they’re my family and i wouldn’t have it any other way.🥹

If they ever find this acc im deleting everything tho. LMAOKKKLLLO my dumbass brothers..

-E🦜

[c00lskidd]

I FUCKING LOVE MY QPP #MYQPP

SHOUTOUT TO QUEERPLATONICS

[henrymuck]

Partner system dating can be irresponsible IF both systems involved are not actively in therapy or getting any kind of help.

You’re essentially navigating multiple relationships at once with identities your brain spilt to protect you. That can become emotionally exhausting and harmful to both systems if you and your partner system are emotionally dependent on each other.

That being said I’m not against it (having an ex partner system myself) but if you are pursuing it, please be careful and responsible.