your comment+tags on the martha vs k9 post... literally thank you so fucking much. martha is one of the companions with the most gentle souls ever, she was nervous about hanging up on her mom when she was literally being eaten by a star for fucks sake. like how many other companions wouldn't think twice about hanging up on their mom right then? how many would make funny quips like "sorry mom lol!!"? and MARTHA is still in the running to be the "beat up the doctor" one? i wouldn't be surprised if i missed a moment where k9 actually shot at the doctor tbh
literally!! martha is a fantastic and layered character. she is a lot of things, but she is never a violent person. sheâs brilliant, sheâs a medical doctor, sheâs dedicated her life to helping people!
and yet i *constantly* see posts like this
[image id: a screenshot of a tumblr post that reads: i am manifesting martha jones with a gun for 2023. end image id.]
[image id: a screenshot of a tumblr post that reads: i have my heart set on 15 appearing because of martha jones and a shotgun. the tags beneath it read #dw shit #insert gif of the cheshire cat #grinning here #she didnât manage it the first time but sheâs no quitter!!!! #doesnât Have to be a shotgun. she can shove him off a cliff. end image id.]
thereâs a ton of these posts that are like âif martha comes back in the 60th she should get to kick the doctorâs ass!!â like. bestie I donât know how to tell you this but she forgave him 15 years ago. they are friends in s4. she has an entire life outside of him and she is happy. why do you want her to be hung up on some guy from a decade and a half ago? why do you want her to have an angry grudge against someone who hasnât been a part of her life in a very long time? she moved on. she healed. which is a helluva lot more healthy than still being angry at him.
the doctor treated martha poorly, and thatâs why she left. because she respected herself and she loved herself and knew she deserved better. but I donât think she ever hated him. her choice to leave is framed as heroic. she steps off with a smile and a hug goodbye and a promise to see each other again.
whether or not you think martha should have forgiven the doctor is irrelevant, because she did. because she is a kind-hearted, loving person. and to frame her as otherwise is a really strange reading of her character. i just feel like a lot of people, when (rightfully) criticizing rtd for his treatment of martha, reduce her to something sheâs not, and itâs not fair to her. and iâm not the right person to talk about this, so I wonât go on too long, but i think it would be wrong not to mention that a lot of it feels really racialized. this is a big problem as a whole, but iâve noticed it a lot in fandom where people will take black characters and decide that theyâre violent and they have to be Badass or something. itâs kind of gross. itâs really gross.