I'm aceflux (meaning I jump around on the asexual spectrum) so it is time that I give my own TedTalk to y'all.
I really, really, really (infinetly) hate having to explain asexuality, demisexuality, greysexuality, and being aceflux to virtually everyone but my IRL friends.
But you have all probably read a Tumblr rant on this already.
So I'll rant about the underappreciation of people who are homoromantic, biromantic, panromantic, omniromantic, aromantic, and just about all the other romance-oriented sexualities under the sun.
Lots of people don't know they exist. Hell, I didn't know these orientations existed until I did an art challenge last June for Pride. I did a little digging after the fact and discovered that there were all these romantic orientations that existed.
I was shell-shocked. At the time, I identified as strictly asexual, but within a few weeks (and a buttload of self-discovery) I felt that the labels of aromantic and asexual applied to me.
Over time, I realized that this was a midway point for me, and I am aceflux and omniromantic.
(If you already know what Omniromantic means, you can skip the bit in purple)
Omniromantic meaning I am romantically attracted to all genders, but gender plays a role in attraction, wheras with panromanticism, you are attracted to all genders without gender playing a role in your attraction to them.
This was still a very important period of my life and self-discovery journey in general because I was very new to the LGBTQIA+ community, and wasn't half as aware of other orientations as I am now. However, this is an example of how underappreciated and underrepresented these romantic orientations are.
You can chalk it up to my seemingly one-track mind, but it's also due to the apparent static-ness that I was aware of. I thought that if you were asexual, you were either aromantic or heteroromantic. (I think that's the term)
I wasn't aware of the aceflux orientation until about two-three months ago. I was only made aware of it when I saw it on a social media account, I googled it, and I had a big-brain idea moment. Aside from that euphoria you get when you identify with an orientation, I also wondered, "If aceflux exists, then there has to be more romantic-specific orientation as well, right?"
Obviously, I was successful, but I also want to raise awareness of the existence of these orientations in case it helps anyone else :>
If you read this all the way through, you deserve this:
Dang. Ron Swanson's proud. Noice.
This has been my TedTalk.