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[tryingsobriety]

[tryingsobriety]

Sober on Thanksgiving

I know that for me, and a lot of other people in recovery, Thanksgiving is a really hard day of the year. I wanted to share some things that are helping me get through my day without causing me setbacks or relapse. It’s by no means exhaustive of what you can do to take care of yourself and I hope at least some of it is helpful for you.

1) I’m staying off social media. All it took for me this morning was to get on and see tons of posts of people stocking up on their favorite drinks to give me a craving. For me, photos are especially triggering. I know when we’re around family/friends who drink it’s a bit harder than just shutting off Insta/Facebook/Twitter/Snapchat but it’s one less thing making it harder to keep your sobriety.

2) I’m keeping active in sober communities. This is my exception to my first strategy. I don’t really have sober friends so it’s hard for me to share what I feel about this holiday. But I’m keeping up with this blog (feel free to DM or ask to give or get support!) as well as my sobriety support apps (I’m particularly partial to Sober Grid). If you’re an AA person there’s also lots of meetings/celebrations going on today you can hit up. The point is to keep myself in a space that supports and encourages my sobriety.

3) Journaling. I’m a big believer in introspection and just getting all my fucked up feelings out on a page and not letting them stew for too long. That’s when I become vulnerable to picking up. This also helps not just with cravings but with all the other shit this holiday brings up for me like feelings of isolation & self-hate. I try to journal regularly anyway, but days like this I try to be purposeful about it. One thing I’ve found to be especially helpful (thank you CBT-based outpatient) is to start every entry with a short list of how I’m feeling (just a few adjectives) and then write some about why I think I’m feeling that way. Mind dumps are wonderful too, but I like to start with something a little more structured.

4) Self-care. I’m thinking about all the little things I can do for me today to keep me sober, away from self harming, and mentally safe. For me, I’m letting myself sleep in a bit but then I’m going to make myself get up. Just staying in bed all day, despite how much I want to crawl under the covers and forget I exist, just makes me feel worse in the long run. I’m going to do a bit of exercise (it’s a cold day so staying inside and doing a short yoga video seems like my best bet). I have a lot of body issues but I’m going to remind myself that it is okay to eat today and that even though this holiday can be really hard with food/body issues eating a little too much is a hell of a lot better than drinking.

I hope something here was helpful! I know this day can suck sometimes but you’re not alone and you can make it through this day.

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“Sobriety gives you space to discover the best version of yourself.” 😍

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How to Verify Licensed Sober Living Homes in 2026

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Finding Meaningful Recovery: Using AA Directories for Speakers

THE HEART OF SHARED EXPERIENCE Recovery often feels like an impossible journey at the start. Walking into a support group can be intimidating, but speaker meetings provide a unique anchor. They allow us to set aside our egos and hear the life history of those who have navigated the same path to sobriety. WHY SPEAKER MEETINGS MATTER Unlike standard discussions, speaker meetings offer a comprehensive roadmap. A member shares their history before recovery, their turning point, and how they maintain the 12 steps today. Hearing this authentic narrative helps newcomers realize that change is truly possible. It turns a group of individuals into a cohesive fellowship built on a common purpose. LEVERAGING TOOLS FOR OUTREACH Finding the right speaker requires the right resources. Modern directories help service committees filter by location and meeting type to find individuals who fit their group's demographic needs. By utilizing these tools, organizers can: - Identify members with experience in the 12 Traditions. - Connect with local intergroup offices for speaker lists. - Build relationships through district meetings and area assemblies. Taking the time to curate these experiences ensures that your meetings remain a safe, inspiring harbor for all who seek recovery.

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As of this week, I am three years sober. I fought tooth and nail for some of those days and coasted through others. Sobriety is a wild ride because life is a wild ride, so I’ll never try to predict what tomorrow may bring. But the advice I have for my future self is the same I have for anyone in a similar place: Hold steady through the worst; your life is always worth it.

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Finding Women-Only NA Meetings: A Guide for 2026

Finding a supportive environment for your recovery journey can feel overwhelming, but connecting with the right fellowship makes all the difference. For many women, attending gender-specific Narcotics Anonymous meetings provides a sense of safety and commonality essential for long-term sobriety. WHY CHOOSE GENDER-SPECIFIC SUPPORT? Women often face unique social pressures and stressors during recovery. Dedicated meetings allow for more vulnerable shares and a space free from outside judgment. This environment fosters deeper bonds and helps members focus on healing through the shared experiences of other women. USING A MEETING LOCATOR EFFECTIVELY When searching for local sessions, consider using a reliable directory to filter by type. - Use your zip code to find nearby options. - Look for tags indicating "women-only" or "closed" sessions. - Check meeting descriptions to ensure the setting matches your comfort level. Building a local network through consistent attendance is key to your success. By identifying safe spaces where you feel heard, you create a stable foundation for your recovery in 2026.