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we're not kids anymore.
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Noah Kahan
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
Love Begins
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Mike Driver
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trying on a metaphor
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@thvoidofhell
Idk what trans man out there needs to hear this but being men doesn’t make us evil, or bad. Realizing youre a man doesn’t magically make you a horrible person. You’re not betraying women by realizing youre a man. You don’t need to be scared of becoming something cruel. Men are not inherently evil. Men are not inherently cruel, or monsters.
You are not a monster.
anxiety.
Or, you know, you could just stop saying sorry.
I take it you don’t have anxiety.
You can’t “just stop saying sorry”. You do something, something so little, like accidentally bump into someone. You feel horrible about it. Your brain starts panicking and you have trouble trying to breathe. You stutter an apology. They say it’s okay, but you accidentally do it again, and you apologize again. They just say “Aha, you can stop saying sorry.” And you feel horrible that you’ve probably made them angry or upset, so you mutter out an apology for the third stupid time, and they just say to stop saying sorry. Stop saying sorry.
You can’t just tell someone to stop saying you’re sorry.
…Wow. I’m usually the one that tells people to stop saying sorry. I actually learned something on Tumblr, thanks!
my best friend does this all the time. might I suggest that instead of telling people “stop saying sorry” to tell them something a little softer like “no need to apologize!” or “no worries”? I know the last one sounds a little contradictory for someone with anxiety, but as someone with anxiety, even small reassurances that it’s okay mean everything to me.
I usually say something like “its okay, you didnt do anything wrong” if the apology seems like it comes out of nowhere. I’ll also ask what they think they did wrong and reassure them about that.
i have major anxiety, i can’t just stop saying sorry. little reassurances like the ones in the reblogs above this are so much nicer than being ordered to stop saying sorry. it can make you sound mad depending on the context, and if you’re anything like me it’ll make someone only more sorry
how do i show my parents this post without letting them know i have tumblr?
Like every X Reader/Imagine: “She”
Me, exhausted:
this is how i run in nightmares
I’ve never been able to describe what it’s like running in nightmares. This gif is a PERFECT representation!
Quick Statement…
Writers! PLEASE stop putting x male!reader or x male reader in your tags if it has absolutely NOTHING to do with the reader being a male…
It really gets annoying for us guys who try to find a good fic thats specific to us men…
We already have a hard time finding male reader fics as it is so please don’t make it harder for us…
Dear female Fanfiction writers on Tumblr,
Please consider writing for gender neutral, or even male readers, and readers of other genders. We exist, and it is very hard for us to find stories on this website.
If you only write for female readers: Please don’t just say that it’s a ‘character abc x reader’ fic. It can easily misinterpreted as a story for gender neutral readers. Specify the gender of the reader on your fics, that shows some support as well.
Give blog recommendations of writers who write for readers of other genders as well. That helps a lot.
But most important: Show your support. Do not exclude readers who aren’t female.
Sincerely,
The community of readers who are not female
i love the feeling when someone asks me about one of my hyperfixations and it summons all my thoughts at once like my brain is a discord server that just got hit with an @everyone
someone: so tell me about this thing you like
my brain:
duality
me, adhd, opening and closing the same app 5 times in a row without pause:
tfw your body is doing its best but its best sucks
He’s not a morning person.
Also reminder, dabi is not muscular he's scrawny as hell. In canon he's looking really sickly and this is really sad and worrying
Neurodivergent culture at its finest 👌
EDIT: image description for visually impaired users. Meme of a distressed or angry looking black cat sitting between two people, labled in white text as “me”. It has its claws snagged in one of each of their sleeves, as if trying to hold onto both of them at the same time. White text labels one person as “my current hyperfixation” and the other person as “a past hyperfixation reemerging” End description
Me, knowing damn well I have adhd and can’t remember shit: I don’t need to write it down, I’ll remember :)
Me, when I inevitably forget every single time:
Me: *purposefully clicks on a fic tagged multiple times as a soulmate au*
The soulmate au: and they were soulmates!
Me, gasping: oh my god they were soulmates
*snuggles stuffed animal tighter to compensate for lack of physical touch*
