Fave thing abt tumblr: scrolling through pretty pics and quotes in my curated dashboard of people who I like
Least favorite thing about tumblr: 22* year old bitches who have never been in a romantic relationship, aren't following me, and know nothing about the past year+ of my life dropping in at the worst possible time with a completely unnecessary and unsolicited multi-paragraph essay about how they can't stand me, and lecturing me about how they somehow know everything, while accusing me of not doing the Really Fucking Hard work I've been doing.
I am 42 fucking years old. I am still very good friends with my ex husband who I spent 15 years with. I have had DECADES of experience in deep, loving relationships. I also acknowledge my fuck-ups and have been working my ass off on my shit. There is not a single person on Tumblr who knows the whole story (as I already said), but someone who hasn't seen my posts in a year or more DEFINITELY doesn't and DEFINITELY did not need to swoop in completely out of the blue just to dump on me in my pain.
Anyway, that bitch is blocked now, and so is Sagi, but that was quite a lot to deal with in the span of five days.
And now I get to scroll through pretty pictures and funny memes again. But I am going to try not to post stream of consciousness nonsense and out-of-context or super-personal shit anymore. Because I think it will serve me better not to. And I can't fucking trust this place.
* i don't fucking know or care. I am 42. Everyone who is 20-29 years old is 22 to me sorrynotsorry