I'm grey-ace and grey-aro, yet if I'm ever interested in someone and I find out they're interested too, I'm immediately repulsed by the idea of having a relationship with them... I don't know if the other person's interest has anything to do with it or if it's just a fear of commitment, but it's really frustrating either way.
I agreed to enter a relationship with someone after finding out we're both interested, but not even a day later I'm regretting my decision. I literally get a cold sweat when I think about being in a relationship and anything that goes with it and I'm so mad at myself for being like that. I wish I could just be fully aroace so I wouldn't have to worry about any of these "feelings".